Receiving on the tongue?

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I will be making first Holy Communion this Easter, after my reception into the Church and Confirmation. I wish to receive on the tongue, but I’m not exactly sure how.

How far should the tongue extend, exactly? What about when kneeling to receive? (I will be attending a Tridentine Mass after the vigil)
 
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RomanRiteTeen:
I will be making first Holy Communion this Easter, after my reception into the Church and Confirmation. I wish to receive on the tongue, but I’m not exactly sure how.

How far should the tongue extend, exactly? What about when kneeling to receive? (I will be attending a Tridentine Mass after the vigil)
It is just as important to open your mouth wide enough for the priest to place the host entirely on your tongue and thus avoid the possibility that the the host could fall. If your tongue just passes over (out) your bottom lip, you will be fine.

Much congratulations to you. May you be blessed to attend a reverent Tridentine Mass and soak up the reference of Catholic Tradition.

As for kneeling, no one can prohibit you communion when you choose to kneel. At the Trindentine Mass, altar (communion) rails are used, so you should fit right in by kneeling.

The Eucharist is God’s greatest gift to us… the eternal Real Presence of His very Son! Please, as a suggestion, read John 6 a few times between now and then. Listen to the very words of Jesus as He repeats, and repeats, and repeats this Truth.

God Bless you.
 
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RomanRiteTeen:
I will be making first Holy Communion this Easter, after my reception into the Church and Confirmation. I wish to receive on the tongue, but I’m not exactly sure how.

How far should the tongue extend, exactly? What about when kneeling to receive? (I will be attending a Tridentine Mass after the vigil)
By no means am I anti-TLM but I thought the TLM was only for those who have an attachment to it. You’re not even received into the Church yet, how could you possibly have an attachment to the old Mass. Does the TLM even allow for reception twice in one day? I don’t think it does.

And regarding your First Communion, may I politely suggest that if the general norm in your parish is to receive in the hand (if your preparation has not included practice for receiving on the tongue, that would be a good sign), you may find the EMHC’s a wee bit uncomfortable to distribute on the tongue. Additionally, you will have enough on your mind without worrying about how far to stick out your tongue, and whether or not your tongue will bump into the person’s hand. Keep it simple and keep your focus in the right place.
 
By all means just relax , stick out your tongue and recieve our most precious Lord. Recieving on the tongue for many is the most reverant way to recieve the Host.
For others recieving by hand is just as reverant.
Either way We are all blessed by this true miracle of the Blessed Sacrament.
Congratulations !
Trick
 
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rcn:
By no means am I anti-TLM but I thought the TLM was only for those who have an attachment to it. You’re not even received into the Church yet, how could you possibly have an attachment to the old Mass. Does the TLM even allow for reception twice in one day? I don’t think it does.
Once a form of mass is approved, to my knowledge anyone can attend. I go to a mass using the 1962 Missal occasionally without any issue. Kind of like how Anglican Use is for those who were formerly High Church Episcopal (or just Episcopal in general). I could (if I wanted to fly down to Texas) attend an Anglican Use Church if I wanted without problems. A Catholic can attend any approved Catholic liturgy he/she wants.

RomanRiteTeen-I don’t see any problem with receiving on the tongue. Go for it. I’m sure whoever is giving you communion has given communion on the tongue before (every church I have ever gone to has a fair mix of tongue folk and hand folk). Just do what Trick says. For simplicity’s sake, I personally wouldn’t kneel (if its not a 1962 Mass) though you are fully within your rights to do so. I usually genuflect before recieving. Welcome to the Church.
 
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rcn:
And regarding your First Communion, may I politely suggest that if the general norm in your parish is to receive in the hand (if your preparation has not included practice for receiving on the tongue, that would be a good sign), you may find the EMHC’s a wee bit uncomfortable to distribute on the tongue.
There is no such thing as a “general norm in your parish” pertaining to the manner of receiving Holy communion! It is completely your choice. If you are the only one in your parish that receives that way and wish to continue to do so, then do so. Do not however kneel unless there is an altar rail or a specific provision for kneeling.
 
I too would have to advise against kneeling–it does disrupt things a little in the Novus Ordo you’ll be attending, and I suspect your spiritual devotion to the Eucharist (like mine) is not yet quite so great as to *require *kneeling. I would suggest a genuflection as a sign of adoration while the person in front of you receives. (Of course, everyone kneels and receives on the tongue at the Tridentine Mass.)

As for reception on the tongue, I think I can say it’s the best way to go, without prejudice to those who can devoutly receive in the hand. After all, Popes St Leo the Great, St Gregory the Great, Paul VI and JP2 (along with Bl Mother Teresa) would have it absolutely no other way.

“Wherever I go in the whole world, the thing that makes me the saddest is watching people receive Communion in the hand.” -Blessed Mother Teresa
 
I would suggest a genuflection as a sign of adoration while the person in front of you receives. (Of course, everyone kneels and receives on the tongue at the Tridentine Mass.)
A bow is the sign of reverence indicated in the GIRM, and there is also many references to unity of posture. Why are you suggesting something other than the norm to a convert?

When being received into a Parish, isn’t it best to follow the norm of the Parish, especially if it is the instruction in the GIRM? Tongue is an option, but if you were instructed to receive in the hand, this would be best. Kneeling is not the norm, so it would not be a good way to start off in a Parish.
 
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Mysty101:
When being received into a Parish, isn’t it best to follow the norm of the Parish, especially if it is the instruction in the GIRM? Tongue is an option, but if you were instructed to receive in the hand, this would be best. Kneeling is not the norm, so it would not be a good way to start off in a Parish.
Ahem – Reception in the hand is an option in the USA and some other places. Receiving on the tongue is the norm, and if you haven’t been instructed how to receive on the tongue your catechists have been incomplete in their instruction.

There is plenty of time for you to ask them now, and even to ask to “practice” with unconsecrated wafers.

tee
 
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pm1853:
Once a form of mass is approved, to my knowledge anyone can attend.
Yes, I know. But the concern I had was that although the church does allow for reception of Communion twice in a day (if the second reception is at a Mass) - the TLM operates under different rules, and I’m not sure if those rules permit reception twice in a day.

And another suggestion for this thread - may we all please not confuse the original poster with all the various personal variations on how to receive, and personal thoughts about what’s “reverent”. First Communion is definitely the time to follow the instructions one is given, so as not to distract others on this special occasion.
 
I read this on another thread, tried it with 2nd graders Sat for practice and it really works

tilt your head back, look at the ceiling (or heaven, or Jesus on the Cross in our church), stick your tongue out like you are at the doctor (just don’t say AAH). some of the kids had to practice, because the tendency is to draw the tongue back in as soon as the host touches it, give the minister a chance. your hands are folded in prayer (or you are carrying a small child) so the minister knows you are not receiving in the hand. either say Amen before you open wide, or skip the amen and just think it.
 
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Mysty101:
A bow is the sign of reverence indicated in the GIRM, and there is also many references to unity of posture. Why are you suggesting something other than the norm to a convert?
The sign of reverence, to my knowledge, can’t be (and isn’t) mandated at all–it’s only recommended. Kneeling and genuflection are in and of themselves signs of adoration. No matter how devout a profound bow or bow of the head it is, it does not represent the proper adoration due to the Blessed Sacrament. Has Christ become the Queen of England, that we should tip our heads to His Divine Presence? If not, then I respectfully disagree with the USCCB’s indication to nod one’s head in the GIRM. It would not be the first time they were wrong about the liturgy. Besides, converts are often some of the best Catholics; they should learn reverence from the very beginning.
 
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Mysty101:
A bow is the sign of reverence indicated in the GIRM, and there is also many references to unity of posture. Why are you suggesting something other than the norm to a convert?

When being received into a Parish, isn’t it best to follow the norm of the Parish, especially if it is the instruction in the GIRM? Tongue is an option, but if you were instructed to receive in the hand, this would be best. Kneeling is not the norm, so it would not be a good way to start off in a Parish.
You better listen to Pope Mysty Roman Rite Teen as she’s an authority on everything.

I’m sure if she was at the Last Supper she would have told Christ how to distribute Holy Communion and tell the Apostles how to receive it.

Despite what Pope Mysty says, you may receive Holy Communion kneeling. As tee_em_off said, receiving on the tongue is the norm in the USA, not in the hand.

I’m continually amazed at how Pope Mysty is so insistent on following the norm when she wants it followed, yet wants to ignore it when it doesn’t go along with her left-leaning ideological agenda.

Note to Pope Mysty: ROME DECIDES WHAT IS TO BE FOLLOWED AND HOW TO INTERPRET DOCUMENTS, not you sweetie pie!
 
or skip the amen and just think it.
The “amen.” is not an option in the GIRM. Receiving on the tongue is optional in the US, so if you must skip the “amen” to receive on the tongue, it would be better to receive on the hand.
 
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DANNY61902:
The sign of reverence, to my knowledge, can’t be (and isn’t) mandated at all–it’s only recommended.
It is in the instructions, as is standing. Kneeling is mentioned only as something to be instructed against.
Kneeling and genuflection are in and of themselves signs of adoration. No matter how devout a profound bow or bow of the head it is, it does not represent the proper adoration due to the Blessed Sacrament.
According to you. Our shepherds have decided differently.What about following the instructions of Jesus (through the successors of His Apostles)? This is also in the GIRM.

I can’t believe so many of you think using your preference over the instructions is more reverent. You say the sign of reverence is not mandated, but it is instructed. You are to be instructed against kneeling, if you kneel. How can you twist that to "It is more reverent to kneel?
 
Swiss Guard said:
You better listen to Pope Mysty Roman Rite Teen as she’s an authority on everything.

I’m sure if she was at the Last Supper she would have told Christ how to distribute Holy Communion and tell the Apostles how to receive it.

Despite what Pope Mysty says, you may receive Holy Communion kneeling. As tee_em_off said, receiving on the tongue is the norm in the USA, not in the hand.

I’m continually amazed at how Pope Mysty is so insistent on following the norm when she wants it followed, yet wants to ignore it when it doesn’t go along with her left-leaning ideological agenda.

Note to Pope Mysty: ROME DECIDES WHAT IS TO BE FOLLOWED AND HOW TO INTERPRET DOCUMENTS, not you sweetie pie!

Is the sarcasm necessary?

This is the instruction from Jesus, through His successors.
Girm160. The priest then takes the paten or ciborium and goes to the communicants, who, as a rule, approach in a procession.

The faithful are not permitted to take the consecrated bread or the sacred chalice by themselves and, still less, to hand them from one to another. The norm for reception of Holy Communion in the dioceses of the United States is standing. Communicants should not be denied Holy Communion because they kneel. Rather, such instances should be addressed pastorally, by providing the faithful with proper catechesis on the reasons for this norm.

When receiving Holy Communion, the communicant bows his or her head before the Sacrament as a gesture of reverence and receives the Body of the Lord from the minister. The consecrated host may be received either on the tongue **or **in the hand, at the discretion of each communicant. When Holy Communion is received under both kinds, the sign of reverence is also made before receiving the Precious Blood.
  1. If Communion is given only under the species of bread, the priest raises the host slightly and shows it to each, saying, Corpus Christi (The Body of Christ). The communicant replies, Amen, and receives the Sacrament either on the tongue or, where this is allowed and if the communicant so chooses, in the hand. As soon as the communicant receives the host, he or she consumes it entirely.
 
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Mysty101:
Kneeling is mentioned only as something to be instructed against. According to you. Our shepherds have decided differently.What about following the instructions of Jesus (through the successors of His Apostles)…I can’t believe so many of you think using your preference over the instructions is more reverent. You say the sign of reverence is not mandated, but it is instructed. You are to be instructed against kneeling, if you kneel. How can you twist that to "It is more reverent to kneel?
The documents of the Church clearly state that those who wish to kneel to receive communion MAY NOT (not should not, not should, not must- MAY NOT) be denied communion for kneeling. Pro-abortion politicians are not supposed to be given communion, but many are “not comfortable with it”. Why the sudden desire for obedience? Is a practice that shows humility and reverence for someone for which the greatest reverence we can give is due?

We should respect clergymen- we do not have to agree with them, or obey them when they are trying to claim authority in matters where do not have authority.

If someone feels it is more reverent to kneel, they have the right to do so. Most parishes allow people to stand to receive communion, but notice that the church documents say nothing about denying someone communion because they stand.

With the way some liturgies are done in the world today, doing things differently then the bishop wants could be the only way to be reverent.

Michael
 
Most parishes allow people to stand to receive communion, but notice that the church documents say nothing about denying someone communion because they stand
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See how you twist? Allow??? Standing is the norm. The document is very carefully worded.

Maybe you might want to reread it.
 
To clarify:

The norm in my parish is reception on the tongue standing, from what I can tell.
I will be received at the Easter Vigil, and late-afternoon next day attend a Tridentine Mass at another parish.

I wish to kneel to receive, on the tongue. From what I have read and been taught in my parish, it is perfectly acceptable. At least three members of my parish kneel to receive (The priest distributes), and he seems to have no problem with it.
 
Why don’t you ask the director of the RCIA program? This should give an answer which takes in the needs of the Parish, as well as your own needs.

God bless you.
 
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