I think it’s wrong. I’ve given reasons why. No one has argued against my propositions successfully, except to say *“It’s allowed, so it’s OK”. * Or “It was done 1600+ years ago, and/or in another rite, so it’s OK to change the Roman rite, now”.


Well, duh!! If you are the only authority on what constitutes a successful argument it’s pretty clear what your conclusion will be regardless of what the rest of the world, or the Church itself, has to say.
Your statement that it is “wrong” is objectively untrue. Period. For it to be “wrong” now would mean that it had to always be “wrong” as “wrong” is an objective state. Since the entire Catholic Church received that way for centuries, and has continued to do so unabated in some rites, it clearly is NOT objectively wrong, your considered opinion notwithstanding.
When it was suspended, it was not done for reasons of reverence. It was done to counteract the potential for a specific heresy. That was a disciplinary decision made by the Church based on the circumstances of the time. The Church has that power and has exercised in many, many ways through its history. If it currently deems that concern not to be significant it certainly has the right to allow a practice that was the norm for many, many saints and martyrs.
Aside from that, the very fact that the Church says it is ok is the ultimate “successful argument” against your proposition. You are not the Pope. You don’t get to make the decisions nor are you privy to all the reasons for them making them. But the Pope cannot lead the Church into impiety.
You are certainly welcome to think that it is an imprudent decision. You are certainly allowed to make your concerns known. You are certainly allowed to choose to receive on the tongue yourself. What you are not allowed to do is to usurp the power of the Pope and declare it to be “wrong”.
And worse, you put yourself in grave danger by copping the attitude that you have some superior position and that others just don’t measure up. That others just aren’t externally reverent enough for you. Jesus devoted substantial cautions in his “woe to you Pharisees” passages. St. Paul included warnings in pretty much every one of his letters against putting stumbling blocks in people’s ways on such things.
This has all been addressed by numerous posters in many different ways so I don’t expect that anything will change for you. But please just try to step outside yourself for a bit to see what it is that so many others see. Nobody here is denying you your right to receive as you wish, or looking down on you for your preference. But it is getting incredibly old listening to the same litany of things that don’t stand up to the Church’s history or its teaching, much less to the message of Jesus on how we are to treat each other.
The fact that you can’t see the benefit, or even give the least consideration that there might be one for others, is very telling. It is the equivalent of me stating that I can’t see how anyone could stand the taste of okra and anyone who likes it must be challenged in some way when it is perfectly legitimate to like okra. The world doesn’t revolve around us and our preferences. Others are allowed to see a benefit that you don’t and to act in a licit and legitimate manner based on that without having to worry about your disapproving glare.
Can we please put an end to this and move on? The Church has spoken and its word is all we have to listen to. If they change it back, then so be it and I’m sure we’ll all conform. Until then though, how about not dividing the Church any further on things that don’t influence our salvation?
Peace?