This is the truth that I hoped would be realized by “pro choice” Catholics who visit this thread, I have been amazed at the extent some are willing to rationalize such clear teaching in their attempts to justify their political views.
It all goes back to your question;
"Does your (properly formed by Church teaching) conscience form your political views or does your political views form your ( improperly formed) conscience.
To be honest, when I joined these forums I didn’t think there was such a thing as a “Cafeteria Catholic.” I thought that Catholics believed in what the Church taught. Now
I didn’t believe in everything the Church taught and I used to play these little games - like asking a priest if it wasn’t enough to just follow the two Commandments that Jesus gave - wouldn’t that get a person into Heaven?
I tried this out on a few priests and they hemmed and hawed and finally said, “Well, yeah…but…” That is where I stopped my questioning because a Catholic priest had “agreed” with me. I wasn’t interested in learning anything beyond that. So I would leave and smile and pat myself on the back, thinking I was just so so smart.
That is until I met a Carmelite monk, and he made it clear that he would tell me everything he could. He told me the truth - that there is so much more than just that tiny little bit of information taken from the Bible. He didn’t say that the Two Commandments given by Christ were wrong, or that they weren’t important; in fact, he said they were extremely important. But there was so much more to the Catholic Church and to being a Catholic. This monk would not let me leave until I heard him out. I don’t mean he tied me to a chair and gagged me; I mean he would not discuss
only that part of the Bible. That day I realized that there is so much to learn that I would be spending the rest of my life (and perhaps beyond) just learning. The monk didn’t fall for my b.s.
That day I went to the little chapel in the Monastery and I prayed. I really prayed, probably for the first time in my life. That is when I gave my life to God and vowed that I would do whatever I could to be a good Christian and beyond that, a good Catholic.
Before this, when any one asked me what my faith was, I would say “I’m Catholic”; not because I was proud of it or was happy that I was a member of the Church that was founded by Christ, but because it was another little game that I played. It provoked controversy and I liked that.
Looking back I can’t believe how utterly stupid I was.
I was the worst kind of “Cafeteria Catholic.” Sure, I had been baptized and had even received The Sacrament of the Sick. I had had my First Communion, and I had been Confirmed; not that I knew what any of that meant. I picked and chose whatever I wanted. Nothing was spared. If I didn’t believe what the Catholic Church taught, especially about contraception, well I was right and the Church was wrong. Period. No room for debate and no room for discussion.
Now I understand that one cannot possibly be a “practicing Cafeteria Catholic.” It doesn’t work that way. Either you follow the Church teachings or you don’t. I didn’t.
Now I do and I feel so much better about myself because I don’t have to play those stupid little games anymore. Now I can be honest and now I understand why contraception is
wrong.
Of course I’m still sinning and making errors and all that. I don’t pretend to know what the Church teaches about a lot of things. But I know I can find the answers in the CCC or I can ask a priest, or I can pray.
I now accept Church teaching as a whole. There are an awful lot of people, much more intelligent than me, who have spent their lives writing and translating and praying about the Truth. I defer to their judgment.