Hmmm. I do seem to recall that Jesus made a whip of cords and used it to drive moneylenders from the Temple, saying, “My Father’s House is a house of prayer, and you have made it a den of thieves”. Strong words, strong actions, needed for a great offense against God. Wouldn’t you have expected more understanding from almighty God? I mean, were these people greater sinners than MURDERERS or ADULTERERS, whom He appeared to “let off the hook” with a “go and sin no more” and no physical punishment?
Methinketh that there are some who feel that any sort of “criticism” is somehow, shall we say, “anti-Christian”, as though Jesus in saying “love thy neighbor” was saying, “even if thy neighbor is doing wrong which will send him or her to hell, don’t even THINK about saying anything to thy neighbor which will HURT HIS OR HER FEELINGS”. . . as though FEELINGS were the ONLY criterion that mattered. While I note duly that Jesus did not condemn, say, the woman caught in adultery, He DID tell her to “go and sin no more”. Not, “there, there, those nasty patriarchical hypocrites are gone, so go on back and do what you FEEL you need to do, I’m in your corner, you’ll be forgiven”.
So. . .when it comes to sin (it is still around though sadly many people seem to have lost a sense of it), it is indeed profoundly UNCHRISTIAN and UNLOVING of a Christian person to pretend that it doesn’t exist, to make all sorts of excuses NOT to talk about it, to act as though there will be no consequences and that somehow God isn’t really interested in justice or truth, but just in having us all “be happy”, whether that happiness causes pain, physical death, or eternal damnation for that person or for others.
The Christian center is exactly that, a center. The central teachings in the Church are, and remain, what Jesus taught us, which is far more than “don’t worry, be happy” or even “turn the other cheek”. Love is the key–it’s just that we have forgotten that sometimes love means having to deny someone something that could hurt him. Do you let your two year old eat candy until his teeth rot? Do you let your teen have sex at 14 because he or she WANTS TO? Do you allow your coworker to drink two sixpacks and then drive because, “hey, it’s HIS choice”, etc.?
Well, golly gee, why NOT? Well, the answer is that it is more important to love your child or your friend by denying them what they WANT, in order to keep them healthy and safe. And guess what. . .sometimes you have to be the “judger”, because sometimes there ARE really really bad consequences, even fatal consequences, for people wanting what is bad for them, even if they are yelling that it is their CHOICE, and who are YOU to tell them that they are WRONG? This is not, God forfend, a question of “uppity Catholics” beating up on poor defenseless people who have “differing viewpoints”, but heaven knows that a sizeable number of people in the media, and sadly even in Christian circles themselves, are trying to make it appear to be.
Here’s a saying to ponder: A person who will not stand up for something winds up falling for everything.