Is it just that half the flock is ineligible for the positions of highest authority in the Church (women)?
Because Jesus Christ instituted an all-male priesthood; just as the Aaronic and Levitical ministerial priesthoods of Judaism were male, so too the Christian ministerial priesthood is male. This is not a decision that the Church can change: the Catholic Church has no power to ordain a woman. This is a matter of doctrine which is irreformable.
Jesus Christ is the bridegroom, the Church is the bride. Priests minister
in persona Christi, in the person of Christ, and so it is fitting and right that priests are males. (This is also why marriage must between one man and one woman: because a married couple is an image of Christ and the Church.)
Furthermore, is it just to exclude married men from those positions?
Married men
may be ordained as deacons and priests. (Married priests are more common in the Eastern Rites than in the Western Rites.) Clerical celibacy is a
discipline, not a
doctrine, and it can be changed. Whether it
will is another matter.
How come men who were married whose wives have died are suddenly eligible? Was it their association with living women that made them ineligible?
Being married is a major obligation. The Church values celibacy among her clergy so that they can be undivided in their attention to their spiritual spouse, the Church.
What would Jesus say about this?
We know what Paul said about it, and since Paul’s writings are sacred Scripture, inspired by the Holy Spirit, we can be sure they are in accord with the teaching of our Lord Jesus Christ. I would suggest reading
1 Corinthians 7 and
Ephesians 5:21-33.
We also know what the Second Vatican Council said about this matter. I would suggest reading the following:
Optatam Totius 10,
Presbyterorum Ordinis 16, and
Perfectae Caritatis 16. Of particular note is this passage from that first document: “Students ought rightly to acknowledge the duties and dignity of Christian matrimony, which is a sign of the love between Christ and the Church. Let them recognize, however,
the surpassing excellence of virginity consecrated to Christ, so that with a maturely deliberate and generous choice they may consecrate themselves to the Lord by a complete gift of body and soul.” (
… perspiciant autem virginitatis Christo consecratae praecellentiam…)
Can find no reason for the current rules.
That’s what
faith is all about: even when we cannot understand, we can still believe. Faith is not opposed to reason, but supplements and even surpasses it.
Wonder what will happen if the Holy Spirit is female…
God is neither male nor female. God is the origin of male and female, and God exhibits traits we consider “masculine” and “feminine”. But God has also revealed Himself as a Trinity of Persons: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. And the Church sees in the Holy Spirit the
spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
Feel free to point out where in scripture it says that women or married men cannot be priests.
We’re not a
sola scriptura Church.
We seem to be bending that rule now with our recruiting of Episcopalian priests.
That’s disgusting language: “recruiting Episcopalian priests”. First of all, there is no rule that married men may not be priests; see my above comments. (Note, however, that in the Catholic and Orthodox Churches, married men
may not be bishops.) Second, the gesture to the Anglican communion is not one of desperation to solve the current vocations crisis: it is about
the salvation of souls, of bringing people who are
so close to the Catholic faith that one last step, into the loving arms of Holy Mother Church.