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A friend of mine was married many years ago in the Church. The marriage lasted less than a year and they were civilly divorced. He did not seek an annulment from the Church.
A few years later he was re-married outside of the Church. Several years after that, he sought and was granted an annulment from his first marriage. He and his wife then had their marriage convalidated in the Church.
Now several years after that, he looked into joining our local diaconate formation program. After a long review he was told “no.” They said he was effectively married to two women at one time (given that his first marriage had not been annulled, he was at least in an adulterous relationship with his current wife) and that the Church would not subject itself to the possibility of such scandal.
This doesn’t seem kosher to me. Yes, he sinned but he also took care of everything – long before it became expedient to do so. What do you all think? Thanks.
A few years later he was re-married outside of the Church. Several years after that, he sought and was granted an annulment from his first marriage. He and his wife then had their marriage convalidated in the Church.
Now several years after that, he looked into joining our local diaconate formation program. After a long review he was told “no.” They said he was effectively married to two women at one time (given that his first marriage had not been annulled, he was at least in an adulterous relationship with his current wife) and that the Church would not subject itself to the possibility of such scandal.
This doesn’t seem kosher to me. Yes, he sinned but he also took care of everything – long before it became expedient to do so. What do you all think? Thanks.