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aurora77
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Oh please, a healthy sex life is one of the most fun ways to emotionally connect as a married couple. It doesn’t make a woman a whore to initiate sex with her hubby! I thought this was great advice–if it’s not TMI, I know my DH likes it when I’m the forward one.Do not this! You don’t have to present yourself as a whore to him! You’re better than that. No need to accessorize yourself with what “pros” use as though you had just come back from a night’s work at the nearest peep show. :tsktsk:
Just be yourself, a woman, his wife. If you want to be intimate with him, don’t appeal to his pornographic memories, rather invite him and make yourself available to his seduction.
Gam3erchic–do you two have any hobbies in common? Is there anything new the two of you would like to do together? DH and I bought a GPS and started geocaching together last June. It’s been so much fun. We’ve spent many a Sunday afternoon hiking in the woods, then going out for a late lunch together. It’s been a great way of reconnecting as a couple.
Another thing I’d suggest would be taking some time off together. DH and I each took off from Christmas Day till tomorrow. We’ve spent time with our families, and took a short vacation to a place we’d never been before. It was just fun and relaxing. If you can arrange for some extended time off (longer than a weekend), that may help. I know it did for us.