Relationship problems

[Eucharisted]

So, my online girlfriend hasn’t spoken to me in three months, which might not be her fault, and I am starting to lose my attraction to her - or maybe its the depression from missing her. I don’t know. My interests are shifting from butch and chubby girls to skinny and strong girls, and she is chubby.

I want a Catholic girl, too. But I don’t know if God wants this, so I’m leaving it up to Him. I know He works in mysterious ways, so I’ll just see what happens.

Anyway, just had to get that out of my system. Sorry for clogging up the tubes, CAF.

 

[whatevergirl]

*Hi Eucharisted

Have you ever met this girl, or is she strictly ‘an online’ girlfriend?

Whatever God’s will is, that is definitely the way to think about all situations in our lives, including love. I don’t know if I would only seek out women based on a certain look that you’re after, but be open to any and all people who God might present to you. Blessings, on your journey. *

 

[OLHope]

Maybe you should lay off physicalites as good markers for mate choosing and stick to spiritual and faith commonalities. Also, the good old fashioned “actions speak louder than words” method goes a long way. The latter is difficult to do with someone online because you cannot always know how they are really reacting to anything you do or say.

 

[thevickinator16]

Hey there!

I won’t knock how you meet anyone. I do knock looking at someone based on their looks. The heart and soul are what make a good relationship. Physical attraction fades as does the looks themselves. The heart and soul should only get stronger with time and love.

Look for the depth of someone’s soul and you will find happiness, no matter what they look like. Look just for the physical aspects and I think you won’t find what you are truly looking for. Love has to be central as well as spirituality.

Now don’t give up, you will find the right one yet!

God Bless!

 

[Eucharisted]

I’m sorry I got everyone confused about looks.

I don’t love Mya because of how she looks, I love her because she is kind, truthful, understanding, and has common interests with me.

But thank you everyone for telling me love isn’t skin deep. It always helps to hear the truth

Thank you, whatevergirl, for telling me to live God’s Will.

 

[excaliber]

Looks are not the most important
thing. And that computer stuff isn’t
very reliable as you can see.

Ofcourse sex is a part of marriage
so you don’t want to marry someone your not phisicaly compatible with. but if she is just
a computer friend, I don’t see the point.