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My grandmother just passed. Is it permissible to have take a small piece of skin and place in a reliquary? Or is that not allowed?

Thank you
 
Hello
My grandmother just passed. Is it permissible to have take a small piece of skin and place in a reliquary? Or is that not allowed?

Thank you
Please don’t do this.
The best memorial of your grandmother is your memories, and the prayers you pray forthe repose of her soul.
We are bound to treat the deceased with dignity.
God bless, and I’m sorry for the loss of your grandmother.
 
A lock of hair is more traditional. I saved locks from my children’s’ first hair cuts - but they are both quite alive. However, when a good friend of my daughter died she asked for a lock of hair.
 
Please don’t do this.
The best memorial of your grandmother is your memories, and the prayers you pray forthe repose of her soul.
We are bound to treat the deceased with dignity.
God bless, and I’m sorry for the loss of your grandmother.
Agree. Also a lock of hair would be more appropriate.
Praying for the repose of your Grandmother’s soul & for her family.
 
As you know from biology/anatomy, skin will turn into dust. Hair on the other hand is made mostly of protein and will Live" on in a locket. To remove skin from a corpes would be to desecrate the body and may also be subject to legal issues. Strange thinking from the poster.
 
As you know from biology/anatomy, skin will turn into dust. Hair on the other hand is made mostly of protein and will Live" on in a locket. To remove skin from a corpes would be to desecrate the body and may also be subject to legal issues. Strange thinking from the poster.
Obviously I want to desecrate her body… //sarcasm

Anyways, thank you all for your responses.
 
Obviously I want to desecrate her body… //sarcasm

Anyways, thank you all for your responses.
I am sure you don’t want to or intend to do so, but note there are various forms of desecration to the human body. I just don’t think you thought this out well. Please be at peace.
 
Whether hair or skin, IMNAAHO clinging to any fragment of the biological body is a mistaken idea.

The person’s natural life is over, and when you see her again, she will have a renewed “Spiritual Body.” That is what her survivors should concentrate on.

Again IMNAAHO.

ICXC NIKA
 
I have a feeling that the OP’s original question may have been inspired by the Church’s practice of collecting and displaying first class relics of saints, so it may be helpful to provide some context as to why collecting the skin of a recently-deceased loved one would be different scenario.

Unfortunately, I don’t think I’m equipped to answer this adequately, so any additional clarification would be welcome.
 
. . .note there are various forms of desecration to the human body.
I’ve always thought it odd that the Church has long condoned desecration of the body in its search for relics of saints. I wish I could remember which saint this was, but years ago I read about a saint who fell ill while travelling. He was anxious to get to his home monastery as he already had a reputation for saintliness and he was afraid of what would happen to his body if he died anywhere but at home. Sure enough, he died at a neighboring monastery & they did cut him up for relics. 😦
 
I have a feeling that the OP’s original question may have been inspired by the Church’s practice of collecting and displaying first class relics of saints, so it may be helpful to provide some context as to why collecting the skin of a recently-deceased loved one would be different scenario.

Unfortunately, I don’t think I’m equipped to answer this adequately, so any additional clarification would be welcome.
Well, in the case of a canonized saint, it is someone known to be in Heaven, and relics of the body are taken not for a private memento but as a physical presence of a now Heavenly being.

(As a priestly friend once explained to me, statues and the like of Saints do not violate the “graven image” prohibition precisely because we are not to make such images of earthly beings; but a canonized Saint is now a Heavenly being.)

No such veneration is intended when “relics” are sought after a familial death.

First class relics (parts of the body) are also kept in Churches, receiving therefore the respect due the human body they were part of. They are not kept on a nightstand or around someone’s neck, etc.

ICXC NIKA
 
I’ve always thought it odd that the Church has long condoned desecration of the body in its search for relics of saints. I wish I could remember which saint this was, but years ago I read about a saint who fell ill while travelling. He was anxious to get to his home monastery as he already had a reputation for saintliness and he was afraid of what would happen to his body if he died anywhere but at home. Sure enough, he died at a neighboring monastery & they did cut him up for relics. 😦
I am rather at a loss as to why anyone would categorize the Church’s action of exhumation and retrieval of relics as *desecration *of the body since it is entirely oriented to honoring the body of the person, which is destined to be glorified in the resurrection, and the veneration of the newly beatified and canonized.

In the modern process, the body is exhumed (assuming the body was not lost, as was the case with various martyrs) according to an established protocol for a canonical recognition. At that point, first class relics are typically collected – but these are destined for the veneration of the faithful and, many times according to one of the Church’s most venerable traditions, incorporation into the sepulchre of an altar or else for exposition.

Conversely, desecration of the body would be, for example, what would have happened had the Roman mob succeeded in its attempt to seize the corpse of Pope Pius IX and throw it into the Tiber as it was being taken, per his request, to be entombed at the Basilica of Saint Lawrence Outside the Walls.

Normally, though not universally, the earthly remains is enshrined in conjunction with the process leading to beatification.

In any event, I believe you are referencing the end of life of Saint Thomas Aquinas and his death at the Abbey of Fossanova, some 60 miles southeast of Rome.
 
First class relics (parts of the body) are also kept in Churches, receiving therefore the respect due the human body they were part of. They are not kept on a nightstand or around someone’s neck, etc.

ICXC NIKA
Actually, first class relics may indeed be worn around someone’s neck as they can be incorporated into pectoral crosses. That said, the majority of modern pectoral crosses do not contain a relic – but if one is handling one from a previous era, one does well to presume that it does contain a relic, at least in Europe.
 
Hello
My grandmother just passed. Is it permissible to have take a small piece of skin and place in a reliquary? Or is that not allowed?

Thank you
First, my condolences on the passing of your grandmother. I will remember her in my Masses and prayers.

I would also join with those who propose that a lock of hair might be a better choice.

Conversely, I will share that before the death of St. Therese of Lisieux, in addition to having conserved her very long hair that was cut on the day when she took the veil/received the habit (it is now displayed behind glass in Lisieux), the nuns conserved some clippings of her nails, as these do not degrade as skin typically does. You may wish to consider that alternative.

Again, my prayers for the happy repose of her soul and for the comfort and consolation of you, her family, and all touched by her passing.
 
I am rather at a loss as to why anyone would categorize the Church’s action of exhumation and retrieval of relics as *desecration *of the body since it is entirely oriented to honoring the body of the person, which is destined to be glorified in the resurrection, and the veneration of the newly beatified and canonized.
Whatever you might want to call it, it still seems barbaric to me. Keeping locks of hair is one thing, but separating bones & other things is just plain weird to me.
In any event, I believe you are referencing the end of life of Saint Thomas Aquinas and his death at the Abbey of Fossanova, some 60 miles southeast of Rome.
Thank you. Now I’ll be able to look it up & see if my memory and/or where ever I read it was accurate.
 
Actually, first class relics may indeed be worn around someone’s neck as they can be incorporated into pectoral crosses. That said, the majority of modern pectoral crosses do not contain a relic – but if one is handling one from a previous era, one does well to presume that it does contain a relic, at least in Europe.
I have one of these I received from a priest friend who was given several boxes of relics from some Ursaline sisters whose convent is dying out. It’s full of ornately placed first class relics and a piece of the Agnus Dei sacramental.
 
A piece of bone, a lock of hair, a snippet of cloth are less un-appealing than a peace of skin. Hopefully the bone is not a cut up remnent of a mutilated body for the sake of a relic. Europe was noted for “selling” real and fake relics during the Dark Ages, from slick hawkers to well regarded Monestaries. For me, a nice photo or family album is my “relic.”
 
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