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I just wanted to start a thread which dealt with Religious Life and for those discerning vocations as a Brother or Sister. I have already started a group on this topic. I have been considering becoming a Franciscan or Salesian Brother.
 
🙂 Good for you! I’ll be praying for your discernment as God wills. :gopray:

I believe God wills me to be a religious sister, although, I’m not entirely certain.
 
Wow! What a great gift! What order are you currently interested in?
 
I just wanted to start a thread which dealt with Religious Life and for those discerning vocations as a Brother or Sister. I have already started a group on this topic. I have been considering becoming a Franciscan or Salesian Brother.
I’m glad to hear that you’re discerning a vocation to the religious life, esepcially to be a brother. The Church has a desperate need for brothers. There is a need for men who will consecrate their lives to live for Christ alone, in poverty, in obedience and in chastity. There are many broken people in the world who need the love of Jesus, the first-born among many brothers and sisters.

I would encourage you to think about the unborn and the chronically sick and elderly who have lost hope in life. We need brothers who will serve them.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
One of the reasons for wanting to become a Franciscan Brother because they, I believe, have the perfect balance of prayer, work, structure, and service to life. I would love to work with Sisters of Life, I wish they had a Brothers of Life.
 
Wow! What a great gift! What order are you currently interested in?
I wish I knew. I’m still discerning. Hopefully God will lead me to it when he feels I should go.
I’m fairly certain that I’m supposed to go finish schooling in medicine first. Ever since I was young I felt a pull toward being a religious. Maybe after I’m done I’ll join a group having to do with caring for the sick.

Quick question…when did you first start believing that was your vocation? What sparked the idea that made you certain? 🙂 Just out of curiousity.
 
One of the reasons for wanting to become a Franciscan Brother because they, I believe, have the perfect balance of prayer, work, structure, and service to life. I would love to work with Sisters of Life, I wish they had a Brothers of Life.
We have received permission to get the Franciscan Brothers of Life up and going in Florida. Did you check out their website?

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I wish I knew. I’m still discerning. Hopefully God will lead me to it when he feels I should go.
I’m fairly certain that I’m supposed to go finish schooling in medicine first. Ever since I was young I felt a pull toward being a religious. Maybe after I’m done I’ll join a group having to do with caring for the sick.

Quick question…when did you first start believing that was your vocation? What sparked the idea that made you certain? 🙂 Just out of curiousity.
My vocation story is longer than most. It started with this deep fascination I had with the hierarchy of the Church, the archbishops, cardinals, etc. That was when I was very yong. I had no real conception of what the priesthood was about. The year before high school things changed. A young priest at the parish had caused me to have an interest in the priesthood. I wanted to become a priest, but it was for terrible political reasons. As time went on, I actually began to love the faith. I started faithfully attending Mass. I was inspired by a Sister, who everyone thought was too strict, to go to Mass daily and become closer to God. At the same time I was working with another Sister, working with underpriviledged youth and holding collections for the poor, etc. As time went on I lost the urge for the priesthood because I got involved with this girl. After going without speaking to her for a long time and realizing that my hope was over I was REALLY bad. I was doing things that were ludacris. I became an atheist to justify my actions. I wasn t actually an atheist. Anyway, I was feeling called back to the Church. So I would go to Confession, where I found my spiritual director. However, I would always fall into my same atheistic ways. I decided that the only protection from sin was through isolationism, which I was wrong. I realized that God wasn t calling me to the priesthood, but to the Brotherhood. I realized this after having a strong desire to become a monk, but eventually losing that because I realized I am way too talkative, hence the reason for this enormously large reply. I found that spiritual purification came not so much from self-discipline, but from the loss of self to the service of others. Now, I live a life of structure with time for prayer, work, and penance. I have come to a conclusion that I am called to work with women, because of my relationship with my mother. I have also come to conclusion that I was meant to engage in service to young children because of past relationships with them. So, that is pretty much in an extremely LARGE nutshell.
 
My vocation story is longer than most. It started with this deep fascination I had with the hierarchy of the Church, the archbishops, cardinals, etc. That was when I was very yong. I had no real conception of what the priesthood was about. The year before high school things changed. A young priest at the parish had caused me to have an interest in the priesthood. I wanted to become a priest, but it was for terrible political reasons. As time went on, I actually began to love the faith. I started faithfully attending Mass. I was inspired by a Sister, who everyone thought was too strict, to go to Mass daily and become closer to God. At the same time I was working with another Sister, working with underpriviledged youth and holding collections for the poor, etc. As time went on I lost the urge for the priesthood because I got involved with this girl. After going without speaking to her for a long time and realizing that my hope was over I was REALLY bad. I was doing things that were ludacris. I became an atheist to justify my actions. I wasn t actually an atheist. Anyway, I was feeling called back to the Church. So I would go to Confession, where I found my spiritual director. However, I would always fall into my same atheistic ways. I decided that the only protection from sin was through isolationism, which I was wrong. I realized that God wasn t calling me to the priesthood, but to the Brotherhood. I realized this after having a strong desire to become a monk, but eventually losing that because I realized I am way too talkative, hence the reason for this enormously large reply. **I found that spiritual purification came not so much from self-discipline, but from the loss of self to the service of others. **Now, I live a life of structure with time for prayer, work, and penance. I have come to a conclusion that I am called to work with women, because of my relationship with my mother. I have also come to conclusion that I was meant to engage in service to young children because of past relationships with them. So, that is pretty much in an extremely LARGE nutshell.
The bold is mine. It’s funny that you should say this. Today we had a "pre-Christmas mass and lunch with the bishops of the Archdiocese and those who work in the different ministries: lay, religious and clergy. One of the bishops and I were discussing the Brothers of Life. Somewhere in the discussion he asked me if I didn’t think that we were working too hard. He was concerned because he says that I’m losing weight. (Something for which I’m glad; that’s another story). I suddenly found myself saying something very similar to him, “He who loses his life shall find it.” He looked at me and smiled. He’s is being very instrumental in giving us a lot of support and is an unofficial protector. I say unofficial, because the Archbishop has given us an official protector, but the auxiliary has been like a father.

Anyway the point is that you said that above, about serving. It reminded me of this conversation. I was not trying to be flippant. It was what came to mind immediately. Unless you are willing to lose you life, you will not find it.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I just have one question about the Brothers of Life. Is your order as monastic as a Franciscan order such as the Franciscan Friars of the Immaculate? Or is it more focused on service like the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal?
 
Wonderful topic, I feel the calling as well. I’m looking into several orders, but I’m going to be somewhat limited by my age (I’m a widow and my children will still be dependent on me for another 5 or 6 years). Most orders won’t take women over 40.

Miz
 
I really hope your not 40 now because come 46 I am not too sure how you will fair. Now I ask you a question. Are you sure that your role is not with your children now?
 
I just have one question about the Brothers of Life. Is your order as monastic as a Franciscan order such as the Franciscan Friars of the Immaculate? Or is it more focused on service like the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal?
That’s a great question. I guess the best way that I can respond to that is by giving you a description of the typical day of a brother. I’ll try to make it fit into the little space thatt we’re given here.

The Brothers of Life are to live an intense life of prayer. The celebration of the mass is the focal point of the day. The Liturgy of the Hours is like a crown around the celebration of the Eucharist. The brothers must pray the entire Liturgy of the Hours, meaning all of the hours. In addition, the brother must spend an hour a day before the Blessed Sacrament in reparation for the sins against the unborn, the sick and the vulnerable and praying for the conversion of those who sin against the Gospel of Life. In additiont to this, each brother is to spend at least a 30 minute period in lectio divina, pray the holy rosary or the chaplet of Divine Mercy. The brother must have a community life of prayer as well as a personal life of prayer. Grand silence is observed from night prayer to breakfast.

During the day the brother works in one or more of the folowing ministries:
  • pregnancy center
  • Respect Life Office
  • teaching fatherhood classes to expectant fathers
  • preparing education materials on the Gospel of Life
  • preparing and running chastity days for youth
  • preparing and running retreats for volunteers
  • working with Rachel’s Vineyard retreats
  • doing counseling to those who have to heal from the effects of abortion
  • giving talks at schools, parishes and anywhere people need to hear about the Gospel of Life
  • teaching religious education
  • youth ministry
  • pre-marriage counseling
  • manual labor
  • sitting with a sick person who is dying and with their familiy praying them into the hands for the Father
  • attending marches and othe pro-life demonstrations such as the Walk for Life
  • raising funds for the ministry
  • adminsitrative work
  • services to the community of brothers when needed
  • even working at a job to bring in money to feed ourselves
The brother wears a simple grey habit, similar to that of the Franciscans of the Renewal, but with a Tau over his chest to remind him that he has been chosen just like Ezechiel was chosen and that God has promised him salvation if he is faithful.

I hope that paints a clearer picture. Feel free to ask or to use our website. There is form there for more information via email or snail mail.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
That sounds like my ideal lifestyle! I also like that you are working in an area which face a great deal of poverty problems because that allows it to be an authentic Franciscan order.
 
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