Remember, It's Un-Christian Not To Judge

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“Don’t be judgmental!” is one of the mantras of modern society. What does this really mean, and is it in concert with Christian teaching? Well, it’s certainly true that it’s a popular phrase and sentiment within the Catholic Church and other Christian groups as well. The justification for the condemnation on judging most often given, of course, is the words of Christ from Matthew: “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.”

There are certainly different types of judgment. There is the judgment of behavior, teaching, and doctrine, and then the judgments of an individual in a holistic sense. While the latter is pretty much indefensible and nearly always sinful in some way (unless it be done in innocent ignorance), we’re, as Christians, called to make judgments on people’s behaviors and teachings - at least those in the Church. We are, in fact, commanded to make such judgments.

Let’s look at the entire passage from Matthew 7:

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”

The traditional interpretation of this passage is that judging rashly, foolishly, or hypocritically is what’s being condemned. One must remove the logs from their own eyes - their own heterodox doctrine or blindness caused by sin - in order to judge truthfully. We are called to steer our brothers and sisters back into righteousness as we are able - as in most things on earth, we are Christ’s hands, feet, and mouth.

In John 7:24, Christ says, “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.” This really clarifies the passage from Matthew, doesn’t it? Quite obviously, Christ was not telling His followers never to make judgments about anything.

Let’s look at another passage - Paul’s words from 1 Cor 5:9-13:

“I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. Expel the wicked man from among you.”

“Expel the wicked man among you.” Wow! Furthermore, we’re specifically told it’s fellow Christians (and only Christians) we should judge in this manner.

This seems to even imply “holistic” judgment of person. But does it? No. A person can be described as “wicked” by their actions, if they consistently meet that definition, without making a definitive judgment of heart and soul. Admittedly, exactly what should result in such a “judgment” could be the subject of much discussion.

I am not implying, either, that each of us should begin to put this teaching into practice to the best of our ability. We’re Catholics, and don’t live our lives by personal interpretation of Scripture. Times change, and perhaps Paul’s advice (or directive) doesn’t apply to us the same way today. However, the passage does make it apparent how ridiculous is the notion that “to judge is un-Christian”, “a loving person never judges”, and other modern mantras.

Motivation is critical when examining an act of judgment (of any type). Here are some examples of what I’d call abjectly sinful judgment:
  • Looking down on someone for behavior they do not justify or are not proud of. In other words, a person struggling with some sin but sometimes stumbling.
  • Looking down on someone for past offenses (of any type). (This is, in many ways, the norm of our society.)
  • Turning one’s nose up over matters that are entirely personal, or superficial, and not even sinful. Looking askance at the woman who comes to Mass late, doesn’t (we determine) dress appropriately, or 1001 other possible “offenses”. Or allowing a sense of superiority over someone we see as “inferior” - due to social status or any other worldly gauge.
All of these things are, I think, very common (even more so among secularists, who are about the loudest “holier-than-thou” condemners). The motivation is clear: ego. Spite. In a word, hate.

But the motivation of one who judges according to the guidelines of Christ and the Church is completely different: it is love. Love of a person who is straying. Love of God and offense over injustices to Him. Love of Truth.

So - why the non-tolerance of judgment of essentially any kind in our society? I would say, first of all, that the “Dictatorship of Relativism” the Holy Father has spoken about recently explains a great deal of it. The (extremely un-Christian) philosophy that there is, basically, no such thing as actual truth leads a great many to be uncomfortable with strong stances on about anything. In other words, “Don’t be judgmental!” is the rally cry of a society that has willfully forfeited its ability to make moral judgments. Their simply aren’t any, we tell ourselves.

Apart from that, there is the fact that speaking the Church’s Truth with some backbone invariably causes conflict in this society. It’s much, much easier to keep one’s “personal opinions” to oneself and to claim “I can’t force my religious beliefs on somebody else”. That’s right, actually - you can’t and shouldn’t. But people in the Church are subject to the Church’s teachings. (And the duty to protect the lives of innocents requires society to intervene to do that.) Scripture says “Seek the approval of God, not of man” and Christ said “I came to bring not peace, but a sword”, but it seems the lukewarm will always abound.
 
I’d like to make one more point I see as rather important: It’s actually untrue to say that modern society/liberal Christians are against all types of judgment. The reality is that our society really only seems to object to judgment of things that society has pretty much deemed Ok. I think an example will illustrate what I’m trying to say. Imagine (hypothetically!) that we have a person in the Church publicly rejecting Church teachings on life and sexuality: if this person is criticized, even in an objective and non-personal manner, many will come to his defense, loudly decrying the foolish or evil “holier-than-thou-types” who spoke out in the first place. Yet, if this say person espoused, say racism, there is simply no doubt that there would be nobody from those same outraged ranks coming to his defense. Therefore, the issue is really the issues themselves, it would seem.

Not to mention that, when the profession Pharisee-spotters state their displeasure with judging, they are then themselves judging, of course! Furthermore, it seems that these kinds of attacks usually go far beyond judging the behavior they see as wrong, and straight to condemnation of person.
 
I agreed with most of what you wrote until you got the dictatorship of relativism part. I think this is a very modern trend because people have become wiser with each generation. Not everyone, but in general, I think this world is a lot more compassionate and accepting than any other time in history.

We all make judgments everyday. It’s ok to judge just so long as you don’t label someone or something concrete. We are all in a process of ongoing change, so to label someone concretely is never accurate and only hurts yourself.

No one on this planet is better than anyone else, so to judge someone as a bad person is silly. You can judge their behavior or situation, but leave the person out of it. I think it would be more constructive if people just said things like “This is going to have this kind of consequences, and this other option is going to have this kind of consequences” and leave it at that.

The trickiest kind of judgment I’ve dealt with is the very subtle kind that comes from feeling good about yourself. What I mean is, you feel so great about yourself that if you’re not careful, you can very faintly that your own mind is looking down on others. This kind of judgment must be avoided.

I think the main reason we have problems with judgment is the lack of compassion and understanding of things foreign to ourselves.
 
I think, contextually, that we need to differentiatiate between “judging” and “discerning”. Discerning is all well and good; judging is not.
 
Read the rest of the passage.
Are you talking about this?

(Mat 7:2) For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get.

If you are, I don’t see how that is saying that it is ok to judge. Besides, if it is ok to judge, then why do the examinations of conscience that I read say that judging is a sin? 🤷:confused:
 
I always think about the company Jesus kept when I think about how people, Christian or otherwise, judge. I’ve been close to people who sin. You and I sin. Sometimes sin is quite obvious - homosexuality, drug use, apparent lying, abortion, fornication. The list is endless. And let me tell you, **I’ve been judged **for loving those guilty of the obvious sins.

But I love them anyway, especially them, because they never profess to be perfect, and in fact are often such outcasts, they’re the least judgemental people I know.

Unless we are guiltless of all sins, we can’t believe ourselves above or better than anyone else. Sin and fault are everywhere, ranging from minor to major, and the inbetween are an infinite gray scale. We can be faulted for our thoughts, intents, or actions. We can fall down, easily, from moment to moment. Nearly every breath we take gives us time to be guilty of something. Who are we to judge?

We as Christians, have a duty to “show” others the right way. I believe this is good, to serve by example, and to even speak up when something should be said. We need to express what we believe if silence sounds like agreement with the wrong side. But never can your average person stand on a podium and judge others unless his slate is squeaky clean, and sometimes this kind of honesty can take some painful soul-searching. We’re all guilty, but even at our worst, Jesus would have been there, a true friend. He wouldn’t have cared what others thought, how he might be judged for consorting with the “enemy”. He knew what we all should know, that a loving example is a better teacher than judgement.
 
Are you talking about this?

(Mat 7:2) For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get.

If you are, I don’t see how that is saying that it is ok to judge. Besides, if it is ok to judge, then why do the examinations of conscience that I read say that judging is a sin? 🤷:confused:
There are some things we are required to judge and some things we are forbidden to judge but “judging” is not of itself sinful.

Judgment is lawful in so far as it is an act of justice. Now it follows from what has been stated above (1, ad 1,3) that three conditions are requisite for a judgment to be an act of justice: first, that it proceed from the inclination of justice; secondly, that it come from one who is in authority; thirdly, that it be pronounced according to the right ruling of prudence. If any one of these be lacking, the judgment will be faulty and unlawful. First, when it is contrary to the rectitude of justice, and then it is called “perverted” or “unjust”: secondly, when a man judges about matters wherein he has no authority, and this is called judgment “by usurpation”: thirdly, when the reason lacks certainty, as when a man, without any solid motive, forms a judgment on some doubtful or hidden matter, and then it is called judgment by “suspicion” or “rash” judgment. (Aquinas ST II/II 60, 2)
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Thou shalt not judge. (Mt 7:1) In these words our Lord forbids rash judgment which is about the inward intention, or other uncertain things, as Augustine states. Or else He forbids judgment about Divine things, which we ought not to judge, but simply believe, since they are above us, as Hilary declares in his commentary on Mt. 5. Or again according to Chrysostom, He forbids the judgment which proceeds not from benevolence but from bitterness of heart.* (ST II/II 60 2 ad 1)

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I think, contextually, that we need to differentiatiate between “judging” and “discerning”. Discerning is all well and good; judging is not.
Your statement is contrary to Church teaching and the words of Christ in the Gospel. Did you read the essay?

Is anyone going to be able to read the relevant material, and study what the Church says and has always taught, instead of just reproducing the knee-jerk modern response?

You appear to be assuming that by ‘judge’ I meant judge & condemn a person, which is not at all what I said. I was careful to point out that condemning a person holistically is forbidden.

This is basic stuff and it is really amazing it is even controversial.
 
Are you talking about this?

(Mat 7:2) For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get.

If you are, I don’t see how that is saying that it is ok to judge. Besides, if it is ok to judge, then why do the examinations of conscience that I read say that judging is a sin? 🤷:confused:
Maybe you should read all of Scripture, examine why Christ commands us to judge, why Paul commanded his disciples to judge, and why an understanding of Catholic doctrine makes it quite obvious that forming judgments of ideas, behavior, and people is necessary.

And also consider that personal conscience is not a Church-approved method of moral discernment: following the teachings of the Church is.

As is widely known, ‘personal conscience’ has been the ‘loophole’ used by certain modern, liberal theologians to promote unorthodox and heretical doctrine.

‘Don’t judge’ is the mantra of the Devil. He loves our society that judges nothing and condemns no sin; the souls being destroyed are his.
 
I always think about the company Jesus kept when I think about how people, Christian or otherwise, judge. I’ve been close to people who sin. You and I sin. Sometimes sin is quite obvious - homosexuality, drug use, apparent lying, abortion, fornication. The list is endless. And let me tell you, **I’ve been judged **for loving those guilty of the obvious sins.

But I love them anyway, especially them, because they never profess to be perfect, and in fact are often such outcasts, they’re the least judgemental people I know.

Unless we are guiltless of all sins, we can’t believe ourselves above or better than anyone else. Sin and fault are everywhere, ranging from minor to major, and the inbetween are an infinite gray scale. We can be faulted for our thoughts, intents, or actions. We can fall down, easily, from moment to moment. Nearly every breath we take gives us time to be guilty of something. Who are we to judge?

We as Christians, have a duty to “show” others the right way. I believe this is good, to serve by example, and to even speak up when something should be said. We need to express what we believe if silence sounds like agreement with the wrong side. But never can your average person stand on a podium and judge others unless his slate is squeaky clean, and sometimes this kind of honesty can take some painful soul-searching. We’re all guilty, but even at our worst, Jesus would have been there, a true friend. He wouldn’t have cared what others thought, how he might be judged for consorting with the “enemy”. He knew what we all should know, that a loving example is a better teacher than judgement.
Expressing judgments of ideas & behavior is not an attempt to put one above others. It’s rather closer to the opposite.

Nor is it implied that because you know what sin is - by listening to the Church - you have never sinned in any way!

To ‘admonish the sinner’ is one of the Spiritual Works Of Mercy! Are any of you aware of that? Do you know what it means?

Could all of you who have criticized the essay, stated that ‘judging’ is ‘wrong’, etc., explain how you engage in this holy practice?

Do you think it is merciful and compassionate to allow a soul to be kept apart from God by refusing to point out sin as sin? Isn’t it closer to cowardice in most cases, actually?
 
Maybe you should read all of Scripture, examine why Christ commands us to judge, why Paul commanded his disciples to judge, and why an understanding of Catholic doctrine makes it quite obvious that forming judgments of ideas, behavior, and people is necessary.
Paul’s statement that we should not judge is exactly analogous to the fifth commandment that we shall not kill. Neither statement was ever understood by the Church to literally ban all killing or all judging, or else we should never have been told that we may kill in self defense or read that what (we incorrectly think) Paul has forbidden in one place he has commanded in another.

Was Aquinas not clear on this? What Paul forbids is not all judgment but (what Aquinas describes as) rash judgment. Would anyone want to live in a society without judges, without anyone to adjudicate claims between parties? More significantly, would anyone really want to live in a totally amoral world where right and wrong are presumed not to exist because to express the opinion that some action is immoral is in fact itself a moral judgment that some apparently feel we are forbidden to make.

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