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I’m happy to see that the Irish bishops have responded. The respond sounds very genuine. It certainly does not make the problem go away. But we know that this is not going to happen with any apology. At least, this is the beginning. One must always look back to see what happened. Otherwise, how can we go forward? It’s like traveling without a map.
I’m glad to see a suggestion in the statement that there is a big difference between “mental reservation” and putting someone’s safety in danger. I believe that I spoke to that in a previous post. We may never allow vulnerable people to be in harms way. That’s immoral.
The next question is what systems can be put in place to protect the vulnerable. We know that there are always going to be people who prey on the vulnerable, not just among the clergy or religious. Children, elderly, poor, sick, disabled, minorities and other helpless people have been the target of sinful behaviors since the creation of Adam. We all agree that no system is perfect. All that being said, it behooves us as men and women of peace and life to try to deliver systems that minimize the possibilities of harm.
I wish that I had a magic wand to make every person safe, heal every broken heart, and restore hope to every disappointed soul. But the best that I can do from where I sit is to work to create systems that reduce the possibilities, preach to the unconverted, help people heal, and remind people that God is good, despite our sinfulness.
I am so sorry and feel so helpless. I don’t know what else I can say or do. It’s frustrating for me. As a religious, especially a Franciscan, I committed my life to being the least among my brothers and sisters, in reparation for sin and for the reign of Christ’s life among us. I wonder if there is something that I have not done right, because I can’t seem to help that many people. In speaking with my superior today, he challenged me by asking, “What have you not done? If there is sin in the world, then you have failed and you must examine your conscience and your life. As a son of St. Francis, it is your mission to surrender your life on the cross to conquer sin. What have you not surrendered?” I left his presence with a heavy heart and a great deal to think and pray about.
All that I can say is that I am soooooo sorry that this has happened and if I could give my life to make it go away, I would.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
I’m glad to see a suggestion in the statement that there is a big difference between “mental reservation” and putting someone’s safety in danger. I believe that I spoke to that in a previous post. We may never allow vulnerable people to be in harms way. That’s immoral.
The next question is what systems can be put in place to protect the vulnerable. We know that there are always going to be people who prey on the vulnerable, not just among the clergy or religious. Children, elderly, poor, sick, disabled, minorities and other helpless people have been the target of sinful behaviors since the creation of Adam. We all agree that no system is perfect. All that being said, it behooves us as men and women of peace and life to try to deliver systems that minimize the possibilities of harm.
I wish that I had a magic wand to make every person safe, heal every broken heart, and restore hope to every disappointed soul. But the best that I can do from where I sit is to work to create systems that reduce the possibilities, preach to the unconverted, help people heal, and remind people that God is good, despite our sinfulness.
I am so sorry and feel so helpless. I don’t know what else I can say or do. It’s frustrating for me. As a religious, especially a Franciscan, I committed my life to being the least among my brothers and sisters, in reparation for sin and for the reign of Christ’s life among us. I wonder if there is something that I have not done right, because I can’t seem to help that many people. In speaking with my superior today, he challenged me by asking, “What have you not done? If there is sin in the world, then you have failed and you must examine your conscience and your life. As a son of St. Francis, it is your mission to surrender your life on the cross to conquer sin. What have you not surrendered?” I left his presence with a heavy heart and a great deal to think and pray about.
All that I can say is that I am soooooo sorry that this has happened and if I could give my life to make it go away, I would.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF