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TarkanAttila
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I enjoy writing about this stuff. If my posts help one or two people sort out their own thoughts on the subject, then all the better.
I hope you don’t mind if your arguments root them all the stronger in their faith.
I was thinking more like showing them a picture from when their parents were dating or when their parents were little kids. Show them that there was a time when they didn’t exist.
It’s the concept of “not existing” that’s the stumbling block for a lot of people, so the first thing you have to do is to establish that at one time, every person did “not exist.” Not existing is nothing to be afraid of.
**It’s kind of odd logic, but I don’t think you could actually do that. Recall that we all start off as a sperm and an egg, right? You would have to go back to when your parents were just two sperms and two eggs. And even then, their genetic material which would then become their child’s genetic material still exists. You would have to go back to before the existence of matter itself to express the idea that “at one point you didn’t exist”. Because you do, now. And you came from everything preceding from that, even as far back as the Big Bang. You didn’t have to exist, but you do.
I find the question of our origin to be, in light of that last sentence, therefore rather unimportant. You’re here now. It doesn’t matter where you came from. It matters what you do from there.**
I submit that even those who don’t believe in a god who “sees” and “judges” all have good reasons to lead what is typically referred to as a “good life.”
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I do believe it might just be because you were born into a Christian society which holds these values dear. Strong atheism is only the belief that there is no god nor gods. There’s no moral or ethical background to go with it. If atheism overcomes civilization, I believe that “civilization” will not last for long. Starts with small things like pushing and shoving to get onto the bus. People get bolder and more self-centered when they don’t have a reason not to be. It’s how we act as humans. Or haven’t you ever tried to do something your parents told you not to when they’re not looking?**
Honestly, I find the idea that we will always exist to be a thought that very much devalues this life. What’s the point in telling the people you care about how much you care about them if you’re going to have forever to do it some day? What’s the point of enjoying all that life has to offer if you sincerely believe – based on no evidence whatsoever – that you have an eternity of unimaginably great experiences waiting for you after death?
What’s the value of a life that’s just a prelude for something “better” that you imagine is going to happen to you?
**You may not. That’s up to God. And it’s up to YOU as a human to make things work out here on Earth if you want to be getting to that great place up there. That’s a basic, pre-conventional thought process every human goes through - that if I do something for someone else, I can get something back in return. Anyone who thinks they can just waltz into Heaven after unrepentantly ignoring what the God who owns Heaven asked you to do - well - needs a lot of prayers. Let’s put it that way. We sacrifice down here on Earth and do what’s right to do now so that we CAN have those fantastic adventures later on!
Even then, eventually to grow as a human you have to see the big picture. Charity, love, and selflessness are not actions of the selfish man who wants Heaven. They’re the work of a man who - at very least - loves God (or something else) and want to please them. And those things are also the products of Christianity far more than they are of atheism, in my experience. Charity does NOT begin by saying “What I** want is what’s right”, and many atheists and anti-Christians hold that philosophy.
I can tell you that accepting the reality that there probably isn’t some “other life” is something that makes every single experience in this life – the only life – feel a heck of a lot more precious.
**Then go and “make the most of it” instead of putzing about her all day!Surely you can find something “better” to do than jabber with a bunch of Catholics. Like find a girlfriend, or learn how to run an Amiga, or go bungee-jumping. Yeah. Bungee-jumping off of an airplane.
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What was that about tone?
I think 4Horsemen was being sincere about that. Couldn’t blame her if she was.