Requirements for deathbed conversion

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Hi all. My friend has less than 3 months to live, she was baptised a Methodist but once she left home, she never practised her faith. She hasn’t led an exemplary life, and now is dying with no friends around other than myself, a revert to the faith, who has been praying hard for her conversion for the last 2 years.
Up to now she was very closed to the idea of God, but last night when she was looking very weak, I asked her if she’d mind if my priest friend came in and had a chat with her. She accepted, and even though little progress was made, she’s agreed to talk to him again today.
So my question is, while she remains conscious and talking, what exactly needs to happen for her to be received into the Church please? The priest had to leave shortly after their chat and I don’t want to bother him with questions. I do know though that he has checked with his superiors on how to proceed, and he is very devout, so he will follow the correct protocol.
If you’ve stopped by to read my long rambling message, please join me in praying for her sincere conversion.
 
You’re there for her, you have a priest friend on board that she likes.
You’ve done everything you can.
Joining my :pray:t2::pray:t2::pray:t2: With yours
 
From your point of view, what needs to happen is for you to pray and continue to encourag your friend. From the Church’s point of view, your priest will handle things. RCIA actually has adaptations for those in danger of death so this sort of scenario has been anticipated.
 
Your friend simply needs to agree to convert, then the priest can hear her confession and give her last rites. That’s all that is needed.
A relative of mine was Protestant his whole life and I asked him if he wanted to see a Catholic priest and he agreed. When the priest arrived he simply asked my relative if he wanted to convert so that the priest could prepare his soul for heaven. My relative agreed, received confession and communion right there on the spot. That was it! My relative died shortly after that.
 
A reminder to not wait but hope to do our best today. This is so hard to implement.
God bless you and your friend.
 
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You should pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy which is very powerful for those who are dying. Here is one you can pray along with:

 
That’s a very inspiring story thanks for sharing
 
Just to give you guys an update and thank you for your prayers - she refused to see the priest after that unfortunately. I’ve asked her if she’d like a blessing every time I’ve been in over the last week, but no. Last night she was very poorly and could hardly talk, she barely managed a hello and goodbye. I talked about all sorts of things even though she wasn’t responding, but when I just thought I’d ask one last time if she’d like to see a priest, she managed to say no again.
I came home so disheartened, wondering had I failed, because even though I’d told her when she was more alert and reasonably well how much God meant to me, I never pushed her hard when she’d answer “it’s not for me”.
The nurses have told me she’s now on the verge of a coma. Would it be silly of me to hope that in spite of her lifelong and deathbed rejection of God, she could still be brought to Purgatory at least? Is there a possibility that because of her difficult upbringing, she never had the chance to encounter God in her life and so she may be saved? Any advice would be deeply appreciated thanks.
 
I’m so sorry about your friend.

I love the opening line of the prayer of absolution – God, the father of mercies… Pope Francis wrote a book called God’s Name is Mercy. I hope you can find some comfort in the reality of his love and mercy.
 
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