Where do you get the impression that I am angry?

i am not angry at all, I can assure you.
Can we not just grow up and accept…
I think that perhaps it is time that we, as Catholics, accept that either method of receiving Communion (on the hand, or on the tongue) is a perfectly acceptable to receive our Lord. Our Church believes this to be the case otherwise it would not permit either method. It’s not as if the Eucharist is more special in one form of Mass than the other, therefore if one method of receiving Him is acceptable in one form of mass then it ought to be acceptable in the other.
The 1962 Missal does not specify how Communion ought to be received, and as the EF forms part of the Church today it is subject to Church rules as they exist today (not as they existed in 1962).
Father Z has got it right when he says, that if a person participating at an EF Mass pust out his hands, in the right fashion, to receive (in a place where the bishops conference has been given permission to permit receiving in the hand), then a priest errs in purposely not giving that person Communion in the hand. And that’s from a priest who would prefer that Communion be given on the tongue.
That article from Father Z was written in 2007, before the publication of Universae Ecclesiae, which clarified a lot of matters, such is can the EF be celebrated in the vernacular (ans: the readings OK, but otherwise, no) and so on.
What he said after the publication of UE was:
Par. 28 is very important:
28 – Praeterea, cum sane de lege speciali agitur, quoad materiam propriam, Litterae Apostolicae Summorum Pontificum derogant omnibus legibus liturgicis, sacrorum rituum propriis, exinde ab anno 1962 promulgatis, et cum rubricis librorum liturgicorum anni 1962 non congruentibus. … Furthermore, by virtue of its character of special law, within its own area, the Motu Proprio Summorum Pontificum derogates from those provisions of law, connected with the sacred Rites, promulgated from 1962 onwards and incompatible with the rubrics of the liturgical books in effect in 1962.
Derogate means that things are partially replaced, set aside. So, insofar as the use of the 1962 books is concerned, if there is something that came into law after 1962, and that thing or practice conflicts with what is in the 1962 books, then those later, post-1962 things don’t apply to the use of the 1962 books.
Communion in the hand is after 1962, as are Extraordinary Ministers of Communion, altar girls…. As I read this, and I checked this with canonists, since the employment of females substituting for Instituted Acolytes came with an interpretation of the 1983 Code, you cannot have altar girls for the Extraordinary Form which was, in 1962, carried out by all male ministers and servers. This would probably apply to other issues, such as the substitution of music, the use of proper vestments and choir dress, who gives which blessings, etc.
Here’s the bottom line: the USCCB Liturgy Department hasn’t addressed the subject in regards to the Extraordinary Form. The England/Wales Bishops’ Liturgy Department hasn’t said…but they referred the matter to the Latin Mass Society, who refers back to that letter from Ecclesia Dei.
I am not so invested in Communion on the Tongue that I will leave the Church if Ecclesia Dei comes out and states that CITH is OK in the EF if the national bishops’ conference has received the indult.
But, since it appears to me (and to Fr Z…and to Fr Finigan…that Universae Ecclesiae excludes it and you (and presumably others) think that it doesn’t exclude it…it would be a worthwhile question to ask the question again…and ask for an official serial numbered dubium to be published on it. And perhaps to send it to CDWDS and have it published in Notitiae.