I think that is wildly inaccurate. I would suspect that the people who left or are leaving the church are not in their 60s, but in their 20s or 30s or 40s and have absolutely no knowledge of, or affinity for, the pre-V2 Liturgy.
I’ve talked to a few friends who are lapsed Catholics or who have outright rejected Catholicism. When I ask why, they usually give the same sets of answers:
- Clergy Sexual Abuse;
- Perception that women are considered second-class members of the Church;
- Disagreements on moral issues: Homosexuality, abortion, birtch control, fornication, etc.
- Finally, some complain about a perception that the Church hoards wealth.
Obviously, I’m not in agreement with these people. But I’ve never, ever met a single person who left the Catholic Church claiming that Vatican II reforms were the problem. Really? Where would these people go? Anglican? Greek Orthadox? Coptic?
Time does not favor this continual argument. Every day, fewer and fewer people are familiar with the pre-Vatican 2 liturgy - so every day fewer and fewer people care about any perceived conflict over V2 reforms.
Pax,
OA
I have been invovled with a program called CAtholics Returning Home, have spoken with others involved similarly, and have actually worked with Catholics who have left the faith. Reasons for leaving:
Lack of catechesis - they simply did not know their faith
Lack of home catechesis - parents were lacidasical at best
Sexual activity outside of marriage - shacking up
Mixed marriage, coupled with the above (some or all)
Mixed marriage, partner of stronger faith
Divorced (and presumed excommunicated)
Divorced and remarried, no decree of nullity
Catechized better by Protestants
Lazy - sloth when it comes to Faith
Mad at (Father so and so, Sister so and so) who said/did something offensive
Life intervened (too busy to go to Mass - golf, family, lack of priorities)
Notice that none have said they left because of changes in the Mass.
Notice that none have said they left because of liturgical abuses in the OF.
The fact that none have said this does not mean that some have not left for those reasons; but the consistency of the reasons for leaving - as outlined above - leave one with the evidence that the leaving is for reasons other than the Mass format.