The EF was introduced to our parish nearly 20 years ago, and it was definitely a rough transition for all…for a LONG time! At the time the parish was considered inner city, barely had 100 families, and was perpetually in danger of being closed. So the Archdiocese brought the EF to this parish as a way to expand the rosters and to give the EF a permanent home (up until that time it had been shuffled around various churches in the city).
Anyway, the parish was a rather liberal, aging one, and the parishioners resented like crazy these “fanatical” EF types with their large families and peculiar ways invading “their” parish. The trads themselves weren’t much better and basically refused to have anything to do with wider parish activities and events. I’m sure they would have greatly preferred to have an EF only parish. In the early years the EF was administered by an FSSP priest, and that didn’t help either, because he wouldn’t/couldn’t say the OF form of the Mass, and the parish’s pastor couldn’t/wouldn’t say the EF Mass, so all that perpetuated the divisions within the parish.
Eventually the FSSP was kicked out and the parish ended up with a single pastor who said both Masses. He was an orthodox, dynamic priest who was able to get all sides of the parish to come together. The neighborhood actually has become quite a hip place to live, so the parish has a lot of young singles and families now. The EF has had a terrific influence on the OF in our parish, and we’re now known as the most liturgically and musically beautiful parish in the city for ALL types of Masses.
So even though we had MANY rough years, eventually things calmed down, and we have a terrific parish. Most of the super fanatical trads have gone elsewhere, and the angry liberals who eventually realized that the trads weren’t going anywhere, have taken off for other parishes. I don’t mean that to sound gloating, but it’s left us with a growing, happy parish where most parishioners get along and would happily attend any Mass, not just “their” Mass, on any given weekend. It took many years to get to this relatively happy place, but we’re here now, and it’s a terrific place to be!