I want this read at my future wedding, if it ever happens. I want the entire Mass to point how my marriage is symbolic of Christ and His Heavenly Bride, the Church.
I don’t often see wisdom like this. I pray you find a physical bride, if it be within God’s will, whom has the grace, Wisdom, and Understanding to match it.
A symbol; a portion of something which allows one to recognize the whole.
St. Paul says of this wedding that it is a mystery; and so it is:
As Jesus himself attests, “they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but live like the angels.” when refuting the polyandry that the Saducees were implying marriages after successive deaths of wive
s would be implied by the resurrection.
eg: serial polygamy, or adultery?
Yet when Jesus set the Pharisees straight on the issue of Divorce by Quoting the basic law: “The
Two become one flesh” which Moses modified ***only ***after the symbolic adultery with the golden calf in the desert – to allow those less than priests, god’s own portion – those less than his own, to divorce – which still exists in the law of the Church today, but with the admonition that reconciliation is to be encouraged; and remarriage is not an option.
I can’t help but wonder at the mysterious difference in the nature of marriage in Heaven vs. the nature of marriage on earth; Taken as a symbol or metaphor – heaven is to exceed the shadowy likeness which we have here and now. Yet, here and now, one of the prime marks of marriage is the exclusivity of it – whereas the marriage in heaven all seemingly become one flesh – not through sexual union, so that there is polygamy or adultery – but through communion. Nor do I wish to convey the laughable notion that the Jehova witnesses seem to have when they try to claim that the oneness of the trinity implies confusion – by saying that two people become one flesh in marriage does not confuse the persons. Just so, a marriage in heaven can’t be expected or accused of “confusing” the flesh of all people and nations who make up the new Jerusalem.
We receive Glorified flesh from our Lord and savior Jesus Christ; As the flesh was taken from Adam, so that his wife was not created from scratch – but is flesh and bone from her spouse – so we too receive glorified flesh from the opened side of Jesus the Lord. As it says in Hebrews, he has opened a way for us into heaven through his flesh. And again, where Jesus shows the impossibility of heaven by man’s standards when he says: The only
one going to heaven is he who came down from heaven; That is; Jesus reinforces the
necessity of being his flesh in order to enter heaven.
Certainly there is no logical way to trap these thoughts under adultery, as the many whom his flesh and blood are poured out for don’t act as individual man and woman entering sexual union; But the “two” becoming one flesh vis-a-vis the “many” whom are the members of Christ’s body seems, somehow, dissonant…
The mystery of which St. Paul speaks is deep – what then are we to make of the many parts; and what is the meaning of the exculsivity which is in marriage.
How does one recognize the whole from such a mystyreous symbol?
Perhaps in a few years God will grant me to understand this better, if not fully.
P.S. If you have a moment to pray for me; Pray both that my insomnia due to my brother’s television broadcasting through a thin wall – and my distress because of the difficulties of my wife (actual); may find rest and peace in some way as I work them out in fear and trembling.
