Rite of Acceptance

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Uh oh. Should I bring this to the attention of someone?
The signing of the Book of the Elect takes place at the Rite of Sending just before or at the beginning of Lent OR at the Rite of Election in the presence of the Bishop at the beginning of Lent.

It’s obvious someone does not know what they are doing and bringing it up probably won’t make any difference. It may cause you problems, unless you are a member of the RCIA team?
 
Uh oh. Should I bring this to the attention of someone?
Other than just caually joking, and saying, “Wow, I went from Inquirer to Elect without ever entering the Catechumenate, that’s hilarious,” don’t make a big deal out of it.

As Brother Rich has pointed out, it’s obvious that the people in charge (including the priest) are not well educated about the steps and procedures of RCIA. It’s up to someone from the Diocese to actually correct them, though - you have no authority in that.

But in the future if someone asks you to help with RCIA, make sure you take a training class from the Diocese on the subject of RCIA before you say “yes,” for the sake of future RCIA participants. 😉
 
Other than just caually joking, and saying, “Wow, I went from Inquirer to Elect without ever entering the Catechumenate, that’s hilarious,” don’t make a big deal out of it.

As Brother Rich has pointed out, it’s obvious that the people in charge (including the priest) are not well educated about the steps and procedures of RCIA. It’s up to someone from the Diocese to actually correct them, though - you have no authority in that.

But in the future if someone asks you to help with RCIA, make sure you take a training class from the Diocese on the subject of RCIA before you say “yes,” for the sake of future RCIA participants. 😉
So am I not a Cathecumen than?😦
 
So am I not a Cathecumen than?😦
Technically, no, since they gave you the Rite of Sending instead of the Rite of Acceptance.

But don’t worry about it. You are doing what Catechumens do, and in actuality (unless you have been baptized before) you are, in fact, a Catechumen, in spite of the error. God understands what they had intended to do, and it is their intention that matters; not what they actually did. 🙂

(But it would have been a lot nicer if they could have gotten it right.)
 
Technically, no, since they gave you the Rite of Sending instead of the Rite of Acceptance.

But don’t worry about it. You are doing what Catechumens do, and in actuality (unless you have been baptized before) you are, in fact, a Catechumen, in spite of the error. God understands what they had intended to do, and it is their intention that matters; not what they actually did. 🙂

(But it would have been a lot nicer if they could have gotten it right.)
Unfortunately “It is the thought that counts” does not work with the Rites of the Chruch. The Rite of Acceptance is not an option for entry into the Catechumenate. The Rite of Welcome for those already Baptized is optional. The Rite of Acceptance is not just a nice thing to do.
 
I have the Rite of Welcoming this Sunday and am glad I came across this thread because we were told that the priest would ask us those questions, and our response was to be, “To be accepted as a candidate for instruction leading to confirmation and eucharist” and to the 2nd questions we say, “A fuller sharing in the life of the Church.” I was really disturbed by the fact that they were telling us what to respond. I already have issues w/the legalism / what seems like extreme uniformity of the Church, to the point where it takes away our own individuality, and this just proved it. I’m relieved to see some of your answers say that we do have the freedom to say whatever we want. Maybe I’ll just be the odd ball and say my own thing. I planned to say I asked the church for prayer and guidance, and a deeper understanding of the faith. I just don’t want to get in trouble or something. If I get in trouble for that, I’d be really questioning the Church’s use of authority/power.
 
Unfortunately “It is the thought that counts” does not work with the Rites of the Chruch. The Rite of Acceptance is not an option for entry into the Catechumenate. The Rite of Welcome for those already Baptized is optional. The Rite of Acceptance is not just a nice thing to do.
Then this needs to be fixed. What procedure needs to be followed?
 
I have the Rite of Welcoming this Sunday and am glad I came across this thread because we were told that the priest would ask us those questions, and our response was to be, “To be accepted as a candidate for instruction leading to confirmation and eucharist” and to the 2nd questions we say, “A fuller sharing in the life of the Church.” I was really disturbed by the fact that they were telling us what to respond. I already have issues w/the legalism / what seems like extreme uniformity of the Church, to the point where it takes away our own individuality, and this just proved it. I’m relieved to see some of your answers say that we do have the freedom to say whatever we want. Maybe I’ll just be the odd ball and say my own thing. I planned to say I asked the church for prayer and guidance, and a deeper understanding of the faith. I just don’t want to get in trouble or something. If I get in trouble for that, I’d be really questioning the Church’s use of authority/power.
What I used to tell my candidates and catechumens was, Listen very carefully to the question, and answer it truthfully. I’m not a real fan of memorized answers, or of people not understanding what they’re saying, or what they’re doing. But I also gave them heads-up about what the questions were going to be, so that they could think them through ahead of time. We never had any problems with people answering inappropriately. 🙂
 
Hello

This thread caught my eye - as I have been in similar situation. I am a baptized Catholic, raised in a Catholic friendly home - but essentially raised as a Protestant. I felt the pull back to the Church a couple years ago and entered RCIA over a year ago. At that time I was told I was not baptized (although my gut and memories of the Baptismal conversation told me otherwise)…passed this on to RCIA leader and went through with RITE of Acceptance. A while after this I got confirmation (different Parent advised) that I was baptized in Catholic Church and soon received my Baptismal Certificate; which I passed onto the Parish.
I am assuming that this RITE was null and void due to being Catholic already, is this the case? I am assuming this must be a fairly ‘common’ occurrence for individual baptized as infants and due to circumstance haven’t had opportunity verify this.

ww
 
I have the Rite of Welcoming this Sunday and am glad I came across this thread because we were told that the priest would ask us those questions, and our response was to be, “To be accepted as a candidate for instruction leading to confirmation and eucharist” and to the 2nd questions we say, “A fuller sharing in the life of the Church.” I was really disturbed by the fact that they were telling us what to respond. I already have issues w/the legalism / what seems like extreme uniformity of the Church, to the point where it takes away our own individuality, and this just proved it. I’m relieved to see some of your answers say that we do have the freedom to say whatever we want. Maybe I’ll just be the odd ball and say my own thing. I planned to say I asked the church for prayer and guidance, and a deeper understanding of the faith. I just don’t want to get in trouble or something. If I get in trouble for that, I’d be really questioning the Church’s use of authority/power.
You won’t get in trouble for saying this differently using your own words. The Key to remember is because you are already Baptized you are already united to the church in a way and do in fact seek to be more fully united. You do since you are already a Christian seek an increase of faith and deeper understanding. Taking an unBaptized person through the Rite of Welcome or a Baptized person through the Rite of Acceptance is not legalism. It would be like President-elect reciting his fraternity pledge instead of the Oath of Office or reading his high school graduation speech instead of his inaugural address. They would not make any sense or accomplish the intended purpose.
 
Hello

This thread caught my eye - as I have been in similar situation. I am a baptized Catholic, raised in a Catholic friendly home - but essentially raised as a Protestant. I felt the pull back to the Church a couple years ago and entered RCIA over a year ago. At that time I was told I was not baptized (although my gut and memories of the Baptismal conversation told me otherwise)…passed this on to RCIA leader and went through with RITE of Acceptance. A while after this I got confirmation (different Parent advised) that I was baptized in Catholic Church and soon received my Baptismal Certificate; which I passed onto the Parish.
I am assuming that this RITE was null and void due to being Catholic already, is this the case? I am assuming this must be a fairly ‘common’ occurrence for individual baptized as infants and due to circumstance haven’t had opportunity verify this.

ww
You are correct. This is also why the RCIA requires a serious investigation into the persons Baptismal situation during the Inquiry period which should be 6 to 12 weeks. For you conditional Baptism would have been a consideration, if the Certificate is found a few months later it does not change anything.
 
… Taking an unBaptized person through the Rite of Welcome or a Baptized person through the Rite of Acceptance is not legalism. …
I disagree completely it is legalism. Legalism is all it is. The key here is the idea that man must get it right for god to understand. If god understands any way then the error is insignificant.
 
Unfortunately “It is the thought that counts” does not work with the Rites of the Chruch. The Rite of Acceptance is not an option for entry into the Catechumenate. The Rite of Welcome for those already Baptized is optional. The Rite of Acceptance is not just a nice thing to do.
I wasn’t validly baptized before (was baptized in the mormon church), so since Father did the wrong rite, am I technically not a Cathecumen? And does that mean my Baptism may not be valid either on Easter Vigil??
 
I wasn’t validly baptized before (was baptized in the mormon church), so since Father did the wrong rite, am I technically not a Cathecumen? And does that mean my Baptism may not be valid either on Easter Vigil??
Father can recommend you be accepted in to the church at anytime including today, tomorrow, etc… Technically the Bishop accepts us, however that has long been a rubber stamp. At the Rites of Sending and Election you will see candidates/catechumens from many parishes who are personally meeting the Bishop and the Bishop will sign them in as church members. At Easter they become members in full standing by receiving the sacraments all adults should have. At this Rite of Welcoming/Acceptance you were acknowledged within your parish as candidates to become parish members. Contrary to this thread parish vary greatly from 0 candidates to 200 ( I saw 186 candidates from a single Parish). It should be no surprise that the 186 are handled differently than a group of 2.

These threads scare candidates as to “is this okay” (licit & valid). These procedures are all both licit and valid as they exceed the requirements of the Priest who recommends to the Bishop the acceptance of the members. The controversy involves whether parishes are lax in guidelines given to parishes for operating these programs. Yes parishes are lax and the reason is parishes rely on volunteers who often are not even reimbursed for most of the money they spent (printing handouts, buying a reference book or two, gas, car mileage, coffee, etc). In many Parishes the class is hosted in someone’s home. In general the parish does the best it can with what it has.

reff your doing fine, do not sweat it.
 
I wasn’t validly baptized before (was baptized in the mormon church), so since Father did the wrong rite, am I technically not a Cathecumen? And does that mean my Baptism may not be valid either on Easter Vigil??
I’ll have to leave the first question to Br Rich, but this should in no way jeopardizes the validity of your upcoming baptism, it would only perhaps affect the licitity (again, I’ll have to leave that one to Br).
 
I disagree completely it is legalism. Legalism is all it is. The key here is the idea that man must get it right for god to understand. If god understands any way then the error is insignificant.
I guess what might not be understood here is that the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults is an official Liturgical document, and therefore is required to be followed and is never allowed to be modified (except as provided for within). If an RCIA director makes a mistake or intentionally does not follow the Rite and it is discovered the error should be corrected if possible and steps should be taken so it does not happen again.

This type of situation is another good reason why the use of the Combined Rites options should be avoided unless necessary. Such as the priest only visits a parish once a month, or there are 100 people in RCIA. Otherwise the Rite of Acceptance should be at one Mass and the Rite of Welcome at another, or on different weekends if the parish has only one Mass on a weekend.
 
I wasn’t validly baptized before (was baptized in the mormon church), so since Father did the wrong rite, am I technically not a Cathecumen? And does that mean my Baptism may not be valid either on Easter Vigil??
No, in no way would this affect the validity of your Baptism at the Easter Vigil if no one does anything to correct it, at the Easter Vigil you would be Baptized, Confirmed, receive Holy Communion and become a member of the Catholic Church.

If possible your pastor should hold the Rite of Acceptance for those who are not Baptized at another Mass in the next few weeks and this time use the right, Rite.
 
Just a little additional explanation. After a person goes through the Rite of Acceptance into the Order of Catechumens they have a different standing in the Church. As noted they have the right to a Catholic funeral. If they were to suddenly die without warning, they would have been considered to have received Baptism of Desire. Because part of the Rite requires that they state in the presence of the faithful their desire for Baptism.

Remember that in the early Church dying as a Catechumen was a real possibility!

You are no longer in the Inquiry stage, but are now a Catechumen, preparing for the reception of the Sacraments Baptism, Confirmation and Holy Communion. And YES,satan will do everything he can think of to keep you from completing the process.
So if you are in the inquiry stage you cannot recieve a catholic funeral or the baptism of desire if sudden death comes upon that person?

I myself am in the stage of initiation and i was not sure about my status in the church, i was counting myself as a catechumen, so i sent a mail to my priest and he answered and said no im not a catechumen yet, we will talk about that when we meet at saturday he said.

He said to me before that i have a right to recieve a catholic funeral if something should happen and also the baptism of desire, but now you are saying the opposite so who am i to believe?

If you are right i will not go outside my house and leave the bed to take unnessecary risks until i pass the rite of acceptance then.

But i guess the Lord knows better whats in every mans heart and will not send anyone to hell just because the church didnt give him the possibillity to pass any rite yet. In that case the church must be responsible and not the person who desired it.
 
So if you are in the inquiry stage you cannot recieve a catholic funeral or the baptism of desire if sudden death comes upon that person?

I myself am in the stage of initiation and i was not sure about my status in the church, i was counting myself as a catechumen, so i sent a mail to my priest and he answered and said no im not a catechumen yet, we will talk about that when we meet at saturday he said.

He said to me before that i have a right to recieve a catholic funeral if something should happen and also the baptism of desire, but now you are saying the opposite so who am i to believe?

If you are right i will not go outside my house and leave the bed to take unnessecary risks until i pass the rite of acceptance then.

But i guess the Lord knows better whats in every mans heart and will not send anyone to hell just because the church didnt give him the possibillity to pass any rite yet. In that case the church must be responsible and not the person who desired it.
If you are already at the point where you are ready to begin the process of becoming a Catholic, then there is little reason to delay being enrolled in the Order of Catechumens, since it seems that your Inquiry phase has been completed.

This is one reason why I favour the year-round Catechumenate, since it allows individuals to be received when they are ready, without having to wait for the rest of their group.

In any case, if you are with a group, you will most likely be received into the Order of Catechumens very shortly. With the “school year” model, they usually do it on the First Sunday of Advent.
 
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