Those running your RCIA took the appropriate course of action. While it would be nice to go before a Bishop and reaffirm our “continuing conversion,” this is not an explicit rite within the church.
Moreover, the church envisions the Rite of Election as a judgment from the vantage point of the Church; i.e., she now elects for you to join.
#119 “Thus the Church makes its “election,” that is, the choice and admission of those catechumens who have the dispositions that make them fit to take part, at the next major celebration, in the sacraments of initiation.”
It being understood that the primary purpose of RCIA is not for those seeking to catch up on the sacraments. The inclusion of those seeking adult confirmation a practical and necessary reality in some parishes. It is not, however, the norm or what is the Church’s vision.
Confirmation is less about your decision to confirm your status as a Catholic and more about the Holy Spirit’s action within you.
Peace,
Fr. Ryan
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