Catholics are bound by the 8th commandment, and I have found that they are, for the most part, honest.
And yet anti-Catholics have, for centuries, accused Catholics such as Blessed John Henry Newman of “cunning equivocation” and other practices that, anti-Catholics argue, lead almost inevitably to the deception of listeners and which are freely allowed within Catholicism despite the commandment not to bear false witness.
Think about that. Really allow that to sink in. Anti-Catholics accuse us of teaching and believing that it is morally legitimate, under what they claim to be “our” interpretation of the aforementioned commandment, to engage in practices which have the end result of deceiving listeners.
If people assume this about us Catholics, as we know that some do, what can we possibly say that will actually convince them that we are not lying to them? Once our bad faith is assumed by our interlocutors, anything we might say in our own defense, such as “but we are bound by the 8th commandment!,” will be
interpreted as still more “cunning equivocation” designed to have the effect of deception. When others assume that we will deceive them, we are placed in a terrible position, because we are thereby prevented from sharing even the truth about ourselves.
We know how it feels to be placed in this position. How ought we to engage others?
Tobit 4:15: “And what you hate, do not do to any one.”
Sirach 31:15: “Recognize that your neighbor feels as you do, and keep in mind everything you dislike.”
Matthew 7:12: “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them.”
Luke 6:31: “And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.”
Should we, prior to our encounter with another person, assume bad faith on his part, assume that he will lie to or deliberately deceive us? No. The Church’s teaching prohibits us from making such assumptions about others. To assume the moral fault of a neighbor without sufficient foundation, even tacitly, is a sin: rash judgment, which is a form of prejudice (pre-judgment). “To avoid rash judgment, everyone should be careful to interpret insofar as possible his neighbor’s thoughts, words, and deeds in a favorable way: ‘Every good Christian ought to be more ready to give a favorable interpretation to another’s statement than to condemn it. But if he cannot do so, let him ask how the other understands it. And if the latter understands it badly, let the former correct him with love. If that does not suffice, let the Christian try all suitable ways to bring the other to a correct interpretation so that he may be saved.’”
So when I encounter Fatima at a neighborhood picnic, for example, it would be wrong for me to assume “She is a Muslim and therefore she will deliberately deceive me” or even “Ahmed has deceived me, and they are both Muslims, therefore Fatima will do the same.” That would be rash judgment, a form of prejudice, and a sin against Fatima. I must allow Fatima to speak for herself, not assuming a moral fault on Fatima’s part, but giving her own words the most favorable interpretation possible and asking her for clarification as needed to ensure understanding. According to the teaching of the Lord and of his Church, I should give her the same fair and unprejudiced hearing in a conversation that I would want for myself.