As the OP of this thread, I did not mean to open such a can of worms. I am sorry if my post came off as confrontational. It was not my intent. I am a 30 year plus member of the Knights of Columbus and take the defense of our clergy very seriously.
Perhaps the word “ammunition” might have been misleading, but I was only trying to describe and ask for things that I might use to educate myself and go to my parish priest with so that I could speak to him knowledgeably about the matter rather than just being seen as venting my opinion.
One of the greatest things about the Church is that it is so very basic and yet very complex at the same time. Music is not my passion and forte, but I am desirous of seeing it incorporated into the liturgy in an appropriate way. I grew up with the guitar Masses of the 70s and found them to very much to my liking and very reverent with respect to the music. But the idea that any kind of music is acceptable at Mass seems inherently ludicrous. The Mass is also my comfort away from all of the allowances of the world in which I have to operate on a daily basis. I can listen to rock music (and am subjected to all types of music as a high school teacher!) or any other kind of music any time. I can of course also choose to listen to sacred music, which I do as well. But the Mass should be a place that respects the Real Presence, and I am not sure that the tempo of the music, clapping, and gusto with which the musicians approach the playing of percussion instruments necessarily shows such respect.
I am not a prude and am not against change of any kind nor do I have a desire to simply have everyone revert to attending TLM. But music of this kind, when included in the liturgy, seems to provide a slippery slope on which many other changes that are even less reverent might be placed. Whether music is culturally relative, little “t” or big “T” tradition, or spelled out specifically by Papal decree, there are some things that just do not pass the smell test with respect to their inclusion in the Mass.
I think my biggest concern in the post was advice on how to approach my parish priest knowledgeably in order to engage him in dialogue. I believe that I can question the wisdom of administrative and even liturgical decisions made by my pastor while still being respectful. Too often it seems that when parisihioners experience changes with which they might feel uncomfortable and might disagree, they leave the parish and simply find another where they feel more at ease or welcome. This seems to be the attitude of most of the people who are concerned over the recent changes. I was simply trying to find a way that I might be able to suggest to my priest a different route for having people feel included in the process. It seemed odd that with the recent formation of his pastoral council that no one in the entire parish was aware of the change in musical styles until Sunday morning. Sometimes we all make decisions that are in hindsight ones we might not have made or might have executed in a different fashion upon further reflection or counsel. I was simply attempting to see if I might be a person who could provide some cohesion rather than discord in this matter.
For those of you who responded charitably and provided resources to peruse, I thank you - I have been busy reading. Others whose responses seemed less so - no worries. Perhaps I should begin using some smilies to convey a bit more of my intent as my words were not sufficient in this post. But the quasi-attacks on my intent or state of mind were not productive and are actually one of the reasons I do not post on this forum on a regular basis.
Ad hominem responses seem to be evolving as more frequent kinds of reactions to the issues people ask and propose on this site.
I will continue to lurk and gain the wisdom I have from the hundreds of posts I have read over the last year and do seriously thank all of you who responded to this post.
I will return with the outcome of my eventual conversation with my priest and hope that you find the result - whatever the outcome - informative and useful for all of our continuing journeys in the Church.