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tcraig
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LOL! (And really, I’m laughing in completely sympathy with you, rather than at you). You have received a very nice, very polite “Go hang yourself” letter from the priest.
I have received one of those, also.
Your next step, if you choose to go that far, is to reply to the priest saying that since you can draw no other conclusion from the letter other than he chooses not to obey Vatican directives, that you will referring this matter to the bishop. Give him several weeks to reply whether that is his intention, in all fairness.
Then write a letter to the bishop, explaining the problem, and include copies of (1) your first letter to the priest, (2) the priest’s reply, and (3) your letter advising the priest that you would be referring the matter to the bishop.
You will probably get a nice response from the bishop’s office vaguely thanking you for referring this matter to them, and then … nothing. If you go back to that parish in several months and the abuse is still occurring you know where your bishop stands. You can then decide whether to continue further (to the Vatican).
It can be a lonely road trying to get abuses corrected, but the Church needs people who can persist. Good luck to you!
I have received one of those, also.
Your next step, if you choose to go that far, is to reply to the priest saying that since you can draw no other conclusion from the letter other than he chooses not to obey Vatican directives, that you will referring this matter to the bishop. Give him several weeks to reply whether that is his intention, in all fairness.
Then write a letter to the bishop, explaining the problem, and include copies of (1) your first letter to the priest, (2) the priest’s reply, and (3) your letter advising the priest that you would be referring the matter to the bishop.
You will probably get a nice response from the bishop’s office vaguely thanking you for referring this matter to them, and then … nothing. If you go back to that parish in several months and the abuse is still occurring you know where your bishop stands. You can then decide whether to continue further (to the Vatican).
It can be a lonely road trying to get abuses corrected, but the Church needs people who can persist. Good luck to you!