Rules and Guidelines

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Chief Purpose of Forums

The forums are devoted to advancing the mission of Jesus Christ and his Mystical Bride, the Catholic Church, the New and fulfilled Israel, through which the Lord Jesus saves the world (see Matt. 16:18–19; 28:18–20; CCC 846–48). Therefore, our mission is to help catechize–and otherwise form–existing and prospective Catholics, and to encourage our members to join us in this mission by sharing your knowledge and experiences that will edify others.

Because of our clear mission, threads that seek to undermine that mission—e.g., opposing the divinity of Christ, the establishment and sustenance of his Catholic Church, and the existence of God in general, whether explicitly or implicitly—will be removed.

At the same time, we welcome non-Catholics sincerely seeking to learn more about Christ and his Church, such as re: specific Catholic teachings and also events in Church history. Those events can include ones in which Catholics—particularly Church leaders—have failed to witness faithfully to the Gospel. In any event, however, if the Church were merely a human institution, instead of a divinely founded and sustained one by Jesus and the Holy Spirit, she would’ve ceased to exist centuries ago.

Apostolic Ideals to Which CQF Members Need to Aspire

“The rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them. It shall not be so among you. . . . [T]he Son of man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Matt. 20:28; see 2 Cor. 12:7–10; Matt. 26:38–44).
— Jesus Christ, the Incarnate Word.

“Love without truth would be blind; truth without love would be like ‘a clanging cymbal’ (I Cor 13: 1).”
— Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, Homily

“[P]ut on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires (Rom. 13:14).
— St. Paul, Apostle to the Gentiles.

“Always be prepared to make a defense to any one who calls you to account for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and reverence” (1 Pet. 3:15).
— St. Peter, the first Pope.

Introductory Legal Disclaimer and Forum Guidelines
Although the moderators and administrators of will attempt to keep all objectionable content off this forum, it is impossible for us to review all messages. All messages express the views of the author, and neither the owners, nor developers, of, will be held responsible for the content of any message.

By agreeing with these terms and conditions, you warrant that you will not post any content that violate any laws, and further that you will comply with the following guidelines.

Forum Rules

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  2. Messages should be short. Do not post lengthy replies (including replies that consist largely of quotes from an earlier message). Lengthy consecutive posts will be deleted.
  3. Do not view the discussion area as a vehicle for single-mindedly promoting an agenda.
  4. Do not incite animosity towards anyone, especially the clergy. Constructive criticism may be appropriate in some circumstances.
  5. Non-Catholics are welcome to participate but must be respectful of the faith of the Catholics participating on the board. At the same, Catholics must be charitable in their discussions about non-Catholics, their beliefs, and their practices. As noted above, however, these forums are devoted to advancing the mission of Christ and his Church, and therefore threads that seek to undermine that mission, whether explicitly or implicitly—will be removed.
  6. Catholics must be charitable in their discussions about non-Catholic belief and practice. These preferences include the liturgy. Therefore, e.g., one should extol their love for the Ordinary Form or Extraordinary Form of the Sacrifice of the Mass, respectively, without denigrating the other rite. If one wants to report on and constructively criticize genuine abuses taking place during the Sacrifice of the Mass, i.e., abuses as defined as violations from Church-approved liturgical norms, those can be discussed and counsel sought to help remedy them in one’s parish or diocese. But do not denigrate per se, i.e., in and of themselves, the rite Pope St. Paul VI instituted (Ordinary Form) and/or the Traditional Latin Mass (Extraordinary Form).
  7. Threads arguing that the Society of St. Pius X (SSPX) is in full communion with the Church, or alleging the invalidity of the 1988 excommunications Pope St. John Paul II imposed on SSPX founder Archbishop Marcel Lefebvre and the four bishops he illicitly ordained, will be removed. The same applies to threads on other Catholic entities that are not in full communion with the Church.
  8. Threads arguing that the Second Vatican Council (Vatican II) is not a valid ecumenical (general) council of the Catholic Church will be removed.
  9. Threads advancing sedevacantism, i.e., ones in which a member argues that the Church does not have a validly elected Pope when one exists, will be removed. The only exception will be regarding interregnums, i.e., the period between a validly elected Pope’s resignation or death, and the valid election of his successor by the College of Cardinals.
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  12. Although our mission is to provide guidance to those seeking answers about the Catholic Church’s teaching on moral issues, we are not an appropriate venue for those dealing with a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), in which one frequently mistakes non-sins for venial or mortals sins, and/or venial sins for mortal sins. These members are charitably encouraged to contact their local pastor or other nearby faithful priests, as they are equipped to address such pastoral issues. For additional guidance and resources regarding OCD and other counseling matters, please see “Resources for Counseling Matters” below.
Resources for Counseling Matters

Although our goal is to answer questions about the Catholic Church’s teaching on moral issues, we are not in a position to provide ongoing counseling in the way that a licensed therapist, spiritual director or a priest could provide. members dealing with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)–or other issues that would benefit from ongoing mental health support–are encouraged to contact their local pastor or other nearby faithful priests. You may also wish to seek support from a local licensed counselor who is respectful of your Catholic Faith.

We suggest you contact your parish pastor, local diocese and faithful Catholic friends for counseling referrals. Your diocese may employ counselors as part of their services. In addition to pastoral counseling, effective treatment may include cognitive therapy, i.e., addressing one’s patterns of thinking and acting, including communicating, and may also include prescribed medication, e.g., to help treat excessive scrupulosity/OCD.

Addressing Problems within the Church (General Advisory)
If you observe problems in your local parish, report them to your pastor. If unresolved after addressing a matter with your pastor a couple of times in writing, contact the priest dean of your local diocesan deanery, a priest whom your diocesan chancery (main diocesan office) can identify when you call and inform them of your parish. If the matter is unresolved after addressing your diocesan dean a couple of times in writing, follow the same written protocol with your diocesan bishop, and then, if needed, the Vatican Ambassador to the United States (apostolic nuncio) in Washington, DC, and, finally, if needed, the appropriate curial office in Rome.

Know that God remains in solidarity with you in particular—and his Church in general—irrespective of the outcome of your reported concerns.

If there is substantive evidence of an actual crime, contact your local police department. Contact also your local diocesan chancery, which should have a department that fields and processes such complaints.

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This is a Civilized Place for Public Discussion

Please treat this discussion forum with the same respect you would a public park. We, too, are a shared community resource — a place to share skills, knowledge and interests through ongoing conversation.

Improve the Discussion

Help us make this a great place for discussion by always working to improve the discussion in some way, however small. If you are not sure your post adds to the conversation, think over what you want to say and try again later.

The topics discussed here matter to us, and we want you to act as if they matter to you, too. Be respectful of the topics and the people discussing them, even if you disagree with some of what is being said.

One way to improve the discussion is by discovering ones that are already happening. Spend time browsing the topics here before replying or starting your own, and you’ll have a better chance of meeting others who share your interests.

Be Agreeable, Even When You Disagree

You may wish to respond to something by disagreeing with it. That’s fine. But remember to criticize ideas, not people. Please avoid:
  • Name-calling
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  • Responding to a post’s tone instead of its actual content
  • Knee-jerk contradiction
Instead, provide reasoned counter-arguments that improve the conversation.

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Let’s leave our community better than we found it.

If You See a Problem, Flag It

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When you see bad behavior, don’t reply. It encourages the bad behavior by acknowledging it, consumes your energy, and wastes everyone’s time. Just flag it. If enough flags accrue, action will be taken, either automatically or by moderator intervention.

In order to maintain our community, moderators reserve the right to remove any content and any user account for any reason at any time. Moderators do not preview new posts; the moderators and site operators take no responsibility for any content posted by the community.

Always Be Civil

Nothing sabotages a healthy conversation like rudeness:
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These are not concrete terms with precise definitions — avoid even the appearance of any of these things. If you’re unsure, ask yourself how you would feel if your post was featured on the front page of the New York Times.

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Keep It Tidy

Make the effort to put things in the right place, so that we can spend more time discussing and less cleaning up. So:
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Rather than posting “+1” or “Agreed”, use the Like button. Rather than taking an existing topic in a radically different direction, use Reply as a Linked Topic.

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