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I think you countered my point regarding this specific deconversion quite well as you provided a plausible explanation.The reason why she did not find another branch of Christianity coming from Calvary Chapel, generally is because they are taught to study but not question. Though Calvary Chapel is very rigid, most of its adherents don’t feel it is as they really work on a feel good community. So it generally feels good to be there and people don’t notice the tunnel vision as they are the real Christians.
Generally the mentality is to not trust anyone else, and this is drilled into the group so that if someone questions and it gets uncomfortable then it must be from the devil. The thought is, since we are right why should we discuss it? Why cause division?
And the solution is to study the Bible more, read commentaries and pray. You need to focus on your spiritual side if you have doubts. Constantly the focus is on the person and their relationship.
No Calvary Chapel person who has spent much time in that group would trust Catholics for advice or dialogue. Catholics are the absolute worst, Atheists second, Orthodox maybe third if they even acknowledge their existence and then so on. This varies from pastor to pastor but this is my personal experience.
God Bless
Scylla
You make it sound like it is a pseudocult, but I think you stressed the point aptly. They are forced to learn, but never to question. From personal experience, this is not how science works; it is not a body of information, but rather a method of inquiry where skepticism is encouraged.
I think this quote will help to illuminate the point:
But I am curious though, how does the Catholic Church differ from Calvary Chapel? How does it promote skepticism and critical inquiry.“Mythical accounts and religious beliefs give humans enormous comfort in the face of adversity. To be effective, however, they must be held firmly, and not the subject to doubt. Unresolved questions, unclear answers, and changing views work in the opposite direction. They raise anxiety in us about our safety and destiny. For many of us, any firm answer which conveys a sense of purpose is better than no answer at all.” (Shapiro, Robert. Origins: A Skeptic’s Guide to the Creation of Life on Earth. New York, New York: Summit Books, 1986. Pg. 35.)