Before I became Catholic, I used to hold séances. My advice is to keep as far away from them as you can. Those contacted during a séance are not your ancestors or the spirits of anyone, but demons masquerading as the spirits of people. ***This is extremely dangerous. ***It opens the door for evil to enter your life in a very real and tangible way. Even just attending a séance opens you to this evil influence. Once this door is opened, it is extremely difficult to close again.
Praying for those who have passed on and asking for intercessory prayer from those who have gone before us, like Mary and the Saints, is nothing like a séance. Again, those contacted in a séance are evil spirits/demons, not saints or your ancestors. In a séance, you call up the spirits, in prayer, you do not.
Yes, I think even just watching a séance on youtube will open the door to that evil.
Even now, after 32 years as a faithful, practicing Catholic, I still have problems with evil spirits. They manifest in different ways. One lurked about my house and made itself known with a feeling of great fear, terrible evil and a really bad smell. Just last night, satan was in my dreams.
**Do not have anything to do with séances. It imperils your immortal soul.
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