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Sirach14
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" Can a non-Catholic Christian receive the sacrament of penance?"
Otherwise, the answer would be no. A baptized Christian who is seeking admission into the Catholic Church is admitted to this sacrament prior to Confirmation and Eucharist. So you might think that this is the same thing as a Christian from another denomination approaching a priest for Confession but candidates for Confirmation are admitted to the sacrament only when they are deemed to be adequately catechized.No, but…
the *Code of Canon Law *makes an exception in emergency cases: “If the danger of death is present or other grave necessity, in the judgment of the diocesan bishop or the conference of bishops, Catholic administers may licitly administer these sacraments (penance, eucharist, and anointing of the sick) to other Christians … who cannot approach a minister of their own community and on their own ask for it, provided they manifest the Catholic faith in these sacraments and are properly disposed” (Canon 844, No.4).
catholicherald.com/saunders/97ws/ws970710.htm
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kepha1
I’m afraid that the answer is no. The reason is that, although you believe, you are holding back. Your reason may be noble in a sense but you should discuss the matter with your wife (you probably already have). Would your marriage suffer somehow if you entered the Church now and your wife continued her own spiritual path? If you can assure her that your entrance into the Church will not be used to pressure her to do the same, that you will be willing to learn and answer any questions she has about the faith without trying to force her to make a decision for which she is not ready, you should be able to complete the process of joining the Church without delay.I am an evangelical who is convinced of the truth of the RCC. I have slowed my pilgrimage for my loving, Christian wife of 18 years to catch up to me. I am hopeful, prayerful, and believing that God, in His abundant grace, is calling us, in our oneness as spouses, into the Church together. I am ready to cross the river, but remain swimming in it for now. … I would love to be able to partake in the sacrament of penance now during this waiting period. Is this possible?
Hi Tiberswimmer,I am an evangelical who is convinced of the truth of the RCC. I have slowed my pilgrimage for my loving, Christian wife of 18 years to catch up to me. I am hopeful, prayerful, and believing that God, in His abundant grace, is calling us, in our oneness as spouses, into the Church together. I am ready to cross the river, but remain swimming in it for now…
That is correct. He should NOT have heard your confession and I wonder if it even was valid.… The priest then told me that he shouldn’t have heard my confession because I hadn’t been initiated into the church …
One RCIA candidate on this board felt the same longing for confession and went to a priest during “hours” and told the priest what his situation was. The priest agreed to hear his confession but when it came time to pronounce the absolution, he clearly stated that his intention could not be to confer absolution according to the canons of the Church and made a provisional absolution instead. This was very helpful to the RCIA candidate, and he is looking forward to “the real thing” when the time comes.That is correct. He should NOT have heard your confession and I wonder if it even was valid.
One RCIA candidate on this board felt the same longing for confession and went to a priest during “hours” and told the priest what his situation was. The priest agreed to hear his confession but when it came time to pronounce the absolution, he clearly stated that his intention could not be to confer absolution according to the canons of the Church and made a provisional absolution instead. This was very helpful to the RCIA candidate, and he is looking forward to “the real thing” when the time comes.That is correct. He should NOT have heard your confession and I wonder if it even was valid.
Your confusion lies in that you (apparently) were not raised Catholic. It sounds like you have been validly baptized but not formally catechized. This is the difference. Catholic children receive the sacrament of Penance prior to Communion and Confirmation. Your state is similar but also significantly different. Technically, you are not a catechumen (a term signifying a non-Christian) but a candidate (a term signifying a non-Catholic Christian). The RCIA program is really intended for catechumens although candidates often come into the Church through the same process.The priest then told me that he shouldn’t have heard my confession because I hadn’t been initiated into the church. He’s now working on speeding up this initiation rite, which I had never heard of. He thinks that it should be soon after the start of RCIA rather than later. He regrets giving me the sacrament because I wasn’t yet initiated into the church. I didn’t even know that there was an initiation prior to confirmation, so now I’m confused.