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Does anyone know of resources for finding housing for a college bound daughter. She is transfering to the College of Charleston,SC in August. She cannot afford much so we are hoping she can find a roommate or someone renting out a room from their home. (Preferably a Catholic but at least a Christian roommate/family.)

Anyone know of listings through Christian/Catholic campus organizations?

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Mary
 
If the college has a Neuman Center, that would be the place to check.👍

I know that Catholic and Christian are the operative terms here, but (having just gotten out of college) I would first worry about finding someone you can get along with for a semester. 😃

I will certainly pray for you and your daughter, of course.
 
Does anyone know of resources for finding housing for a college bound daughter. She is transfering to the College of Charleston,SC in August. She cannot afford much so we are hoping she can find a roommate or someone renting out a room from their home. (Preferably a Catholic but at least a Christian roommate/family.)

Anyone know of listings through Christian/Catholic campus organizations?

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Mary
Be careful she doesn’t end up roommates with someone from Campus Crusade for Christ! :eek:

Have her call the school and see if there is a pro-life group on campus - that’s where you’ll find other Catholics, or at least Christians with the right mindset. And be sure to run a background check on anyone she rooms with!
 
Do they not have dorms? The university I attended had extremely safe dorms. You had a password that you had to type into a keypad to enter. A resident assistant was always at the front desk and they made sure that guests were gone when it was time for them to be gone.
 
^ Dorms tend to be expensive. I had to commute and live with relatives because I could not afford the dorms in college. Even though it would have been A LOT nicer to be on campus.
 
Be careful she doesn’t end up roommates with someone from Campus Crusade for Christ! :eek:

Have her call the school and see if there is a pro-life group on campus - that’s where you’ll find other Catholics, or at least Christians with the right mindset. And be sure to run a background check on anyone she rooms with!
What is Campus Crusade for Christ?
 
Does anyone know of resources for finding housing for a college bound daughter. She is transferring to the College of Charleston,SC in August. She cannot afford much so we are hoping she can find a roommate or someone renting out a room from their home. (Preferably a Catholic but at least a Christian roommate/family.)
Anyone know of listings through Christian/Catholic campus organizations?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Mary
Hi Mary,

Here’s a link to the Catholic Student Association at the College, which would be a good place to start. (The CSA calendar mentions a summer orientation.)

sccatholic.net/cofcatholics/

The Sunday Student Mass is at St. Patrick’s Church (see below), and I’d imagine that they might have some leads / ideas, too.
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Catholic Student Association Sundays

…the best way to start the week!

**Student 5:00 PM Mass

** **Student Mass is celebrated each Sunday of the semester at St. Patrick Church, corner of St. Philip and Radcliffe Streets. **All are welcome! One of the best ways to share faith is to bring a friend to Sunday Mass and our activities. As Catholics we open our community to all interested people searching in faith!
Priest available before Mass for Sacrament of Reconciliation.
 
What is Campus Crusade for Christ?
Is your Google broken? 🙂 They are a very anti-Catholic evangelical group that’s been around for decades, with a strong outreach program on college campuses. They’re always out in front, giving stuff away, having pizza nights, etc. in the hopes of converting people to Christianity. A worthy goal overall but it includes converting Catholics away from our faith. :mad:

p.s. I see they are now calling themselves “Cru” and not Campus Crusade any more. Maybe being associated with the name “Crusade” cost them when it comes to converting Muslims?
 
Is your Google broken? 🙂 They are a very anti-Catholic evangelical group that’s been around for decades, with a strong outreach program on college campuses. They’re always out in front, giving stuff away, having pizza nights, etc. in the hopes of converting people to Christianity. A worthy goal overall but it includes converting Catholics away from our faith. :mad:

p.s. I see they are now calling themselves “Cru” and not Campus Crusade any more. Maybe being associated with the name “Crusade” cost them when it comes to converting Muslims?
No my google is not broken but I thought it might take awhile to dig up what they REALLY are rather than what I would find out on their page, if you know what I mean. Then I also thought that I would end up getting bombarded with advertisements and possibly a million invitations to join if I read too many articles about it.

I have never heard of them! Maybe it is because I am just now starting the college “thing” with my kids. I will keep my eyes open, though! Thanks!
 
No my google is not broken but I thought it might take awhile to dig up what they REALLY are rather than what I would find out on their page, if you know what I mean. Then I also thought that I would end up getting bombarded with advertisements and possibly a million invitations to join if I read too many articles about it.

I have never heard of them! Maybe it is because I am just now starting the college “thing” with my kids. I will keep my eyes open, though! Thanks!
They’ve been around a long, long time. If you go to orientation I guarantee they will be there, probably handing out water bottles and/or t-shirts and notices for their first meeting. Now that they are known as “Cru” they should be even more obvious. Warn your kids. They can be really aggressive toward Catholics.
 
Hi Mary,

Here’s a link to the Catholic Student Association at the College, which would be a good place to start. (The CSA calendar mentions a summer orientation.)

sccatholic.net/cofcatholics/

The Sunday Student Mass is at St. Patrick’s Church (see below), and I’d imagine that they might have some leads / ideas, too.
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Catholic Student Association Sundays

…the best way to start the week!

**Student 5:00 PM Mass

** **Student Mass is celebrated each Sunday of the semester at St. Patrick Church, corner of St. Philip and Radcliffe Streets. **All are welcome! One of the best ways to share faith is to bring a friend to Sunday Mass and our activities. As Catholics we open our community to all interested people searching in faith!
Priest available before Mass for Sacrament of Reconciliation.
Good info here
 
I recommend getting in touch with the Catholic campus group, however, keep in mind that not all “different” roommates are bad. I had some roommates that had very little in common with me (politically, religiously, etc.) and we still became great friends. They didn’t lead me down some horrible path or anything. We were polar opposites - we probably wouldn’t have gotten to know each other if we were not assigned to each other, but the roommate relationship worked quite well and we keep in touch to this day.
 
They’ve been around a long, long time. If you go to orientation I guarantee they will be there, probably handing out water bottles and/or t-shirts and notices for their first meeting. Now that they are known as “Cru” they should be even more obvious. Warn your kids. They can be really aggressive toward Catholics.
You’re actually incorrect in your assessment of Cru. I knew several good Christian people who were apart of Cru in college and I found them to be good, kindhearted people, and very open to Catholics. I even went to a meeting of theirs before I became catholic. It is comments like this that keep us from joining with our Christian brothers and sisters and be unified in truth as God calls us to be.

I’m sorry if your experience with Cru was negative, but you should not be judging our fellow Christian brothers and sisters on the actions of a few.

God Bless You. 🙂
 
You’re actually incorrect in your assessment of Cru. I knew several good Christian people who were apart of Cru in college and I found them to be good, kindhearted people, and very open to Catholics. I even went to a meeting of theirs before I became catholic. It is comments like this that keep us from joining with our Christian brothers and sisters and be unified in truth as God calls us to be.

I’m sorry if your experience with Cru was negative, but you should not be judging our fellow Christian brothers and sisters on the actions of a few.

God Bless You. 🙂
You’re right, they are “open to Catholics,” they are open to Catholics converting. See their statement of faith from their website.

Statement of Faith

**The sole basis of our beliefs is the Bible, God’s infallible written Word, the 66 books of the Old and New Testaments. We believe that it was uniquely, verbally and fully inspired by the Holy Spirit and that it was written without error (inerrant) in the original manuscripts. It is the supreme and final authority in all matters on which it speaks.
**
We accept those areas of doctrinal teaching on which, historically, there has been general agreement among all true Christians. Because of the specialized calling of our movement, we desire to allow for freedom of conviction on other doctrinal matters, **provided that any interpretation is based upon the Bible alone, and that no such interpretation shall become an issue which hinders the ministry to which God has called us.
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There is one true God, eternally existing in three persons – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit – each of whom possesses equally all the attributes of Deity and the characteristics of personality.
Jesus Christ is God, the living Word, who became flesh through His miraculous conception by the Holy Spirit and His virgin birth. Hence, He is perfect Deity and true humanity united in one person forever.
He lived a sinless life and voluntarily atoned for the sins of men by dying on the cross as their substitute, thus satisfying divine justice and accomplishing salvation for all who trust in Him alone.
He rose from the dead in the same body, though glorified, in which He lived and died.
He ascended bodily into heaven and sat down at the right hand of God the Father, where He, the only mediator between God and man, continually makes intercession for His own.
Man was originally created in the image of God. He sinned by disobeying God; thus, he was alienated from his Creator. That historic fall brought all mankind under divine condemnation.
Man’s nature is corrupted, and he is thus totally unable to please God. Every man is in need of regeneration and renewal by the Holy Spirit.
The salvation of man is wholly a work of God’s free grace and is not the work, in whole or in part, of human works or goodness or religious ceremony. God imputes His righteousness to those who put their faith in Christ alone for their salvation, and thereby justified them in His sight.
It is the privilege of all who are born again of the Spirit to be assured of their salvation from the very moment in which they trust Christ as their Savior. This assurance is not based upon any kind of human merit, but is produced by the witness of the Holy Spirit, who confirms in the believer the testimony of God in His written word.


I am glad that you encountered some nice individuals through Cru, but I can assure you that they DO work very hard on conversion of Catholics. Not an organization Catholics should trust.
 
Do they not have dorms? The university I attended had extremely safe dorms. You had a password that you had to type into a keypad to enter. A resident assistant was always at the front desk and they made sure that guests were gone when it was time for them to be gone.
Must be something new. The RA’s we had were typical college students making minimum wages that didn’t really care that much. Most of their duties consisted of answering the phone and talking with their friends that were up late. I’m sure now it’s nonstop texting while haning out.

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Must be something new. The RA’s we had were typical college students making minimum wages that didn’t really care that much. Most of their duties consisted of answering the phone and talking with their friends that were up late. I’m sure now it’s nonstop texting while haning out.

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Yeah, neither of my sons could even find their RA when they had a question or a problem. 🤷
 
Does anyone know of resources for finding housing for a college bound daughter. She is transfering to the College of Charleston,SC in August. She cannot afford much so we are hoping she can find a roommate or someone renting out a room from their home. (Preferably a Catholic but at least a Christian roommate/family.)

Anyone know of listings through Christian/Catholic campus organizations?

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Mary
Have her check with the college housing office or student affairs, They often have off-campus housing listings. They may also be able to match her with another student for a rommate situation. Why is she not staying on campus? I usally recommend that for a student new to a university and area.
 
Have her check with the college housing office or student affairs, They often have off-campus housing listings. They may also be able to match her with another student for a rommate situation. Why is she not staying on campus? I usally recommend that for a student new to a university and area.
Dorms are expensive these days, $500 + for half of a small room with no private bathroom or kitchen, and you have to move out at the end of the semester. Then there are the parties, people coming in and out at all hours, bad roommates, etc. There is one redeeming value to living on campus and that is proximity to classes and access to profs. But they are not a cheap alternative so if there is housing off-campus, it can be a lot more economical for the student.
 
You’re actually incorrect in your assessment of Cru. I knew several good Christian people who were apart of Cru in college and I found them to be good, kindhearted people, and very open to Catholics. I even went to a meeting of theirs before I became catholic. It is comments like this that keep us from joining with our Christian brothers and sisters and be unified in truth as God calls us to be.

I’m sorry if your experience with Cru was negative, but you should not be judging our fellow Christian brothers and sisters on the actions of a few.
Nobody here is relegating them to hell. But it’s a simple fact that the theology Cru puts forth as “the gospel” is only partially compatible with catholicism. They are generally great people and sincere believers. If sincere belief were all it took, Christ wouldn’t have appointed apostles, who ordained bishops and priests (and so on). Evangelical protestantism contains MANY wonderful believers, but it is dangerous to catholics not fully formed or who aren’t privileged to live in a sizable community of faithful catholics. It’s dangerous because they are always evangelizing to their slightly distorted version of christianity.

These can be excellent people to befriend, but only if you’re either secure in the faith or have a pigheaded stubborn streak (the latter is what kept me from jumping ship while under their influence). I spent 4 years in college among a very similar group (Navigators) and about 40% of the group I was in had grown up catholic, but was “converted.” I was one of three survivors as of graduation day.

The problem with catholics converting to evangelical christianity is that it has no legs. I’m brutally over-simplifying, but evangelicalism is the exit ramp from christianity. They make few converts among pagans or secularists and their own children desert in droves. Instead they convert catholics and mainline protestants to an enthusiastic and intense religious experience that lasts a decade before burning out and leaving them disillusioned and bitter about religion. Nothing about their approach to faith prepares them for dark nights of the soul. Go ask a random sample of people coming out of a mega-church some time how long they’ve been there. Almost nobody will give a number higher than 10 years.

Again, it’s not that they’re bad people. They’re mostly great people, but with a faulty theology that robs christianity of its lifelong power to sustain and sanctify. It makes sense when you think about it. Jesus wouldn’t have given us the sacraments and a visible church if there wasn’t something about human nature that made us NEED them!
 
Must be something new. The RA’s we had were typical college students making minimum wages that didn’t really care that much. Most of their duties consisted of answering the phone and talking with their friends that were up late. I’m sure now it’s nonstop texting while haning out.

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My university didn’t allow sorority houses. We had a sorority dorm. Each hall was designated for a sorority. :whacky: The RA’s were our sisters. If they didn’t do their job while being an RA it wouldn’t just be their boss, but they could get in trouble with the chapter or with nationals. One RA, who would allow boys in after visiting hours, was kicked out of her sorority. That ended her RA too job since she couldn’t be an RA for a sorority she wasn’t in.
 
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