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LilyM
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Well, remember firstly that saints are flesh and blood, and not perpetually sinless. That particular privilege only belongs to Our Lord and Our Lady, not Bernadette. And I don’t believe Our Lady would be any more discriminatory about her associates than Our Lord was - and we all know the riffraff HE associated with!Not to worry, I’ll just keep checking around.
But I must say that I find it hard to believe that St. Bernadette, of all people - that innocent child, that chosen vessel of God! - should give herself to the telling of ‘rude’ jokes - of any kind, under any kind of circumstances! Quite frankly, I find such a notion rather abhorrent.
Vulgarity, triviality and the like are bad enough in the “average” person, but how utterly out of place, how utterly unbecoming are they in a Bernadette for example, with whom, we believe, the Most Blessed Virgin regularly conversed!!
Then too, Bernadette didn’t come from some refined noble family where polite speech or fine manners were necessarily a high priority. Her folks and many of their associates were the poorest of the poor. Possibly not the most edifying of examples for her.
I’d almost be more surprised if she DIDN’T at least hear, and possibly repeat (perhaps without being fully aware of their import), the occasional vulgar joke or expression while growing up. Not that she would have revealed such weaknesses, surely, for any purpose other than to discuss her struggles in trying to overcome them.
To me it is the epitome of a saintly attitude to be frank about one’s shortcomings (we all have plenty of them, after all) and at the same time striving with all one’s might to increase in holiness. The (far from idealised) earthy humanity of a St Augustine type has always appealed to me more than the possibly-whitewashed image of the innocent types who are apparently born already halfway between earth and heaven.