St. Elizabeth Ann Seton is someone who is near and dear to my heart. I have visited Emmetsburg at least five times, just to be near her burial place.
It’s quite a coincidence that you chose the patron saint of Catholic schools to write about. When I read your first post explaining the purpose of this thread, it took me about 3 seconds to choose my own favorite saint… It’s the fine lady who I quote in my signature line: St. Madeliene Sophie Barat. She was the founder of the Society of the Sacred Heart, the nuns that taught me in high school.
Mother Sophie, as she was called, was what I’d term a true feminist…one who loved being a woman & used her feminine gifts to change the lives of so many Catholic women. She had no desire to become a priest as she knew that “the hand that rocks the cradle (or teaches the potential mothers) rules the earth”
She was a VERY hard working & humble woman, even though she was raised with some afluence & educated beyond the dreams of women of that time. Her brother, recognizing her fine mind taught her Latin, Greek, history, natural science, Spanish, and Italian. Her dream was to pass this type of education on to girls from all stations of life…from poor to well-to-do.
And there was that humility…a story was told about her: when it was decided by the local priest that the woman who had been in charge of a very small group of consecrated women (who later became the foundation of St. Madeliene Sophie Barat’s order) just wasn’t able to continue & Sophie was brought in…her first act was to kiss the feet of the handful of nuns assembled to meet her. It was this very humility, I think, that what made her impossible to resist. Who can say no to a woman who was humble enough to do the very work she asked others to perform, from scrubbing floors to teaching young women.
She passed her love of Christ & her love for her pupils onto every person in her order. (She was the Mother Superior, great friend & mentor of St. Phillipine Duschene. However, that’s another story.)
Here are some quotes that show her method of teaching:
“What is needed for winning parents and children is to be busy about them, at their service from morning to night; to forget oneself and enter into what concerns the children, body and soul; to listen to them with interest; to console and to encourage them; finally to sacrifice for them everything except one’s soul; and become for their sakes gentle, patient, indulgent, in one word, a mother.”
St. Madeleine Sophie Barat
“Give only good example to the children; never correct them when out of humor or impatient. We must win them by an appeal to their piety and to their hearts. Soften your reprimands with kind words; encourage and reward them. That is, in short, our way of educating”.
St. Madeleine Sophie Barat
“With the pupils keep an even tone, both gentle and firm. Show them by the care with which you help them to advance along every line for which you are responsible, that you care for their interests alone, and that you want to help them to acquire a solid and pious education, enhanced by learning, and thus make them happy”.
And all of this was to be done with a singular purpose: to bring glory & honor to God.
Don’t get the idea that the nuns of the Society of the Sacred Heart did not insist on self-discipline. They did. In fact, if one couldn’t discipline themselves, the Madames would do it for them by way of a private “visit” which explained what was expected of a “child of the Sacred Heart”

They believed in me more than I believed in myself than & prayed & prodded me into going to the University. The love they had for the Sacred Heart of Jesus just permeated all of “their girls”. Their impact on my life was second only to that of my parents. I owe so much to St. Sophie.