Same-sex marriage: where does my objection go wrong?

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So have birth defects.
Yes but you haven’t made it clear that it is a defect rather than an anomaly like double-jointedness. Being attracted to the same sex does not destroy the host. Partaking in certain sexual acts may but not all homosexuals partake in those certain acts, and that is another matter altogether.
 
There are billions of people on this planet and homosexuality has always existed, so it seems it has had no detrimental effect upon procreation. I simply can not see it’s destructiveness to the begetting of new life.
But Can they marry? That is the subject of this thread
 
Yes but you haven’t made it clear that it is a defect rather than an anomaly like double-jointedness. Being attracted to the same sex does not destroy the host. Partaking in certain sexual acts may but not all homosexuals partake in those certain acts, and that is another matter altogether.
You would go seeking birth defects and trying to make them happen? On purpose? Why?

BTW, your post is not at all clear from a grammatical point of view. It’s pretty garbled.

Men can have sex with chain saws too. Sometimes it’s fatal, although I don’t know that it always is fatal, although it’s always abnormal. I know that the ones that come into the emergency room show up in a bad way. It is abnormal, you know.
 
We need a definition of marriage from YOU so we are on the same page.
See post 115.
I assume you believe pedophiles couples should marry, also.
I assume you believe Obama is a secret Muslim, that Jews are secretly plotting to take over the word, and that the world will end in 2012. Hey, making assumptions about people without evidence is easier than I thought.
 
I never said I can’t explain why you think I can’t explain (but thanks for putting words into my mouth). Rather, I said the subject of incest is totally irrelevant to the present discussion.
We can’t have a discussion with you as long as you are being dishonest and won’t answer our questions.
 
See post 115.

I assume you believe Obama is a secret Muslim, that Jews are secretly plotting to take over the word, and that the world will end in 2012. Hey, making assumptions about people without evidence is easier than I thought.
Wow, where the heck did that come from? Getting to the bottom of the barrel are you, Spencelo?
 
We can’t have a discussion with you as long as you are being dishonest and won’t answer our questions.
We can’t have a discussion as long as you are being dishonest about me being dishonest and asking questions that are totally irrelevant to the subject in this thread.
 
See post 115.

I assume you believe Obama is a secret Muslim, that Jews are secretly plotting to take over the word, and that the world will end in 2012. Hey, making assumptions about people without evidence is easier than I thought.
Now you are just throwing a very uncivil tantrum.

You have no reason to believe what you do because you can’t even define it. Same-sex couples can not marry, to think so is irrational and that is why you refuse to define marriage. You can not reasonably support your definition.
 
We can’t have a discussion as long as you are being dishonest about me being dishonest and asking questions that are totally irrelevant to the subject in this thread.
Your thread is about marriage. It’s hypocritical for you to criticize us for limiting the definition of marriage when you are placing your own limits on it.
 
In my last post I said that you haven’t made it clear that it is a defect rather than anomoly
Well, here’s where it gets interesting you know. Some anomalies are physical defects and some are moral defects and some are psychological defects. Some are just simply anomalies in the sense that they are chosen acts which are unusual, and may be detrimental in some way. However, none of the aforementioned are NORMAL. They’re all exceptions to the norm in some way. And they’re all quite negative.

I mean, shooting up a campus is abnormal. Committing suicide is abnormal. Jumping off a skyscraper is abnormal. Standing in front of a speeding train is abnormal. Homosexuality is abnormal, and in a very negative way.

Think about it. You wouldn’t have to advocate for it if it were such a positive thing.
 
Now you are just throwing a very uncivil tantrum.
Right, and stating that I’m in favor of pedophile couples marrying wasn’t uncouth.
You have no reason to believe what you do because you can’t even define it. Same-sex couples can not marry, to think so is irrational and that is why you refuse to define marriage. You can not reasonably support your definition.
Some same-sex couples CAN marry (e.g., in NY), but most can’t. Why you think they shouldn’t be allowed to marry is still a mystery to me.
 
Your thread is about marriage. It’s hypocritical for you to criticize us for limiting the definition of marriage when you are placing your own limits on it.
In this thread, I haven’t placed limits on the definition of marriage. I’ve simply limited the discussion to the topic at hand: that is, SSM. It’s no small wonder why you can’t seem to understand this.
 
Right, and stating that I’m in favor of pedophile couples marrying wasn’t uncouth.
But you did, because of your reasons. Wanting homosexual marriage this way is wanting it for the same reasons that the guy who wants little kids wants it.
Some same-sex couples CAN marry (e.g., in NY), but most can’t. Why you think they shouldn’t be allowed to marry is still a mystery to me.
NO. They can get a piece of paper in NY. They still can’t marry in NY. You can’t marry someone who is the same sex. You can only pretend, and in some places you can now pretend with paperwork. Big deal. It’s still only pretending.
 
Well, here’s where it gets interesting you know. Some anomalies are physical defects and some are moral defects and some are psychological defects. Some are just simply anomalies in the sense that they are chosen acts which are unusual, and may be detrimental in some way. However, none of the aforementioned are NORMAL. They’re all exceptions to the norm in some way.

I mean, shooting up a campus is abnormal. Committing suicide is abnormal. Jumping off a skyscraper is abnormal. Standing in front of a speeding train is abnormal. Homosexuality is abnormal.
I already admitted it’s not the norm. In my first post to you I said why must something outside the norm necessarily be invalid, defective, and a threat to the norm. Lots of things are rare or abnormal but I don’t find the need to assign moral value to their existence.
 
Right, and stating that I’m in favor of pedophile couples marrying wasn’t uncouth.
So are you saying you have a problem with pedophiles marrying? If so, based on what standard for morality? One that can be changed to allow it when someone thinks it should be ok?
 
But you did
This is a lie – I never stated that I was in favor of pedophilia marriage.
, because of your reasons. Wanting homosexual marriage this way is wanting it for the same reasons that the guy who wants little kids wants it.
If you ever wonder why people on my side think you’re bigoted and hateful, re-read what you just wrote.
NO. They can get a piece of paper in NY. They still can’t marry in NY. You can’t marry someone who is the same sex.
This is false. In NY, same-sex couples have the legal right to get married.
 
I already admitted it’s not the norm. In my first post to you I said why must something outside the norm necessarily be invalid, defective, and a threat to the norm. Lots of things are rare or abnormal but I don’t find the need to assign moral value to their existence.
But the fact is that sex has a moral component. Sexual activity with another human being is not neutral morally.
 
This is a lie – I never stated that I was in favor of pedophilia marriage.
The reasons that you have are the same as the reasons that a pedophile has. Or a person who engages in incest.
If you ever wonder why people on my side think you’re bigoted and hateful, re-read what you just wrote.
Name calling is a bad thing.
This is false. In NY, same-sex couples have the legal right to get married.
There’s more to marriage than legality.
 
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