Same-sex marriage: where does my objection go wrong?

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Jealous? Like everyone else, gays and lesbians are entitled to be treated with equal respect under the law. It’s sad that you still don’t understand this.
NONSENSE. All people deserve to be treated like individuals, but these weird impossible sexual laisons are not recognizable under the law or in the Church. The laisons are nothing. The sexual events that they are supposed to be composed of don’t exist except as biological accidents.
 
There are males and there are females. Got that? Look around you. GOT IT???
There is a reason there are males and females.
So that they can MATE and make small males and females.
But human beings, unlike DOGS, have spiritual needs and a potential for a relationship with the Divine which we call God.
So we don’t just rut in the street like the dogs, we marry like human beings, the point being to unite a MALE and a FEMALE in a blessed relationship under GOD.
This takes care, not only of our ability to MATE, but our religious needs.

This is how it works. I hope you’re not older than 8 years old because I’d hate to think I’m explaining the most basic mechanics of family life to an adult. :mad::mad::mad::mad:

The whole business about getting a marriage license from, the state and all that is recent nonsense that post-dates modernity historically. This is where all the difficulty with definitions comes from. Getting a piece of paper from the government is just that. It means that your insurance works and so on. But it’s NOT REALLY MARRIAGE, and it’s NOT really sacramental. It’s just a piece of paper.

YOu can’t marry someone who’s the same sex as you. It’s a contradiction in terms.
That is the best post I have seen this whole day. It is like trying to explain three year old concepts to adults!!!

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gays and lesbians are entitled to be treated with equal respect under the law. It’s sad that you still don’t understand this.
Do you think it’s not showing equal respect that a mother can’t marry her son?
 
And a biological short-circuit. There are a certain number of these found in nature: lambs born with hearts on the outside, chickens with 2 heads etc. They happen because the world isn’t perfect, but they aren’t the norm and can never be because they’re biological failures, short-circuits, blind alleys that can happen but don’t favor survival.

When they happen to human beings, we build up a lot of emotional stuff around them in attempts to understand them, but they are what they are. We may even simulate them, because we can and human beings are very adaptable monkeys like primates, but they’re still blind-alleys, mistakes. They are not the norm and can never be.
Do you think anything that exists outside the norm is necessarily invalid and a defect? Is being double-jointed a defect, being a twin, being left-handed, are these all moral failures to be derided or mourned over. Why can’t we accept that anomalies exist and normality/ conventionality is not morality. Being hostile to non-norms says more about you than anything.
 
Wow-- my entire explanation apparently flew over your head.
And it appears that mine went over yours. You made the claim that the only type of union that can produce children is one consisting of a male and a female. But your understanding of “type” is too broad. Rather, the only type of union that can produce children is one consisting of a male and a female who aren’t impotent or sterile.
Sterile couples CAN get married because their biological makeup is ORDERED toward procreation.
And I gave two objections to this: 1) the whole concept of “ordered towards procreation” is a distinctly Catholic requirement, which should not be imposed on secular society, and 2) **impotent **couples can get married even though they aren’t “ordered towards procreation.”
 
Maybe someone here can (civilly) show me why I’m wrong.
You are wrong because you don’t know what marriage is. You want to hold a civil discussion about something which you are unable or you are unwilling to define. You are in good company, almost no same-sex marriage proponents are able to rationally define it either. Odd, demanding to engage in something which you don’t know what it is.
 
Do you think anything that exists outside the norm is necessarily invalid and a defect? Is being double-jointed a defect, being a twin, being left-handed, are these all moral failures to be derided or mourned over. Why can’t we accept that anomalies exist and normality/ conventionality is not morality.
Look, I"m a scientist and some things are incompatible with survival and life. Being born with 2 heads is one of them.

Mistakes do happen in nature. Genetic defects do occur. It is possible for people to do things that are outside the norm and outside of healthy sound behavior. It is possible, for instance, to stand in front of a speeding train. It’s suicidal and it’s considered a pathological act. Why? Because it’s not conducive to life and it’s not normal. IT will never be normal. Things don’t work that way. A person has to be very mentally ill not to realize this basic fact. And in fact, when people do these kinds of things suicidally, they are very well aware that this is what they’re doing and why.

It is a physical fact of nature that a person can have sexual relations with many things animate and inanimate, including other people of the same gender. Just because it can be contrived, like standing on the railroad tracks, doesn’t mean it’s healthy, natural or permissible. And it definitely doesn’t mean that it’s socially acceptable.
 
Look, I"m a scientist and some things are incompatible with survival and life. Being born with 2 heads is one of them.

Mistakes do happen in nature. Genetic defects do occur. It is possible for people to do things that are outside the norm and outside of healthy sound behavior. It is possible, for instance, to stand in front of a speeding train. But that’s not conducive to life and it’s not normal. IT will never be normal. Things don’t work that way.
You haven’t made an argument as to why anything that exists outside a norm is necessarily destructive or a threat to the norm. Are left handed people a threat to right-handedness, or our twins a threat to single -birthness.
 
There is a reason there are males and females.
So that they can MATE and make small males and females.
But this ignores the objection in my OP, which is that you seek to impose the non-requirement of procreation on same-sex couples. **So why should the right for same-sex couples to marry turn on whether or not they can meet a non-existent requirement?
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Getting a piece of paper from the government is just that. It means that your insurance works and so on. But it’s NOT REALLY MARRIAGE, and it’s NOT really sacramental. It’s just a piece of paper.
But it is, because we’re talking about civil marriage (not “religious marriage”). You appear to have the two concepts confused.
YOu can’t marry someone who’s the same sex as you. It’s a contradiction in terms.
If same-sex marriage is impossible, then why are you trying to fight it? Why fight something that can’t possibly exist? That doesn’t make a whole lot of sense.
 
NONSENSE. All people deserve to be treated like individuals, but these weird impossible sexual laisons are not recognizable under the law or in the Church. The laisons are nothing. The sexual events that they are supposed to be composed of don’t exist except as biological accidents.
Impossible? I don’t know what you mean. Sexual activity between same-sex couples are very possible, I can assure you.
 
You haven’t made an argument as to why anything that exists outside a norm is necessarily destructive or a threat to the norm. Are left handed peope a threat to right-handedness, or our twins a threat to single -birthness.
No one said “anything that exists outside the norm” is destructive. You have constructed a straw man.
 
You haven’t made an argument as to why anything that exists outside a norm is necessarily destructive or a threat to the norm. Are left handed peope a threat to right-handedness, or our twins a threat to single -birthness.
Being left-handed is considered a variant in our culture because a) it occurs in a certain fairly large segment of the population, and b) it’s not a threat to survival in our society. If it were a threat in our society, it would be a serious matter. BTW, there is no RITE of LEFT-handedness and it’s not sacramental. It’s a different kind of thing altogether.

As for twinning, it’s actually a positive survival strategy. IT favors survival in most cases in human beings.
 
And it appears that mine went over yours. You made the claim that the only type of union that can produce children is one consisting of a male and a female. But your understanding of “type” is too broad. Rather, the only type of union that can produce children is one consisting of a male and a female who aren’t impotent or sterile.
No, you’re twisting my words. Here’s how it goes down:
The only type of sexual union that can produce children is one consisting of a male and a female (whose reproductive parts all work). Surely you agree with this – it is called science.
Next: The only couples who can get married are those whose bodies are ordered toward procreation.

Now where in those two statements do I say that two people can get married only if they can have children? Nowhere, right? (Unless you are treating the underlined phrases above as synonyms, which is incorrect.)
And I gave two objections to this: 1) the whole concept of “ordered towards procreation” is a distinctly Catholic requirement, which should not be imposed on secular society, and 2) **impotent **couples can get married even though they aren’t “ordered towards procreation.”
  1. If “ordered” is too Catholic for you, give me a definition of marriage, and one that somehow limits the marriage to only two people.
  2. Catholics would say that impotent couples (where the condition is not fixable) are NOT permitted to marry. (But it’s not because their bodies aren’t ordered toward procreation – they are – but rather because they cannot consummate the union, which is a separate discussion.)
 
Incest is a separate issue and should be assessed on its own terms. The topic here is SSM.
So you don’t think incest should be celebrated? Why?

If you can celebrate marrying someone of your own gender, why isn’t incest as good?

For that matter why isn’t it okay to marry an alligator or running chain saw? Or the moon?
 
You are wrong because you don’t know what marriage is.
Sorry, that is your claim, not mine. I just don’t want to waste time defining concepts that are well-understood by everyone in this debate (even those who pretend not to understand them).
 
Sorry, that is your claim, not mine. I just don’t want to waste time defining concepts that are well-understood by everyone in this debate (even those who pretend not to understand them).
Stephen is correct, Spencelo. You don’t appear to comprehend what marriage is at all.
 
Impossible? I don’t know what you mean. Sexual activity between same-sex couples are very possible, I can assure you.
So is sex between a man and a chain saw. People get these goofy ideas and figure they’re just going to rig something up, right? It’s usually a mistake and hospital emergency rooms occasionally see real medical emergencies like this. But I assure you that some people are stupid and these are biological accidents.
 
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