This is an over-generalization. Apart from the fact that the term “abuse” is thrown around so casually in this forum, I would disagree wholeheartedly with this assertion.
In our Parish, I find the dress at our Vigil Masses to be better than Sunday morning. Apart from the clock on the wall, there is no discernible difference in the Mass with the exception of a different choir group.
It is worth pointing out that the whole notion of the Vigil stems from the ancient Jewish understanding of a “day” which begins and ends at sunset. Jews today still begin their Sabbath celebrations on Friday evening.
I’m not sure how much more “traditional” one can get when considering how and when Masses can be conducted.
As I wrote, “it isn’t a rule” and weekend evenings “tend” to a bit more lax as to dress,
with all other things being equal (that is, at the same parish and not where the evening Mass in question is always “youth” Mass or some such thing). I meant to make it clear that it was a pretty broad generalization.
Keep in mind, too, that I can only compare Saturday Vigil Mass to Sunday in a few Oregon parishes and in one parish in California. Everywhere else, I’ve only been to all Sunday morning or all Saturday evening for any particular parish.
Again: ByzCath is right. Choosing the Saturday Vigil when attending on Sunday morning is possible is not an abuse. It is wrong to say that it is, and some parishes are not even given Sunday Mass as an option.
I don’t know a pastor who would not be perfectly pleased with a family that attended his Vigil Mass faithfully each and every Saturday night to meet their Sunday obligation. It is entirely OK. The observation of Sunday and solemn feasts traditionally begins on the preceding evening, as the LOTH makes clear. The Vigil is not a “lesser” Mass.
An oft-neglected aspect is this, though: Sunday is still Sunday, “the pre-eminent day of the liturgical assembly, the day of the Christian family, and the day of joy and rest from work” (CCC 1193), even if we fulfilled our obligation to attend Mass at a Vigil Mass. There is the whole of Sunday to keep holy, all the same, even when a certain number of professional work hours and a certain amount of domestic work is necessary. I even have sympathy with the opinion that our Sunday rest should ideally begin with Vespers on Saturday evening.