Regarding exactly what is necessary for the consecration of the wine: St. Thomas does not agree with you.
St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica, Pt. III, Q. 78, A. 3:
“I answer that, there is a twofold opinion regarding this form. Some have maintained that the words 'This is the chalice of My blood belong to the substance of the form, but not those words which follow. NOW THIS SEEMS INCORRECT, because the words which follow them are determinations of the predicate, that is, of Christ’s blood: consequently they belong to the integrity of its (i.e., the form’s) recitation.”
But your position is that, since Rome approved it it must be valid, right? Well, did you know that Rome approved a “mass” that contained no words of consecration. I think it was the Assyrian Chaldean Rite. It has not words of consecration, yet it was approved as VALID. That should show us that things are not functioning as they should in Rome.