Saying "I swear"

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I am worried that I have sinned because a family member told me something tonight and before she did, she said, “Do you swear not to tell anyone?” And I said, “I swear.” Did I just sin? As soon as I said it (maybe even while I was saying it), I thought, “Oops”. I should have said, “I promise”, I guess, instead of “I swear.” Do I need to go to confession now?
 
I don’t believe that you sinned, but if it bothers you then go to confession and ask the priest for clarification.

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I don’t see any problem. In court they “swear” on the Bible to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. It’s just the way we say things. You did no one any harm.
 
Lord, Veronica realized she shouldn’t have said the word “swear” WHILE she was saying it and not BEFORE, so how could it even be construed a mortal sin? … when is using the word “swear” a mortal sin, Lord? May Veronica ask a priest about her situation (using the word “swear”) so she will understand the Chrurch’s teaching properly. May she not go by what I have said in this prayer to understand whether she has commited mortal sin or not, but may she go by what the priest says to her when she explains things to him. Thank you, Lord, for hearing my prayer.
 
Since when did Catholics started believing that making rash oaths, swearing to God on trivial matters, taking the Lord’s name in vain, telling secrets without good reason, and gossiping were no longer sins? When did this teaching change?

Telling secrets or making comments about another person without good reason, in order to damage their good name or reputation, is the sin of detraction. Knowingly listenting to secrets or comments which damage another person is participating in the sin of detraction.

Gossip is a sin. Listening to gossip is a sin. Paul puts gossip in the same list as envy and murder and calls those who gossip “Scandalmongers.”

Swearing on trivial matters is, among other things, taking the name of the Lord in vain. From the Catechism.

**2153 **In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus explained the second commandment: “You have heard that it was said to the men of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ But I say to you, Do not swear at all. . . . Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from the evil one.” Jesus teaches that every oath involves a reference to God and that God’s presence and his truth must be honored in all speech. Discretion in calling upon God is allied with a respectful awareness of his presence, which all our assertions either witness to or mock.

**2154 **Following St. Paul, the tradition of the Church has understood Jesus’ words as not excluding oaths made for grave and right reasons (for example, in court). “An oath, that is the invocation of the divine name as a witness to truth, cannot be taken unless in truth, in judgment, and in justice.”

**2155 **The holiness of the divine name demands that we neither use it for trivial matters, nor take an oath which on the basis of the circumstances could be interpreted as approval of an authority unjustly requiring it. When an oath is required by illegitimate civil authorities, it may be refused. It must be refused when it is required for purposes contrary to the dignity of persons or to ecclesial communion.

Rather than having to involk God’s name, your own reputation as an honest person should suffice. If someone is telling you a secret where they are asking you to swear to God that you won’t tell anyone, you have to ask yourself if you really need to be hearing that secret.

We say things like (God permit me), “I swear to G-- I’m going to kill that guy!” What then? If we kill the guy, we sin. If we don’t keep the oath we swore to God, we sin. We have just boxed ourselves into certain sin. That is why Christ himself teach us not to swear, but to let our personal conduct give us a reptuation for honesty, so that we don’t have to do swear an oath to God. To let our yes be yes and no be no, and that anything more is from the devil.

Again, when did the Church change its teaching on these matters?

-Tim-
 
I don’t see any problem. In court they “swear” on the Bible to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. It’s just the way we say things. You did no one any harm.
It is not about doing no one harm. It is about God’s command to submit to legitimate authority and his teaching that we not swear oaths demanded by organizations or entities which which do not have legitimate authority to ask us to swear oaths.

the court is a legitimate authority with matters of civil and criminal law, and so they may ask one to swear and oath on matters of truth regarding to when the law might have been broken. In this case, we must render unto Ceasar what is Ceasars. The court is a legitimate authority, and since you involk God’s name and place your hand on God’s word and swear an oath, you commit sin if you break that oath. You commit double sin, in fact, because you 1) lied and, 2) broke an oath to God.

On matters having to do with God, faith, morals, and salvation, the Holy Catholic Church established by Jesus Christ, is the legitimate authority. That’s one of the reasons why the Church regects freemasonry, because they ask their members to swear oaths having to do with matters of God, faith, and morals, which they have not been granted authority to administer on behalf of God. It is not their legitimate authority to do so but it is the authority of Christs authentic, apostolic Church. And the Church legitimately asks us to swear oaths at our baptism, confirmation, marriage, when we enter consecrated life, are ordained, and at other times. One is free not to take these oaths, and one is bound by them when we do. And we confirm the legitimate authority of the Church to administer these oaths on behalf of God and Jesus Christ at every Mass in the creed…

…We believe in one holy catholic and apostolic Church. We acknowledge one baptism for the forgiveness of sins…

It is about legitimate authority. The apostolic Church has authority on matters of faith. The court has legitimate authority on matters of law. Render unto Ceasar what is Ceasars, and unto God what is Gods…

-Tim-
 
I did not say, “I swear to God” or “I swear on the Bible”. I just said, “I swear.” And what I really meant was that I would not repeat what I was told, and I meant it. From now on, I will only say, “I promise you.” or “You can trust me.” And it was not gossip. My sister-in-law was confiding in me something about her teenage son that was bothering her and she was seeking my advice because I also have a teenage son. This is my nephew she was talking about, and I would in no way EVER repeat something detrimental about him because I love him and I love his parents (my brother and sister-in-law). My SIL is someone I have been praying the rosary for, in order that she come to know the Lord better, and AMAZING things are happening. I really did not give sufficient thought to what I was saying before I said it, and therefore I believe I sinned venially but not mortally. I have learned a lesson.
 
Thank you to all who responded, and yes, I do suffer from scrupulosity, and sometimes it’s just so very hard to know when I need to go to Confession b/c my judgement is often clouded. It’s nice to consult with other Catholics here on this forum b/c most of my family is Protestant or do not adhere to any religion. I’m good at giving advice to others but not always good at seeing what I should do myself.
 
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