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I’m just wondering about these hypothetical scenarios

let’s say two people go away to college and start dating, the parents’ of the couple wants to meet the boyfriend/girlfriend. if they travel to the hometown of one of them, would it be wrong for the boyfriend/girlfriend to stay at the family’s house? or should they have to get a hotel?

also, are coed dorms wrong? the kinds that are kind of like hotel room style. each person gets their own room and there are single sex bathrooms obviously. because that’s what most schools have.

I’m not in these situations, just wondering
 
angell1 said:
I’m just wondering about these hypothetical scenarios

let’s say two people go away to college and start dating, the parents’ of the couple wants to meet the boyfriend/girlfriend. if they travel to the hometown of one of them, would it be wrong for the boyfriend/girlfriend to stay at the family’s house? or should they have to get a hotel?

also, are coed dorms wrong? the kinds that are kind of like hotel room style. each person gets their own room and there are single sex bathrooms obviously. because that’s what most schools have.

I’m not in these situations, just wondering
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  1. Presumably both families would not be staying at one family’s home?
If so, there would be no problem, the presence of both sets of parents would prevent any immoral fun. If not, the out-of-town partner could stay wherever their folks were staying.
  1. I resided in such a building during college. There is no more immoral recreation going on in such a context than in any other. The days when universities rode herd on the kids are long gone.
ICXC NIKA.
 
I think that the gf/bf could stay in the home of the family, as (presumably), the parents would be acting as chaperones.

I think a totally coed dorm would be least desirable, but would not give rise to scandal anymore.
 
GEddie said:
  1. Presumably both families would not be staying at one family’s home?
If so, there would be no problem, the presence of both sets of parents would prevent any immoral fun. If not, the out-of-town partner could stay wherever their folks were staying.
  1. I resided in such a building during college. There is no more immoral recreation going on in such a context than in any other. The days when universities rode herd on the kids are long gone.
ICXC NIKA.
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sorry, I didn’t mean both families.

I mean if I went to visit the family of my boyfriend out of town, for example and stayed at his family’s house.

totally fictional boyfriend for me though. lol
 
One simply needs to advise said boyfriend that a young lady would need separate quarters. He could offer his room, and he could sleep on the couch even.
I would think the parents would appreciate this kind of request.
 
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