I am 58, a widower, and I definitely feel that I am called to the diocesan priesthood. I have been applying to diocese after diocese after diocese trying to get them to at least interview me for the possibility of candidacy for their seminaries. Unfortunately, the answer is always the same…“We don’t process older vocations any more.”
I also approached the Diocese of Scranton recently. Guess what they said? Yup!
So, I really don’t have any difficulty understanding why Scranton or the other dioceses are having trouble finding ordination candidates. They’re passing them up from the get-go!
An older man has a lot to offer to the priesthood, especially one who may have been married, and may have much life-experience and maturity to bring with him. Why don’t they see this? Is the “older priests are more expensive to maintain than younger priests – and they contribute more towards their retirement” the main issue…or does it still matter at all whether a man is “called” by God to this service?
I must give credit to the Diocese of Camden, NJ. They are truly interested in whether a man is “called” to the priesthood – first, last, and always. A refreshing attitude, for sure!