I respectfully submit that you have dodged the point.
We can get involved in the details. Being a jerk, I could point out that the Catholic Church does not properly honor Martin Luther. Without Martin Luther there would have been no Counter Reformation, and most Catholics would agree that the Counter Reformation was a good thing.
Trying to be a nicer guy I would say, “Okay, We non Catholics don’t honor Mary enough, but according to scripture she was a sinner and in need of salvation like the rest of us. It’s right there at the beginning of Romans.” I also don’t honor Stonewall Jackson or Nikola Tesla enough either. What does Mary have in common with the other two? They’re all dead sinners in need of a savior.
What alarms me is the current trend which seems to be heading for a new Trinity; Father, Mother and Baby Jesus.
I question supplication to “Super Saints” (as opposed to the rest of us Christians who are also saints), or to Mary, either of them. You can’t pray with them without first praying TO them. God hears our prayers, but if I pray to my sister she never hears it. I can’t get St Peter on the phone, so I have to pray TO him. This is not in the Bible. Now I know your position on sola scriptura, but if praying to dead people was encouraged by God, wouldn’t it show up in the Old Testament?
So honor the saints. Honor Mary. Revere their relics, name churches after them, mountains even, but pray to them? Can you find any place in scripture where a human prays to another human living or dead? Saul got in trouble trying this as I recall.
With all respect, prayer is not at all the same thing as worship. It’s quite possible to pray to (ask) any person anything without worshipping them. The word is used even in conexts totally divorced from religion - in the play Hamlet Gertrude says to Hamelt ‘I pray, Hamlet, do not go to Wittenberg’.
In the US Supreme Court documents will typically ‘pray to’ the court to hear such and such a case or grant such and such a injunction or whatever. The section of the document where plaintiffs set out exactly what it is they’re seeking from the court is in fact entitled ‘Prayer for Relief’.
Do you think that any of this is an inappropriate way of me addressing you, Gertrude addressing her son or a plaintiff addressing the Supreme Court?
It’s not the mere fact that the heavenly saints are deceased that is the trouble - it can’t possibly be. After all, Moses (who definitely died) and Elijah (who likely didn’t) both appeared with and talked to Christ at the Transfiguration. If you think the living can’t communicate with the deceased take it up with Christ, not us, He taught us how!
And that’s the point - Christ tore down barriers. Not just between God and man, signified by the tearing of the veil in the Temple, but between the living and the dead members of His body.
WHY ELSE do you think it was noted in the Gospels that the dead rose from their graves
and walked among the living (which sounds a lot like they communicated with the living to me) after the Crucifixion??? As a fun bit of drama? Or to show us that those who die righteous truly, as Christ himself said, DO NOT DIE BUT LIVE - are every bit as alive as you and I if not more.
As for a new Trinity - what the…? Do you think we make the sign of the cross in the name of Mary, instead of what we truly say, which is ‘in the name of Father, Son and Holy Spirit’? Do we offer the Mass to Mary? No - to the Father in Christ’s name Do our priests forgive sins, confirm people, and baptise, in Mary’s name? No - in the name of the Holy Trinity.
You have no concept of the Catholic scheme of things - where the Eucharist and other Sacraments take pride of place and are infinitely more significant than our mere daily prayers. And THOSE Eucharist and other sacraments, the most significant points of our faith life as Catholics - don’t mention Mary at all! How can you possibly imagine we unduly elevate Mary? Mere opinion.
And I’m sure Christ is pleased at any honour we pay to His mother for His sake - and all the honour we pay to her is for His sake, make no mistake about that.