I’m sorry, FrDavid96, but I’m going to have to give you a little push back here. It’s nothing personal.
What difference does it make if the priest had the information before hearing it in confession? Once he hears it in confession, he is bound to secrecy. Say a penitent mentions her pornography addiction to a priest and confesses it later. Is it still eligible for dinner conversation since the priest technically knew about it prior to the confession? I would appreciate any insight you have into this objection, for I might be missing something.
Yes. It makes a huge difference.
If someone talks to me about a sin, and that’s done in a public context (I mean one in which there’s no expectation of privacy), then later confesses the sin, then what was said in public is not protected by the seal. Anything said in Confession is still under the Seal, including the fact that it was confessed; however what was said in public (by definition, said in such a way that others could hear) is not protected.
Example: a married couple is engaged in a shouting match in a public park. At least 20 people can all hear what they’re saying quite clearly. Husband yells out “yes, I cheated on you, you gave me good reason…” The next day the husband confesses to me that he committed adultery. Now, if someone asks me “did you hear the Smiths yelling at each other in the park yesterday?” I can’t very well deny it. I might (and should) say that I won’t engage in gossip, but I cannot deny hearing it, nor could I say that Mr. Smith’s outburst is protected by the Seal of Confession. I’m sure you can see how that makes sense.
Keep in mind though, that no matter what he might have said or done in public, whatever Mr. Smith said in Confession itself is absolutely protected by the Seal. So while I could admit that I heard him in the park, I could not say one single word about what he said in Confession.
As to your other point, you mentioned that Dakota’s mentioning it in spiritual direction would be a “continuation” of the confession, as it were. How far can we go with such an interpretation, though? Say Dakota had waited a month before approaching Fr. Priest for spiritual direction. Would it still be a continuation?
There’s no time limit.
It’s not about time. It’s about context. If the conversation is private (what the Church calls the “internal forum”) and the penitent makes reference to “this is about what I confessed to you” or some such words (or otherwise implied), then it’s protected by the Seal.
On the other hand, a priest might not always know that a conversation is an extension of the confession. Example:
Someone confesses adultery to me. That’s done in a proper confessional, so it’s anonymous. Ten years later, that same person comes to me for spiritual direction. I would have no way of knowing about the prior confession unless the person tells me (and no, it would not be appropriate to ask)–so that would not be an extension of the Confession. It would still be protected conversation in both Church and civil law, but it would not be literally the “Seal of Confession.”
Thank you for your responses. I appreciated them, and I look forward to seeing what else you have to add to this discussion about the Seal.