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Bubba_Switzler
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I was thinking through the implications of the “death of marriage” in another thread by the name and described my temptation toward sectarianism.
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=611109
And now I’m curious about the the choice itself:
For purposes of discussion I’ll pose the alternatives as sectarianism vs. evangelism. (And by posing it this way I don’t mean to imply that it’s all of one or the other.)
Marriage is dying. How ought one to respond?
One approach, which I will call evangelism, would be to go out and try to convince others of the value of marriage and try to turn things around in the general population.
The other approach, which I will call sectarianism, is to huddle together with those who still value marriage, insure that one’s children get married, and generally insulate oneself from the negative impact of the death of marriage in the general society.
Now, again, one can mix the two strategies. But even so if you go the sectarian route you will make very different decisions than if you try to evangelize marriage.
And it occurs to me that this is a more common phenomenon. There are many behaviors, crime genially, that we simply seek to protect ourselves either because there is no realistic prospect of changing minds or because minds change slowly in comparison to the harm that bad choices cause.
Now we come to the question of charity. How much of our charity should be directed toward helping people who are making bad or harmful choices? Should we help poor Catholic families send their kids to Catholic school or help the children of broken marriages?
Many such questions arise from the competing strategies of sectarianism and evangelism. Perhaps the simplest way to put it is at what point do you give up on a segment of society that is perpetuating bad choices?
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=611109
And now I’m curious about the the choice itself:
For purposes of discussion I’ll pose the alternatives as sectarianism vs. evangelism. (And by posing it this way I don’t mean to imply that it’s all of one or the other.)
Marriage is dying. How ought one to respond?
One approach, which I will call evangelism, would be to go out and try to convince others of the value of marriage and try to turn things around in the general population.
The other approach, which I will call sectarianism, is to huddle together with those who still value marriage, insure that one’s children get married, and generally insulate oneself from the negative impact of the death of marriage in the general society.
Now, again, one can mix the two strategies. But even so if you go the sectarian route you will make very different decisions than if you try to evangelize marriage.
And it occurs to me that this is a more common phenomenon. There are many behaviors, crime genially, that we simply seek to protect ourselves either because there is no realistic prospect of changing minds or because minds change slowly in comparison to the harm that bad choices cause.
Now we come to the question of charity. How much of our charity should be directed toward helping people who are making bad or harmful choices? Should we help poor Catholic families send their kids to Catholic school or help the children of broken marriages?
Many such questions arise from the competing strategies of sectarianism and evangelism. Perhaps the simplest way to put it is at what point do you give up on a segment of society that is perpetuating bad choices?