How do you create a solely secular arguement against abortion?
For starters, in this day and age, with all the media alerts, technology and the information sharing sources like the internet, there is no good reason for a person to get pregnant that isn’t TRYING to
So, from a SECULAR standpoint, if a person isn’t trying to make a baby, that person, if he or she is old enough to have sexual intercourse, is old enough to not make a baby that they are not trying to make.
Not to mention, with STDS as severe as HIV/AIDs, not to mention Chlamydia, Herpes, Syphallas, and things I can’t even begin to try to spell and may make part that you want or could want to use later fall off (Ok, jest… but you get my point)
With those things, there should be preventative measures which would work to prevent the pregnancy taken.
If, otoh, and pregnancy does take place, ending the pregnancy before natural birth is dangerous. Not just for the unborn child, but also for the mother. There are many issues for mothers to be concerned with. There are threats of infection from the abortion itself. Then there is an increased risk of breast cancer for women who terminate their first pregnancies (sorry, I don’t have a link, but I got this from a source that is NOT anti-abortion). Some women, even if they don’t have issues today with ending the pregnancy, could have issues with it later and that guilt can affect her leading to things such as depression, which could lead to acts of self mutilation and even suicide.
The fathers are excluded. Even if the man says he’s ok with the woman making the choice, men tend to be territorial. Men, even those who don’t want to have children, often speak of their ‘seed’ when discussing the fluid that is necessary for procreation. If the mother terminates the pregnancy without his consent, many men will feel violated; their seed was taken from them. If it is with his consent, many men will feel guilt that they damaged their seed. There have been instances of men having ‘atonement dreams’ where they have dreams of blood pouring from the walls and these dreams have been linked to awareness of the termination of a pregnancy.
Most relationships can’t handle the ending of a pregnancy. Some do, but they are rare. There is finger pointing. Either ‘you made me kill my baby’ or else ‘you took my child from me’ is part of the argument later. Even if they stick it out for a while, the mention of the time is often painful for one or both parties.
Pregnancies that end in abortion usually happen because the mother feels she ‘can’t handle being pregnant’ or ‘this is not the right time’. This does not mean that the pregnancy actually corrected the situation. The parties are no more ready for the pregnancy when it happens again. Many pregnancies that are terminated are followed soon by another ‘unplanned’ pregnancy. The abortion hasn’t fixed anything.
Then there are pregnancies that are ended because of rape. The mother is often guilted into ending the pregnancy with the idea that it will ‘make it go away’. Ending the life of the child doesn’t un-rape the mother. The memories of the event are not diminished in a cold sterile room, or a back room in a back-alley apartment where the mother is violated again.
Pregnancies that are ended because of incest are likewise another non-solution. If the abortion serves to ‘protect’ the situation, it doesn’t protect the mother. It allows the rapist/violator father of the child to be undetected, while making the mother feel guilt over the situation. If the abortion happens because of fears of ‘inbreeding’: children of closely related parents, while not a good thing, does not mean that the product of this coupling will be any more odd than any other child. “Inbreeding” takes several generations to cause mutations. There are many people living productive lives and public lives who are the product of a woman and her father, a woman and her uncle, a woman and her brother. Ending the pregnancy allows these things to continue, with the woman being abused by the sire as well as who ever procures the abortion.
While I’m sure there is some good reason to allow for an abortion, I have not heard of it yet.
