Secular argument against gay marriage

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Slippery slope is classed as an informal fallacy.

In this case is it also easily mocked: Verily sirrah, if slaves are given their freedom, next babes in arms will be demanding the vote. Etc.
A splippery slope might be a fallacy, but might also be true

Some people caustiones: if we get (easy) divorce then what will stop us from accepting contaception, and then abortion, and the homosexuality and finally euthanasia or pedophilia?

We are not up to pedophilia yet… but APA seems to go that direction…
 
No, homosexuality is found in other species and so cannot be described as “disordered”. While contempt, hostility and prejudice towards homosexuals isn’t found in other species but only in some individuals in some human cultures, and so can be described as disordered.
That IS the naturalistic fallacy.

Many species practice cannibalism of their own young as well (like rats), does not mea we ought to open a McDonald where they serve baby-burgers…

Also some animals enjoy having sex with other species (I have seen plenty of dogs trying to mount cats, and other pets or even a human leg).
So is Zoophilia normal?

From animal behavior you could also make good arguments in favor of rape, if we follow your logic, by the way.

Hence NATURALISTIC FALLACY
While contempt, hostility and prejudice towards homosexuals isn’t found in other species but only in some individuals in some human cultures
That is nonsense.

In the animal kingdom, and especially social animals, the “abnormal individual” is often singled out and killed.

With extreme prejudice 😉

Hence, you are WRONG.
 
A splippery slope might be a fallacy, but might also be true

Some people caustiones: if we get (easy) divorce then what will stop us from accepting contaception, and then abortion, and the homosexuality and finally euthanasia or pedophilia?

We are not up to pedophilia yet… but APA seems to go that direction…
As I said, easily mocked - you just slippery sloped all the way from divorce to euthanasia in one sentence :rolleyes:.

The APA isn’t a moral arbiter, or at least not outside the US. France’s upper house yesterday approved gay marriage. Another country changes. Those who are really against gay marriage can always move to the Islamic Republic of Iran. 😃
 
As I said, easily mocked - you just slippery sloped all the way from divorce to euthanasia in one sentence :rolleyes:.

The APA isn’t a moral arbiter, or at least not outside the US. France’s upper house yesterday approved gay marriage. Another country changes. Those who are really against gay marriage can always move to the Islamic Republic of Iran. 😃
Inocente, I really wish there was a ‘like’ button on your posts 🙂
 
That IS the naturalistic fallacy.

Many species practice cannibalism of their own young as well (like rats), does not mea we ought to open a McDonald where they serve baby-burgers…

Also some animals enjoy having sex with other species (I have seen plenty of dogs trying to mount cats, and other pets or even a human leg).
So is Zoophilia normal?
Is it inherently harmful when a dog mounts your leg?

The naturalistic fallacy is actually the assumption that all things natural are morally good, but the thing is, nature is not morally prescriptive - it just happens, usually along the path of least resistance. You need evidence of consequential harm if you’re going to mount an argument that all these supposedly “unnatural” actions are also immoral.
From animal behavior you could also make good arguments in favor of rape, if we follow your logic, by the way.
It’s quite true that there are purely genetic benefits to imposing sexual coupling upon an unwiling individual. That doesn’t give it a pass when it comes to moral goodness, of course. There are plenty of practical benefits to killing all your siblings in order to be the sole inheritor of your parents’ wealth too, and this has certainly been done historically (and contemporarily, no doubt). What you need to do is put in the work to demonstrate why certain actions occurring in perfectly natural circumstances are morally reprehensible - and declaring that they offend an imaginary god just won’t cut it. You’ll have to look closer to home.
That is nonsense.
In the animal kingdom, and especially social animals, the “abnormal individual” is often singled out and killed.
And of course, humans have never done this… :rolleyes: Incidentally, do you consider it equally wrong for nonhuman species to turn upon each other over ‘abnormality’? And do you consider that human treatment of other animal species is generally just and compassionate?
Hence, you are WRONG.
Actually, no - not wrong, just perhaps a little simplified. In other mammal communities, there is competition for resources and mates. Consider, if you were an alpha male, for example, how you might react practically to behaviour of subordinate males who copulated with each other - they’re not a threat to your position, so why bother challenging them? Hardly worth the risk, really. However, a completely ‘normal’ and ‘natural’ male who wanted access to your female mates would constitute an open threat. So you might challenge and - if you’re stronger - kill said male challenger. Purely for practical purposes, not from any perception that such an individual was ‘abnormal’
 
👍 The demand for equality and “free” love has taken on a new and sinister meaning…
No, not at all - it’s just a demand for acknowledgement of the breadth of possible gender identity. We identify ourselves as ‘men’ and ‘women’ based purely upon our bodily plumbing, but the way people use their equipment and the ways in which they gain sexual satisfaction are many and varied, such that there is a vast spectrum of gender identities incorporating the purely heterosexual individual who has no interest in same-sex exploration; through bisexual individuals who are open to intimate relations with both men and women and everything in between, depending on their relationship; through to those who are purely homosexual, and could not even consider coupling with another individual not of their own sex.

Plenty of methods here, but what doesn’t change is the fact that at some point, many people will find another with whom they just know they want to spend the rest of their life - whether or not this involves sex, reproduction, sharing living space, sexual exclusivity, or whatever, the fundamental commitment is the same - you care deeply and passionately about that other person and find joy in furthering their wellbeing, and they become integral to how you define yourself - “I’m someone who cares about and matters to ‘X’”. Fostering wellbeing generally doesn’t involve abuse of trust or taking advantage of youth and inexperience. I think the fears of paedophillic ‘marriage’ are unfounded - at least, they are now. 500 years ago (and probably even more recently) the age of sexual consent for a woman was 12…but that was when religious belief had a much more powerful hold in the West than it does now, and when marriage was really and truly focussed upon the begetting of heirs - the woman had to start early in case she died in childbirth.

The current opposition to gay marriage is based entirely upon a very narrow and antiquated concept of what marriage is - namely, an institution in which males and females must mate and raise offspring, must invest in the furtherance of their own genes. If it is the wish of so-called ‘defenders of marriage’ to deny the institution to any and all who cannot or do not wish to fulfill the requirement for bearing and raising offspring, then for the sake of consistency, you’d have to deny marriage to any couple, including any heterosexual couple, that couldn’t conceive purely through straightforward, unassisted copulation, or even did not have any desire to bear and raise offspring. There is certainly an historical precedent for such a ruling, but I doubt it would go down easily these days…
 
The demand for equality and “free” love has taken on a new and sinister meaning…
It is quite unnecessary for a homosexual relationship to be accorded the title of “marriage” for it to be regarded as a legitimate expression of one’s gender identity. The demand for the same name for two intrinsically different relationships is an illogical and misguided desire for equality in **every **respect!
Fostering wellbeing generally doesn’t involve abuse of trust or taking advantage of youth and inexperience. I think the fears of paedophillic ‘marriage’ are unfounded - at least, they are now. 500 years ago (and probably even more recently) the age of sexual consent for a woman was 12…but that was when religious belief had a much more powerful hold in the West than it does now, and when marriage was really and truly focussed upon the begetting of heirs - the woman had to start early in case she died in childbirth.
Even now young girls are forced to marry against their will throughout the world. That is what happens when it is regarded as no more than a human convention.
The current opposition to gay marriage is based entirely upon a very narrow and antiquated concept of what marriage is - namely, an institution in which males and females must mate and raise offspring, must invest in the furtherance of their own genes. If it is the wish of so-called ‘defenders of marriage’ to deny the institution to any and all who cannot or do not wish to fulfill the requirement for bearing and raising offspring, then for the sake of consistency, you’d have to deny marriage to any couple, including any heterosexual couple, that couldn’t conceive purely through straightforward, unassisted copulation, or even did not have any desire to bear and raise offspring. There is certainly an historical precedent for such a ruling, but I doubt it would go down easily these days…
There is nothing whatsoever to prevent couples of any sexual orientation becoming legally united with all the privileges of marriage. The irrational insistence on **being regarded as having a relationship which is identical in every respect - even in name - with that of a man and a woman **is motivated by a perverse desire to undermine its traditional status - as you have made abundantly clear by your antipathy to religious beliefs and values. Like Dawkins and his disciples you wish to erase every vestige of religion from our society…
 
Agreed.

There was actually a solid piece on the question-begging tactic of invoking the generic truism of equality that was published on Public Discourse recently.

thepublicdiscourse.com/2013/03/7912/

Also, Ryan Anderson (one of the authors of What is Marriage) has been very prolific with articles and interviews lately, providing us with digestible points and replies. I’m sure most of you have seen his interview on CNN with Piers Morgan and Suze Orman?

Here’s a recent interview in which he answers the main points proffered by “marriage equality advocates” very clearly, concisely, and fairly. catholicworldreport.com/Item/2167/defending_marriage_and_why_it_matters.aspx#.UWQps6KG18F

Here’s a recent Heritage report that he did which covers the secular arguments for protecting marriage as traditionally understood. heritage.org/research/reports/2013/03/marriage-what-it-is-why-it-matters-and-the-consequences-of-redefining-it
👍 Thank you for those references, Jon. The insidious attack on marriage is another example of the current onslaught on religion form every conceivable angle! In the UK even the feast of Whitsun has been renamed the “Spring Bank Holiday”. It is only a question of time before Easter disappears but Christmas will remain because it is a commercial asset and many children here don’t even know what is being celebrated!
 
It is quite unnecessary for a homosexual relationship to be accorded the title of “marriage” for it to be regarded as a legitimate expression of one’s gender identity. The demand for the same name for two intrinsically different relationships is an illogical and misguided desire for equality in **every **respect!
Then why call any love relationship ‘marriage’? Every couple maps out their own path, after all. All such relationships are different - why bother to categorise them at all, unless you’re defining the institution by the functional ability to reproduce, rather than any other aspect of how a given couple may relate to one another…
Even now young girls are forced to marry against their will throughout the world. That is what happens when it is regarded as no more than a human convention.
Actually, no, that is what happens when it is accorded the status of a purely socioeconomic contract, backed up with imaginary divine authority - most forced marriages take place because religious and cultural demands are held to be more important than individual human needs and preferences. If it really were considered no more than a relationship between private individuals, we wouldn’t even be having this discussion.
There is nothing whatsoever to prevent couples of any sexual orientation becoming legally united with all the privileges of marriage. The irrational insistence on **being regarded as having a relationship which is identical in every respect - even in name - with that of a man and a woman **is motivated by a perverse desire to undermine its traditional status - as you have made abundantly clear by your antipathy to religious beliefs and values. Like Dawkins and his disciples you wish to erase every vestige of religion from our society…
Why do you wish to uphold a special status for relationships between “a man and a woman”? Why the determination to exclude other love relationships from this status? If it’s such a minor issue, why have any antipathy at all toward welcoming homosexual couples into the “legally married” fold? What do you really think you’re preserving, apart from the archaic notion of marriage as a socioeconomic contract to legally bind a breeding pair?
 
I hear a lot about the privileges being shared equally among all who would marry, but there is nothing said of the responsibility that falls only on heterosexual couples who have and raise children, and of course, having and raising children who become good citizens is something the state sees as in its interest. (This is why it makes perfect sense for the state to promote natural marriage and the raising of children by their parents.)
 
No, not at all - it’s just a demand for acknowledgement of the breadth of possible gender identity. We identify ourselves as ‘men’ and ‘women’ based purely upon our bodily plumbing, but the way people use their equipment and the ways in which they gain sexual satisfaction are many and varied, such that there is a vast spectrum of gender identities incorporating the purely heterosexual individual who has no interest in same-sex exploration; through bisexual individuals who are open to intimate relations with both men and women and everything in between, depending on their relationship; through to those who are purely homosexual, and could not even consider coupling with another individual not of their own sex.
So you are subscribing to the claim that same sex behavior is the choice of an individual, a choice they should be free to make. Correct?

To add “based purely upon our bodily plumbing” makes it sound as if body plumbing is irrelevant to the issue, which is nonsense. It is the equivalent of saying the fact that you are a human is based purely upon your genetic makeup which you should be free to ignore in this enlightened moral age. Why let a small thing like speciation get in the way of expressing yourself sexually or otherwise when, following your logic, neither species nor gender should make any claim on your ethical predilections? If there is no harm done to the members of other species why should anything stop such behavior for the sake of sexual gratification?
 
*It is quite unnecessary for a homosexual relationship to be accorded the title of “marriage” for it to be regarded as a legitimate expression of one’s gender identity. The demand for the same name for two intrinsically different relationships is an illogical and misguided desire for equality in **every ***
That statement sums up a typical secular view of marriage: “Every couple maps out their own path” without any implications for society or anything else. Marriage is not sacred or spritually significant but merely a human convention that can be adapted to suit one’s own convenience.
All such relationships are different - why bother to categorise them at all, unless you’re defining the institution by the functional ability to reproduce, rather than any other aspect of how a given couple may relate to one another…
Neither I nor any Christian, Jew or Muslim defines marriage solely by the ability to reproduce but by dedicated love for a person of the opposite sex with whom we can have children who have the opportunity to develop normally with a mother and father.
Even now young girls are forced to marry against their will throughout the world. That is what happens when it is regarded as no more than a human convention.
Actually, no, that is what happens when it is accorded the status of a purely socioeconomic contract, backed up with imaginary divine authority - most forced marriages take place because religious and cultural demands are held to be more important than individual human needs and preferences.

Cultural certainly and **distorted **religious demands. Forced marriages do not occur when parents **love **their children.
If it really were considered no more than a relationship between private individuals, we wouldn’t even be having this discussion.
Society has changed radically since we were born!
There is nothing whatsoever to prevent couples of any sexual orientation becoming legally united with all the privileges of marriage. The irrational insistence on **being regarded as having a relationship which is identical in every respect - even in name - with that of a man and a woman **
is motivated by a perverse desire to undermine its traditional status - as you have made abundantly clear by your antipathy to religious beliefs and values. Like Dawkins and his disciples you wish to erase every vestige of religion from our society…
Why do you wish to uphold a special status for relationships between “a man and a woman”? Why the determination to exclude other love relationships from this status? If it’s such a minor issue, why have any antipathy at all toward welcoming homosexual couples into the “legally married” fold? What do you really think you’re preserving, apart from the archaic notion of marriage as a socioeconomic contract to legally bind a breeding pair?

You obviously haven’t taken in what I have pointed out:
  1. There is nothing whatsoever to prevent couples of any sexual orientation becoming legally united with all the privileges of marriage.
  2. The irrational insistence on **being regarded as having a relationship which is identical in every respect - even in name - with that of a man and a woman **is motivated by a perverse desire to undermine its traditional status - as you have made abundantly clear by your antipathy to religious beliefs and values. Like Dawkins and his disciples you wish to erase every vestige of religion from our society…
To which we can now add:
  1. The distortion of marriage as an “archaic notion” and “a socioeconomic contract to legally bind a breeding pair” is simply an excuse for reducing it to a human convention for those who are determined to practise polyamory and other expressions of “free” love…
 
Is it inherently harmful when a dog mounts your leg?

The naturalistic fallacy is actually the assumption that all things natural are morally good, but the thing is, nature is not morally prescriptive - it just happens, usually along the path of least resistance. You need evidence of consequential harm if you’re going to mount an argument that all these supposedly “unnatural” actions are also immoral.
By this same logic, it is not inherently harmful for a pedophile to entice a child into a sexual relationship as long as the adult in the relationship provides support and proper “counseling” so the child does not suffer adverse psychological effects. The fact that the culture does frown on such behaviour does not demonstrate inherent harm. If the culture can be persuaded over time to buy into your sexual ethics, pedophilia should not be considered inherently wrong, since every “couple” should be free to map out their own path.

Yes I understand the consent rebuttal, but a strong case can be made that children are often more capable of informed consent in many aspects of life than adults are. Once the principal function of sex is removed from procreation and assigned merely to gratification, the slope becomes logically slippery indeed, precisely because your logic leads to accepting conclusions that are otherwise morally reprehensible; at least, to anyone with a solid moral foundation.

The reason your entire line of argument is a slippery slope but not a fallacy (more like an argumentum ad absurdum) is because your premises and conclusions remove any retaining wall that prevents you from sliding to the bottom of a moral abyss created by your own ethical position.

Following the presumption that “I should be free to do whatever I concoct in this little brain of mine,” as the first principle of ethics leads logically to the complete erosion of morality.

Of course, that is not YOUR first principle. Yours has a qualifier. "I should be free to do whatever I concoct in this little brain of mine, provided I do no physical or measurable harm to others. Might I suggest you think through the repercussions of this underlying tenet of your ethics. It is highly problematic. Your constricted view of harm is not only too narrow to suffice, but is also subject to revision simply by denying or modifying the view of the moral agent that may or may not underpin it. Simply denying that humans are anything but physical beings radically constrains the concept of harm to the physical. That is highly problematic even for you.

Considering that you claim even physical attributes such as body plumbing are irrelevant, there is not much left to base moral principles concerning harm upon, since you also deny anything supernatural (soulish) about humans.
 
I think a great secular argument against gay marriage is “separation of Church and State.” The outcome of legalized gay marriage is that priests and minister will be fined or put in jail for not performing gay marriages. Do people really want that???
 
By this same logic, it is not inherently harmful for a pedophile to entice a child into a sexual relationship as long as the adult in the relationship provides support and proper “counseling” so the child does not suffer adverse psychological effects. The fact that the culture does frown on such behaviour does not demonstrate inherent harm. If the culture can be persuaded over time to buy into your sexual ethics, pedophilia should not be considered inherently wrong, since every “couple” should be free to map out their own path.
And the fact that you seem to genuinely believe a child can be “counselled” and “supported” through a coercive and abusive sexual relationship such that they suffer no physical or psychological harm demonstrates that the “sex is bad unless God gives permission” approach to sexual morality is immature and hyperbolic.
Yes I understand the consent rebuttal
No, you don’t - as your attempt to circumvent it demonstrates.
but a strong case can be made that children are often more capable of informed consent in many aspects of life than adults are.
Such as…?

What you’ll find is that experience tells when it comes to informed consent. How can a child consent to something that might scar them for life? Your argument is a bit like saying that children are ultimately responsible for behaviours like underage drinking or overindulgence in junk food - both of which lead to demonstrable and potentially long-term harm, regardless of whether consent is involved or not. Adults can give informed consent to self-harm; children cannot.
Once the principal function of sex is removed from procreation and assigned merely to gratification, the slope becomes logically slippery indeed, precisely because your logic leads to accepting conclusions that are otherwise morally reprehensible; at least, to anyone with a solid moral foundation.
It’s good to have a simplisitc criterion like procreative capacity upon which to judge the worth of a relationship, isn’t it? Makes self-righteous judgement a much easier process. Never mind the happiness and autonomy of the individuals involved - as long as they’re popping out the offspring, all’s well that ends well.
The reason your entire line of argument is a slippery slope but not a fallacy (more like an argumentum ad absurdum) is because your premises and conclusions remove any retaining wall that prevents you from sliding to the bottom of a moral abyss created by your own ethical position.
You’re the one who’s removing the “retaining wall” by trying to gloss over and diminish the importance of informed consent - not to mention the right to bodily integrity and individual autonomy…
Following the presumption that “I should be free to do whatever I concoct in this little brain of mine,” as the first principle of ethics leads logically to the complete erosion of morality.
Who’s doing that? The people who cite “divine command” as a justification for abominable actions? Because the only evidence for this supposedly divine command is the will of the individual. Religious tenets can be used - and have been used - to justify a remarkable range of monstrous behaviour on the part of people who have believed they weren’t acting upon their own proclivities. Human rights count for nothing in the face of “God’s” will. I think you’ll find that nothing erodes morality as effectively as religion.
Of course, that is not YOUR first principle. Yours has a qualifier. "I should be free to do whatever I concoct in this little brain of mine, provided I do no physical or measurable harm to others.
Sure - although you left out psychological harm (measurable in physical terms also, if you know what to look for). The kind of psychological harm that might result from, say, convincing a child that her body is inherently dirty and that she is sinful by nature and destined for hell if she doesn’t toe the line - the standard outcome of a “proper” Catholic upbringing.
Might I suggest you think through the repercussions of this underlying tenet of your ethics. It is highly problematic. Your constricted view of harm is not only too narrow to suffice, but is also subject to revision simply by denying or modifying the view of the moral agent that may or may not underpin it.
Right. So actual, demonstrable harm is not an adequate criterion under your “superior” moral system? Prescribed “spiritual” harm is a much more reliable indicator, right?
Simply denying that humans are anything but physical beings radically constrains the concept of harm to the physical. That is highly problematic even for you.
Humans are physical beings. The brain is a physical organ, behaviour is physically manifested. You contstrain your own perception of morality by your limited concept of the physical.
Considering that you claim even physical attributes such as body plumbing are irrelevant, there is not much left to base moral principles concerning harm upon, since you also deny anything supernatural (soulish) about humans.
Where’s your evidence of anything supernatural?
 
I think a great secular argument against gay marriage is “separation of Church and State.” The outcome of legalized gay marriage is that priests and minister will be fined or put in jail for not performing gay marriages. Do people really want that???
Actually, some sections of society would welcome that. The state has already crossed the line of separation in this regard by recognising marriages conducted within the contstraints of religion, so your argument here is rather spurious.
 
I hear a lot about the privileges being shared equally among all who would marry, but there is nothing said of the responsibility that falls only on heterosexual couples who have and raise children, and of course, having and raising children who become good citizens is something the state sees as in its interest. (This is why it makes perfect sense for the state to promote natural marriage and the raising of children by their parents.)
Errr… never heard of adoption?

When no straight couple wants to adopt an orphan, would you rather he/she be raised in an institution or by a married gay couple?
 
I think a great secular argument against gay marriage is “separation of Church and State.” The outcome of legalized gay marriage is that priests and minister will be fined or put in jail for not performing gay marriages. Do people really want that???
Err… legalizing gay marriage allows the state to marry gays, while each religion is free to continue following its own rules on who it will and won’t marry. Can you name a country that has legalized gay marriage where that’s not the case?
 
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When no straight couple wants to adopt an orphan, would you rather he/she be raised in an institution or by a married gay couple? **

If I was the heterosexual child in question, I would prefer to be raised in an institution. I would be far less likely to be corrupted by the example of sodomites.
 
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