Secular arguments against pedophilia

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On a philosophy forum I was in a debate with an agnostic over something related to this–although he seems more like an atheist.

Most people prefer political rhetoric and cultural norms but I prefer to go to the roots and reality of thing. Best I can at least.

The agnostic I debated was correct that homosexuality does not cause harm in the sense of PTSD when carried out consensually between two adults or two fourteen year old kids.

We disagreed about the harm done to a fourteen year old having sex with an adult be it a heterosexual or homosexual encounter.

He argued it causes harm. I argued it does not. Speaking of two people attracted to each other that want to have sex with one another that is.

I’m even open to the possibility it does not cause “harm” to children eight or ten years old–depending on the context.

And by harm what I’m referring to is PTSD.

But whether or not something causes “harm” is only a principle for agnostics and atheists as to whether something should be regard as moral (or amoral) or immoral.

(I would argue that atheist can logically only subscribe to ethics and not any objective morality but that is a different issue or topic)

My feeling is that pedophilia is immoral (even if thought about) but attraction to young teens that have entered puberty and developed the characteristic in their physiques most adults find sexually attractive, is neither abnormal or immoral. That it’s criminalized points to a schizophrenia that’s characteristic of our secular age regarding sex.

I use the term schizophrenia in this way: dictionary.reference.com/browse/schizophrenia

You might notice that secular society usually contradicts itself over the issues of sex. Usually, they say sex causes no harm, not even when children engage in it, ergo we ought give children condoms.

Ad hocs tend to be created to bolster a sides positions. The term homophobia fits this purpose. Agephobia exists too when secular society flips out over a thirty year old having sex with a willing fourteen year old. But you’ll note the absence of the term agephobia in any of the rhetoric. But another ad hoc must be created to explain agephobia. The ad hoc explanation is “harm.” What harm? Few can explain. They just know it mystically exists out there. What they usually are referring to but have no idea they are is PTSD. But why would they be harmed if they are willing? The ad hoc explanation of “A fourteen year old can not consent.”

Basically, in terms of sexual selection we are dealing with prejudices and discrimination. We all have prejudices formed one way or another and we all discriminate. But we may feel compelled to create ad hoc moral explanations for our prejudices or what traits we discriminate against and attempt to justify them as universally objective truths.

I would argue pedophilia is immoral but based upon my views of the existence of innocence in children, what that innocence is, and the role of an older person to guide the younger person in morally appropriate directions.

One might argue my views of the innocence of a child and what the proper role of an older person should be are subjective views. And maybe they are. But they are views I’ve come to believe in and I’m confident they are true.
The legal view is the legal view but what you say makes sense

I don’t totally buy the children being born as “innocent” view. Then I believe in reincarnation too. I believe except a few sinless that people born here have blood on their hands. Why else would they be being born here and not a better place?
 
Hi billcu:) I’d like you to review what I wrote on the previous page and consider that the FBI calls them “children” or “kids” (infant, toddler, or teenager). I think the reason is a child/kid has a parent(s). The FBI has a section on CHILD PREDATORS. I hope that helps you better understand so as to avoid confusion. Thank you for your patience.🙂
You’re talking about Federal law. The Walsh Act is followed in OH. Many other states can’t afford all the drama and have there own laws. Read the FBI’s 1992 recividism study on sex offenders. Sex offenders other than murderers have the lowest reoffense rate there is. I personally don’t believe in registries and alot of this too is hype one of the starters was Maureen Kanka’s foundation. I used to belong to a group that supported both “victims” and offenders and When I say “victims” I believe in calling sexual abuse individuals survivors. Victim takes away power. We had a forum that separted offenders from victims and had one that they could meet and talk to each other too. The group no longer exists. Don’t get me wrong I’m not for sexual or any offenses but I think things are a little too much in our society.

regards,
B-
 
The legal view is the legal view but what you say makes sense

I don’t totally buy the children being born as “innocent” view. Then I believe in reincarnation too. I believe except a few sinless that people born here have blood on their hands. Why else would they be being born here and not a better place?
I don’t subscribe to reincarnation, Bill. And I hope it doesn’t exist. Once around this joint is enough. 🙂
 
Let’s put it this way:

In what jurisdiction is having “relations” with a non-consenting child ever acceptable? That’s rape, pure and simple.
 
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As I stated, I regard pedophilia as immoral (among humans, perhaps not among the bonobos), just the mere sexual attraction to prepubescent children. I gave my reasons why. But I don’t not regard a 30 year old person sexually attracted to a 14 or 16 year old as abnormal nor immoral. And there is no reason to read anything more into that. If you oppose homosexuality I could read into that that you believe homosexuals should be lynched. Or I could read into that that you secretly harbor homosexual desires. If you are an advocate of homosexuality I could read into that that you secretly harbor homosexual desires.
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(Logistics, one other point: I never said anything about having sex with a person under age 18 being illegal in the United States. I’m aware of that. At age 20 I had sex with a 17 year old that was several inches taller than me and probably 50 pounds or more heavier than I was. She was a sexually active teen, and apparently had an STD at the time. Fortunately, I wore a condom. I did 90 days in jail and 2 years on paper for that. I would not advise any man have sex with a 17 year old, and I would go even further and say if you’re 18 and male don’t just assume the girl you meet is the same age as you or older, as she might be younger.)
You are a sex offender. Your thinking is muddled. Your comment about me is incorrect. I am not a homosexual nor do I have homosexual desires. I’m a straight woman and have been married to the same man for over 30 years. (When he read what you wrote to me he wanted to join Catholic Answers and blast you out of the water so to speak. I told him that I can handle it Dear.) After reading your thoughts once again and what you recently have said to me, I repeat you should immediately talk to a doctor that will more than likely direct them to a qualified a psychologist or psychiatrist. " Here are two people that you should respect beside myself.
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Forensic Psychologist Anthony J. Pinizzotto, PhD,
Federal Bureau of Investigation:
August 2003
Intense controversy currently surrounds the Roman Catholic priesthood in America. Allegations of recent wrongdoing by members of the FBI have brought into question by some their fidelity, bravery, and integrity (the FBI creed). Occasional stories of psychologists abusing patients or making fraudulent insurance claims have made front-page tabloids. And so as a Roman Catholic priest who works for the FBI as a forensic psychologist, when I’m asked, “What do you do for a living?” some may wonder why I don’t say something like, “I’m a greeter at the local discount store.” And yet, the combination of these three professions makes for an interesting, enjoyable, educational and fulfilling workday!
Admittedly, if someone had told me thirty-five years ago when I entered the seminary that I would eventually be working as a forensic psychologist in the FBI’s Behavioral Science Unit (BSU), it would have strained even my faith. As a young seminarian with a bachelor’s degree in English and a master’s degree in moral theology, I would not have anticipated the next thirty-five years would result in having worked in uniform with the Metropolitan Police Department in Washington, DC, receiving a master’s degree in forensic psychology from John Jay College of Criminal Justice in NYC, a PhD in psychology from Georgetown University and completing an internship at Bellevue Hospital. There must be something to the adage, “Being at the right place at the right time.”
In some ways, though, it seems like a perfect fit: an examination of the evil men, women and children do from a theological, psychological and legal perspective. It becomes even more interesting when the prism through which I view the world combines the Christian humanism of St. Francis deSales, the patron of my Religious order, and the determinism of Sigmund Freud, the psychological orientation I’ve adopted. The resultant hybrid is something of a BioPsychoSocioSpiritual perspective: basically good people making choices within given and set parameters. Some of those choices turn out to have wonderful effects on themselves and others; some of those choices turn out to be pretty awful ones that have catastrophic effects on others.
My current position in the FBI is Senior Scientist and Forensic Psychologist within the BSU.
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