Abortion is a relately simple problem. There are very good, secular arguments against abortions after the brain develops. That is the time when one can argue that the conglomerate of the cells “deserves” the name of “person”. Not before that.
The arguments before the brain develops can only be theological, by brining up ideas like “immoratal soul”. None of those can be rationally established, therefore they are irrational.
By the way, the media is not “pushing” anything. The media is a business, and it sells what the population wants to read and see. And it is a fact that the society is moving toward a secular arrangement. The influence of all the different religions is in decline. I know you don’t like it, but the facts are there.
Can you establish a good, purely secular argument against masturbation or birth control? (It has been refuted that masturbation causes blindness or will grow hair on the palms.

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