Secular morality vs Catholic morality

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Hi Joe–do you mean ‘lesser,’ as in ‘less grave?’ Mortal sins, but less grave …or venial? If they are not grave at all, or venial…how could lesser sins lead one to hell? Please explain…thanks!
I took it to mean less grave but still mortal. Note that Jesus said that he who delivered Him to Pilate was guilty of the greater sin, but He didn’t say that Pilate’s sin in condemning Him was venial.}I think if one ranks the Capital Sins, Pride probably is the worst followed maybe by Envy. I suspect that Lust and Gluttony are low on the list, but more common and still sufficient to get one a place in hell.
 
Those are interesting stats…My one question is…are people being polled if they were practicing contraception, when they were getting divorced? 😛 Where does such information that is reliable come from to determine that contraception is leading to more divorces?:confused:
That’s why I gave the link; The article I linked gives several references to studies.

One source cited in the linked article says:
…economist, Robert Michael from the University of Stanford claims that the increased use of contraception has led to and increased incidence of divorce. He noticed that the divorce rate in the United States doubled between the years of 1965-1975; contraception became available in the early 1960s and nearly every woman had access to contraception by the year 1975. Michael attributes 45% of the increase in the divorce rate to increased use of contraception.
The article also shows there is a link between contraception and infidelity & premarital sex. It just makes sense that sex without responsibility gives rise to promiscuity.

Bradford Wilcox, assistant professor of sociology at the University of Virginia, in this article says:
Bradford Wilcox says social science data has “largely vindicated Christian moral teaching on sex and marriage.” Many of his colleagues, even those who are not Catholic, have found the prediction of Pope Paul VI — that contraception would have tremendously negative effects on society — to be true.
“Let them first consider how easily this course of action could open wide the way for marital infidelity and a general lowering of moral standards.” Humanae Vitae (On Human Life), No. 17, Pope Paul VI
Contraception allows for marriage to become less child-centered and more focused on the emotional side of marriage. Therefore, people don’t stick together for the child. They stop seeing marriage as intrinsically linked to kids. When problems arise, people think it’s better to divorce — even if they do have kids — because they see marriage in primarily emotional terms.

The research shows that contraception … allows couples to adopt a more couple-centered or hedonistic lifestyle. Couples put off having children to spend more money on consumer items like cars and clothes, focus on their jobs, have nice vacations and basically life the “good” life. We especially see this in Europe.

Second, the introduction of the pill allowed more women to stay in the workforce after they married in ways that they would not have before. Prior to the pill, women typically would have married, had children and stopped working. Thus, after the contraceptive revolution, married women became more career-focused and economically independent. Women thus felt freer to divorce because they had more economic and social resources.

Pope Paul VI also said, “Another effect that gives cause for alarm is that a man who grows accustomed to the use of contraceptive methods may forget the reverence due to a woman, and, disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires, no longer considering her as his partner whom he should surround with care and affection.”
 
That’s why I gave the link; The article I linked gives several references to studies.

One source cited in the linked article says:

The article also shows there is a link between contraception and infidelity & premarital sex. It just makes sense that sex without responsibility gives rise to promiscuity.

Bradford Wilcox, assistant professor of sociology at the University of Virginia, in this article says:
Thank you for posting this, Rachel…I appreciate it. I wasn’t disagreeing, just curious where the stats came from, and how they were compiled. I marvel that with the advent of artificial bc pills, condoms, etc…that the divorce rate has gone up…
 
Agreed, a noted theologian once said that it was truly said that the Church had gotten so deeply involved in the bedroom while neglecting the same outrage at all the social ills that face the world.
Unfortunately I am as guilty of it myself, “WE” are very WEAK in chasity/celibacy thus the ones who commit fornication and adultry are unfortunately strong.
Christ Jesus said there will be no “martial” type relations along with the act’s that go with it up in Heaven. Let go and let God ( includes chasity/celibacy, etc. ) take control.
Working at a job to buy something that could in itself be mortally sinful, one could be using martial act’s, or the fornication, adultry act’s to work at obtaining said item, product.
The act’s we commit ( according to Church Teaching ) does affect the rest of us. If “we” strive to be more Christ Like, the things that bother Christ Jesus will become bother some to the particular individual.
Christ Jesus said, try to save your life, YOU WILL lose it, forsake, give up your life, you will find it.
Social ill’s is caused by sin. What is sin, how did Christ Jesus teach us and the Apostles about the forgivness of sin’s???
Christ Jesus taught us that the Apostles, and whom the Apostles laid hands on down to the present age have the power of binding and loosening.
Christ Jesus HEALED people by forgiving their sin’s. Until people are converted ( has to be done by free will ) and taught the One True Faith, which incluides the Sacraments, you are going to have social ill’s because of sin.
 
Swan:

Dear Swan, God has given us rules to live by. Basic Catholic theology says you can’t condemn anyone for doing something wrong. A serial killer, after all, may be schizophrenic and unable to control himself. But basic Catholic theology also says we must admit the serial killer is doing something wrong and pronounce that fact clearly.

You might consider asking yourself if you are really upset by the moral police or God and his rules.

May God bless you bountifully, Annem
If you’re going to quote something I said please include the all portions of that quote that are relevant to your response. I specifically said the following:

I have no problem with you living your life as you see fit. Is that
what you mean by “tolerance”? I don’t tell other people how to live as long as they respect the rights of others to live as they choose and no one is hurt or forced (I say this because people are always suggesting that sexual and physical abuse are “okay” with liberals, sex with minors, etc., so please note that I am saying as long as no one’s rights are infringed on - violently or otherwise). My problem is with the moral police is that they DO want to tell me how to live - have to be married, can’t remarry, can’t be gay, etc… Those are choices people have to make for themselves. You might not approve but it’s truly none of your business. If you believe they are going to hell, let them work it out with God. Don’t butt in. Take care of your own life and grant others that same right.


Note my effort to make it clear that I was not talking about killers, rapists, etc. - one persons rights stop as soon as they begin to infringe on the rights on another. I’m talking about people who cohabitate (for example), not serial killers!!
 
Indeed. I find it peculiar folks are quick to mention war, poverty, famine, and the like as if we only need to focus on one or two things. The real issue is why are we not outraged by other disasters like moral disasters the OP mentioned. Failure to be outraged at some of these things is very troubling.
Promoting sound Church teaching (not my opinion) is my goal. Too many, including Catholics, say, “It’s none a your business! Leave me alone!”

If we are going to ignore Church teaching and then wonder “what went wrong,” then that’s a problem.

Peace,
Ed
 
Agreed, a noted theologian once said that it was truly said that the Church had gotten so deeply involved in the bedroom while neglecting the same outrage at all the social ills that face the world.
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Which theologian is this?

The Church has not gotten deeply in involved in what is going on in the bedroom. What they have done is refuse to change 2,000 years of teaching on sexuyal behavior. The reason we se them forcefully reiterating these teachings is so many today are not only anxious to give us every sordid detail of what goes on in their bedroom(or as in the case of the Folsom Street festival goes on in the streets) but also admamantly claim that no sexual behavior can be sinful. it is the duty of the Church to forcefully reject this-souls are at risk.
 
It is correct to point out that what was once private is now in your face in America. Self-restraint? What’s that?

No cussing and swearing - George Carlin, Lewis Black, Chris Rock.

No promoting immoral lifestyles. Howard Stern.

The sacredness of the family. Brothers and Sisters, Grey’s Anatomy and Desperate Housewives.

Respect for other faiths. "Watch out for “radical Christianity”! (According to Rosie O’Donnel.)

Art that promotes and uplifts the human spirit. Madonna’s recent concert complete with crown of thorns and mirrored cross.

If Catholics are going to be a community we need to point out serious and ongoing, mass-marketed immorality.

Peace,
Ed
 
Swan
My problem is with the moral police is that they DO want to tell me how to live - have to be married, can’t remarry, can’t be gay, etc… Those are choices people have to make for themselves. You might not approve but it’s truly none of your business. If you believe they are going to hell, let them work it out with God. Don’t butt in. Take care of your own life and grant others that same right.
Note my effort to make it clear that I was not talking about killers, rapists, etc. - one persons rights stop as soon as they begin to infringe on the rights on another. I’m talking about people who cohabitate (for example), not serial killers!!
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Swan, by the “moral police” do you mean the Catholic church? We are on a Catholic forum, and yes, the Catholic church does have very clear moral beliefs, and always has had.

The Catholic church does condemn cohabitation before marriage, acting out homosexually, and adultery. It always has done so, even in the tolerant pagan society it was born in. And yes, it does believe that it was called by God to do so.

God knows what is best for us and what will lead to our real happiness. Look at the statistics of those who cohabitate before marriage! Clearly, it doesn’t work to anyone’s benefit.

We aren’t talking here about small matters, things that can be overlooked with a shrug. We are talking about the very foundation of society, marriage and children. Even more, we are talking about immortal souls that might be in danger.

God bless, Annem
 
maybe writing in the editorial columns of your newspapers would be beneficial for others, young and old who are not in favor of the secular ways and in which it brings problems for many youths of today directing them to a path in life, or true vocation. Very mixed unfortunate messages out there, it is a shame. We need to do something.
 
It has to start as children though. Waiting until people get older to change them is as hard as teaching an old dog new tricks. So that’s where our target should be with the youngest of all.

And I am not saying, that the school is the place, it’s in the home with parents who set examples that imitate the values of the Catholic morality. Parents need to take real responsibility.
I teach baptism prep classes to parents and godparents. And I strongly remind them that the vow to raise their child Catholic is not restricted to getting them to CCD classes or Catholic schools. But rather teach them by word, thought and deed. Kids learn rapidly by example. And we as parents may be judged on if we lead our kids to Christ, or did we keep them away by our omissions and well as commissions against God.

That’s a heavy burden to carry if we haven’t taken that vow seriously. So that’s where the church comes in, to support families in as many ways they can. So teaching Catholic morality is a work in progress from the moment a child is born, but most emphasis needs to be made in those early formative years. Robert Fulgrum the author, said that Everything we needed to learn, I learned in Kindergarten. I kick that up a notch and say, everything we needed to learn, we learned at home by the age of 3. So how are we doing??
 
I don’t disagree but even older people need guidance and reminders. They need encouragement as well about how to live as authentic Catholics in a secular world.

Too many Catholics believe that when they were kids, and were told certain things were bad, like cussing and swearing, that it all goes away because they are “adults” now. Well how are you going to teach your kids to not cuss and swear if you do it? And what about other people’s kids who hear you cussing and swearing in public? In the past, people had a bit more self-restraint.

Some Catholics even think “Adult Entertainment” - Porn - is OK because, well, they are adults, right?

God bless,
Ed
 
Swan

Swan, by the “moral police” do you mean the Catholic church? We are on a Catholic forum, and yes, the Catholic church does have very clear moral beliefs, and always has had.

The Catholic church does condemn cohabitation before marriage, acting out homosexually, and adultery. It always has done so, even in the tolerant pagan society it was born in. And yes, it does believe that it was called by God to do so.

God knows what is best for us and what will lead to our real happiness. Look at the statistics of those who cohabitate before marriage! Clearly, it doesn’t work to anyone’s benefit.

We aren’t talking here about small matters, things that can be overlooked with a shrug. We are talking about the very foundation of society, marriage and children. Even more, we are talking about immortal souls that might be in danger.

God bless, Annem
Immoral souls or mortal souls?😛 Either way–I loved your post–you said it quite well.

I think we have sacrificed telling people the Truth, for politeness. I think there are polite ways however, to get across the Truth. I will say however, that it is not for me to condemn another–only God can decide who will be accepted to heaven, who will not. It is a responsibility of a Catholic though to make sure his/her weeds are being dealt with in his/her backyard…and seeing who else might *need support *(not condemnation) in weeding their sin gardens, too.😉
 
Swan

Swan, by the “moral police” do you mean the Catholic church? We are on a Catholic forum, and yes, the Catholic church does have very clear moral beliefs, and always has had.

The Catholic church does condemn cohabitation before marriage, acting out homosexually, and adultery. It always has done so, even in the tolerant pagan society it was born in. And yes, it does believe that it was called by God to do so.

God knows what is best for us and what will lead to our real happiness. Look at the statistics of those who cohabitate before marriage! Clearly, it doesn’t work to anyone’s benefit.

We aren’t talking here about small matters, things that can be overlooked with a shrug. We are talking about the very foundation of society, marriage and children. Even more, we are talking about immortal souls that might be in danger.

God bless, Annem
Yes, it is a Catholic forum but as I understand it one does not have to be Catholic to post one’s opinion. You seem to be missing my point, which is not everyone agrees with your views on morality. Therefore, it is problematic to try to force other people into your mold. Not to mention the fact that - for all you know - folks you disapprove of could be working their way to God on their own path. You can offer your opinion, but ultimately folks have to make their own decisions - and this seems to be a real problem for many on this forum - that each of us decides what is best for us. I don’t try to force my lifestyle on you and I’d appreciate the same respect - again, as long as we’re talking consenting adults here (no serial killers, child molesters, etc, etc, etc). I speak from experience as a bipolar woman who once had a severe codependency problem. Folks with your attitude would have seen me from the outside, jumped to a million conclusions and rushed to judgement. Yet they’d know nothing about me, my history, my problems, not really, nor about my relationship with God. Yet they’d presume to tell me how to get my house in order - as if they had any idea.

As to the issues of family, if two people don’t love each other I don’t care it they stay together until doomsday and made a million vows, it is a bad situation IMO. Hatred, greed, lust, all this things often fester within “norma” families, so just because it is a nuclear family doesn’t mean it’s a cure all.

It’s interesting to me that conservatives are just as fascinated by sex as Larry Flynt, albeit in different ways. The real problems of the world, greed, hunger, exploitation, poverty, etc. barely ever get a mention here, yet what two folks do in the bedroom has everybody all worked up. Greed causes more pain than sex, IMO, yet it isn’t as stimulating to the imagination, I guess. Sex sells, yes indeed. Folks starving in Africa get little attention unless someone is giving them condoms. 😦
 
So are you here to get an OK from other people? I have no idea where you live and I have no intention of forcing anyone to do anything. Perhaps it surprises you that Catholics on a Catholic forum are discussing how to live a good, Catholic life. If our choice doesn’t appeal to you, that’s one thing, but this is a forum for Catholics.

The Gospel message is meant for everyone but the work of actually coming to Christ is done by the Holy Spirit of God, not man. Once that decision is made, a relationship with God begins. It is Jesus Christ who said, “If you love me keep my commandments.” We are simply following the one we love.

As Catholics, it is now necessary for us to do works. The Bible is quite clear. Opinions can be considered but only in a Biblical context. Based on clear Church teaching, we grow to be more like Christ. It is our decision.

We all have free will.

God bless,
Ed
 
Yes, it is a Catholic forum but as I understand it one does not have to be Catholic to post one’s opinion. You seem to be missing my point, which is not everyone agrees with your views on morality. Therefore, it is problematic to try to force other people into your mold. Not to mention the fact that - for all you know - folks you disapprove of could be working their way to God on their own path. You can offer your opinion, but ultimately folks have to make their own decisions - and this seems to be a real problem for many on this forum - that each of us decides what is best for us. I don’t try to force my lifestyle on you and I’d appreciate the same respect - again, as long as we’re talking consenting adults here (no serial killers, child molesters, etc, etc, etc). I speak from experience as a bipolar woman who once had a severe codependency problem. Folks with your attitude would have seen me from the outside, jumped to a million conclusions and rushed to judgement. Yet they’d know nothing about me, my history, my problems, not really, nor about my relationship with God. Yet they’d presume to tell me how to get my house in order - as if they had any idea.

As to the issues of family, if two people don’t love each other I don’t care it they stay together until doomsday and made a million vows, it is a bad situation IMO. Hatred, greed, lust, all this things often fester within “norma” families, so just because it is a nuclear family doesn’t mean it’s a cure all.

It’s interesting to me that conservatives are just as fascinated by sex as Larry Flynt, albeit in different ways. The real problems of the world, greed, hunger, exploitation, poverty, etc. barely ever get a mention here, yet what two folks do in the bedroom has everybody all worked up. Greed causes more pain than sex, IMO, yet it isn’t as stimulating to the imagination, I guess. Sex sells, yes indeed. Folks starving in Africa get little attention unless someone is giving them condoms. 😦
. If you want to talk abou africa start a tread about it. If you dont want to disuss sexual morality dont particpate in a thread where it is a topic. On the face of it the idea that people being hungry in Africa precludes discussion of Catholic Morality is specious.
 
Hi Swan,

You might want to ask yourself where did your ideas, feelings, and attitudes about morality came from to begin with.

That is, what are they based on, what is the basis for your own individual thought about morality.

Your comments are very telling:

I would guess that you, and probably most people here, would not be able to identify that the argument you made as is classic Utilitarianism as formulated by the English liberal philosopher and liberal social reformer Jeremy Bentham (1748-1832).

Bentham “became the leader of a group known as the Phiosophical Radicals who spearheaded the movement for liberal reform of prisons, censorship, education, the laws governing sexual activity, corruption in public institutions-in short, what has since become a familiar left-liberal agenda for social policy.”

Bryan Magee, The Story of Philosophy, 2001 p.182 ( I can’t recommend this book).

Bentham’s Secular moral philosophy was based on the principle “[t]hat action is best (right or moral) which procures the greatest happiness for the greatest numbers.”

Thus, according to Bentahm’s Utilitarian moral philosophy, the rightness or wrongness of an action was to be determined solely based on its consequences (the end), and not the actual act or action itself (the** means**).

That which is good, according to Bentham, is that which gives pleasure. And that which is bad, according to Bentham, is that which causes a person pain.

According to Bentham, the right or moral course of action was the one that would maximize the excess of pleasure over pain, or else minimize the excess of pain over pleasure.

Bentham, and his followers like John Stuart Mill (1806-1873) and Bertrand Russell (1872-1970), applied these principles to private morality, as well as to political, legal, and social policy.

Bertrand Russell’s father was the liberal politician Lord John Russell (1792-1878) who was a member of the House of Commons and twice elected Prime Minister of Great Britain between 1846-1866).

Another important principle that factored into the calculation was that “[e]verbody is to count for one, and nobody for more than one.”

You see these Utilitarian arguments being made very much today.

So, for instance, if two homosexuals marry and it isn’t hurting, i.e., causing any physical pain to anyone, and it gives the homosexual couple pleasure, why shouldn’t homosexual marriage be legal??

If a mother has an abortion, the unborn fetus is not a human, cannot feel (much) pain, and the mother is happy because she doesn’t have to care for an unwanted child, then abortion should be legal?? She should have a right as an individual to choose.

If two people fornicate, and gives the couple physical pleasure, why shouldn’t fornication be legal??

And you can apply the argument to other moral situations or questions as well (stem-cell research, forcing pharmacists to dispense the abortion pill, contraception, pornography, video games, etc. any moral situation:

So, IMO, to your Modern way of thinking, the moral issues that should be given precedence and focused on are those that “cause more pain” while sexual moral issues that do not involve human pain should be of no concern:
It’s interesting to me that conservatives are just as fascinated by sex as Larry Flynt, albeit in different ways. The real problems of the world, greed, hunger, exploitation, poverty, etc. barely ever get a mention here, yet what two folks do in the bedroom has everybody all worked up. Greed **causes more pain **than sex, IMO, yet it isn’t as stimulating to the imagination, I guess. Sex sells, yes indeed. **Folks starving in Africa **get little attention unless someone is giving them condoms.
So God’s Moral Teaching and the Gospel’s Moral Teaching, Swan, form no part of your analysis of moral issues.

Thus, you classify sexual sins as not being important moral issues, while those that cause physical pain are important moral issues, e.g., hunger, starvation, war, etc.

You don’t consider the sexual sin as damaging to man’s soul.

And that, my friends, is pure classical Utilitarianism, a Secular moral philosophy that you will find in America’s media, courts of law, schools and universities, business, law, and graduate schools.

So much so that many modern philosophers joke that “U.S.A.” stands for the Utilitarian States of America.

But the media, television, newspapers, don’t inform you about it; they keep the story of Utlitarianism hushed up.

You may study about it if you get a higher education at a university or pursue graduate studies, depending on what you study.

There’s also Pragmatism (a modern philosophy that had its origins at the Philosophy Department of Harvard University), and Nietzcheanism, but I’ll have to write about those another evening).
 
The real problems of the world, greed, hunger, exploitation, poverty, etc. barely ever get a mention here, yet what two folks do in the bedroom has everybody all worked up. Greed causes more pain than sex, IMO, yet it isn’t as stimulating to the imagination, I guess. Sex sells, yes indeed. Folks starving in Africa get little attention unless someone is giving them condoms. 😦
One’s exterior life is just a glimpse of the interior. Christ’s analogy of the tomb is a perfect one. So anyone telling me that what he does in the privacy of his bedroom is not a reflection of his impact to the society at large is not telling the whole truth. These are people who abuse their wives or commit incest, fornicate, sodomize - all in the privacy of their own bedroom and then pretend that these don’t cause as much pain as hunger or poverty or exploitation. Nice try.
 
It seems that some of you only want the hear from people who agree with you. The thread topic is Catholic moralty as compared to secular morality. I thought you might be interested in hearing from the “other” side, getting an idea of the thought processes of those who don’t necessarily agree with all Catholic teachings, along with why some of us feel the way we do and our views on your views. But I guess you’d just rather gather round and trash everyone who doesn’t agree with you, so continue where you left off…:rolleyes:
 
It seems that some of you only want the hear from people who agree with you. The thread topic is Catholic moralty as compared to secular morality. I thought you might be interested in hearing from the “other” side, getting an idea of the thought processes of those who don’t necessarily agree with all Catholic teachings, along with why some of us feel the way we do and our views on your views. But I guess you’d just rather gather round and trash everyone who doesn’t agree with you, so continue where you left off…
???

I don’t know how you reach that conclusion, Swan; I wouldn’t do that to you.
 
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