Secular third orders with full habits

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Yet Blessed John Paul II suggests just the opposite in Vita consecrata.
The Church must always seek to make her presence visible in everyday life, especially in contemporary culture, which is often very secularized and yet sensitive to the language of signs. In this regard the Church has a right to expect a significant contribution from consecrated persons, called as they are in every situation to bear clear witness that they belong to Christ.
Since the habit is a sign of consecration, poverty and membership in a particular Religious family, I join the Fathers of the Synod in strongly recommending to men and women religious that they wear their proper habit, suitably adapted to the conditions of time and place.


Obviously the Pope was not suggesting that congregations who are not supposed to wear the habit don it as a sign to the faithful. In fact, he goes on in* Vita consecrata* to say the exact opposite.
Where valid reasons of their apostolate call for it, Religious, in conformity with the norms of their Institute, may also dress in a simple and modest manner, with an appropriate symbol, in such a way that their consecration is recognizable.

Why would it be important for their consecration to be recognizable if it were not an important sign in some respect? This seems to strongly resonate with his early statement that the habit is to be worn as a visible witness to the consecrated life.

I would suggest that a reasonable person could conclude from Blessed JP2’s statement that one of the purposes of the habit or other sign of consecration is to serve as a visible sign or witness to religious life.

Perhaps. The above mentioned quote would seem to disagree.
Thank you for pointing this document out, I will have to read it in full when I have the time but…

What the pope said in the excerpt you have provide does not disagree with what I said. There is a subtle difference but it is there.

The pope said that the habit is a sort of witness, we could argue the exact meaning of what he said but I won’t. I said that religious do not wear the habit as a witness.

See the difference? While it may be a witness, that is not the intention of the habit for religious.
I don’t think so. The Laity have every right to expect that their religious act like religious. To some, perhaps due to poor catechesis and lack of understanding of religious life in general, this includes dressing in the habit. They can be right or they can be wrong however, neither one imply they are projecting issues. Though I have read enough of your posts that I am confident that you did not intend it this way, comments which suggest they are projecting issues frankly come across as condescending.
Though it is no excuse, lay people saying that a religious is somehow deficient because they do not live up to the standard they (the lay people) set is not condescending? If you do not believe that lay people do this just do a search on this topic and you will find it.
Agreed. I would never suggest for one moment that the wearing of a habit or lack thereof in anyway affects the magnitude of the vows which are undertaken by religious.
Our primary witness is our public vows.
 
Thank you for pointing this document out, I will have to read it in full when I have the time but…

What the pope said in the excerpt you have provide does not disagree with what I said. There is a subtle difference but it is there.

The pope said that the habit is a sort of witness, we could argue the exact meaning of what he said but I won’t. I said that religious do not wear the habit as a witness.
I do not see where the Pope said that a habit is a “sort of a witness”. He stated that people are sensitive to signs. He then stated that religious have a role to play because they are called to be a witness to their belonging to Christ. He went on to say that the habit is a visible sign of consecration.
See the difference? While it may be a witness, that is not the intention of the habit for religious.
Yes I see the difference but I would also humbly suggest that it is not necessarily up to the religious what aspects of their lives resonate with the lay faithful.

The Church goes out of her way to stimulate all of our body’s senses because in her wisdom she recognizes that touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound are all important aspects of our humanity. It is not necessary for a priest to wear his vestments or the roman collar for him to be a priest. It is not necessary for a church building to be beautiful for the sacrifice of the Mass to take place. We do it because visible signs are important and the Church recognizes this.

In a secular comparison, a physician has no reason to wear a lab coat into the exam room but they do to create the proper visible impression associated with their station in life. Do airline pilots really need to be in pseudo military uniforms to fly a commercial plane? Hardly, but it again serves as a visible sign as to who and what they are. A habit for someone who is consecrated religious can serve in similar capacity regardless of their original intent.

In the Decree on the Renewal and Adaptation of Religious Life it states that a habit is intended to be an outward mark of consecration to God. An outward mark obviously creates the intent for someone to see such a mark and be affected by it. St. Basil stated that the value of a religious habit is to help the one who wears it to realize his station in life and protect him from unbecoming conduct. So, I am in complete agreement that there are other reasons for wearing the habit than serving as a sign or witness to others. But that does not mean that a religious wearing his/her habit serving as a sign or witness to others can be discounted either. It can easily be both, rather than either/or.

I would also humbly suggest that one never knows how God is going to use things to further His plan. If a member of the laity looks at the religious differently because he/she is wearing the habit and that causes them to contemplate the meaning of religious consecration in some way, perhaps that is how God wants it. If a student in junior high looks at a religious sister differently because she is in the habit and that causes him or her to act more appropriately, perhaps that is part of God’s plan. Hopefully, we’ll all find out some day and we can talk about it then…😉
Though it is no excuse, lay people saying that a religious is somehow deficient because they do not live up to the standard they (the lay people) set is not condescending? If you do not believe that lay people do this just do a search on this topic and you will find it.
I’m sure there are those who act in such fashion but I do not think they represent the majority. It was Fulton Sheen who said: Who is going to save our Church? Not our Bishops, not our Priests and Religious. Your mission is to see that your Priests act like Priests, your Bishops like Bishops and your Religious act like Religious. I’m sure some take that too far but it would also suggest however that the laity do have some role in the process.
Our primary witness is our public vows.
Agreed, without a doubt.

None of this has anything to do with the OP or topic of the thread which is the wearing of habits by lay members of an order. I am in agreement that such a thing is likely a bad idea. I personally would not want to do so. If I were to go on a retreat with the order and the option existed to wear the habit, I would likely do so. I would also be interested in burial in the habit. Should I get to the point where I am accepted into the Dominican Laity I will explore those things. But I have no desire to walk into my anatomical assessment class Wed morning wearing a habit. You can be sure of that. 😉
 
Yet as I said, the religious do not wear their habits to be a witness.

The laity that think so are getting it just plain wrong.

The habit is not worn for lay people. These people are just projecting something of their own issues onto religious.

The witness that a religious lives, which every religious lives regardless of a habit, is our public vows, be they simple or solemn.
It’s not Either Or. It’s BOTH.
A member of a third order is supposed to live out the charism of the order and that “living out the charism” should be at least as big as whatever sign of the order they happen to be wearing. Otherwise it’s a bit of a fib, isn’t it?? BOTH are important.

While I understand that it’s important that we’re not totally invisible and I do think that it’s important that we wear a distinctive sign, I think the Tau is just fine for secular Franciscans. It’s appropriate to wear while working and it’s small enough that it’s not just flashy, which it would be if it were big considering where we go and what we do to make a living etc. (Think taking toddlers to the bathroom in the local Walmart or changing a tire in the rain. Come on people.)

PS. The concept of wearing a habit only to monthly meetings totally escapes me. Totally. I don’t get it. Is this play-acting or what? I mean, after the meeting, when the habit is put in the closet for the whole month, what happens?

I mean if the habit symbolizes the commitment, and you put it away for the other 29 days or whatever, then…? But if it doesn’t symbolize the commitment, then what does it symbolize? Is this really all about belonging or ? Not sure.

Only my opinion. Don’t mean to offend anybody. I may just be missing the point. It’s happened before. :rolleyes:
 
Okay…maybe it’s just me being a 20 year old and a relatively new Catholic…but I would very much appreciate it if someone could simplify what is going on. I’m getting fairly confused because everyone really just seems to be arguing against each other, and maybe this is not the case, but with all this information and what not, I am starting to get really confused.

Maybe I’m just being stupid. 🤷 I’m mainly confused about why SFO’s are or aren’t different than any other third order? Are they or aren’t they? I mean wouldn’t it still be a vocation? And why would it be so bad for a secular person joining a third order to wear the full habit? Because wouldn’t they still be a part of that order or not?

Yeah. I’m just super confused 😦 I’m not trying to argue, I’m just trying to understand.
 
I’m glad someone revived this thread.

I had some questions about the SFO and found lots of answers in this thread. 👍
 
Maybe I’m just being stupid. 🤷 I’m mainly confused about why SFO’s are or aren’t different than any other third order? Are they or aren’t they? I mean wouldn’t it still be a vocation? And why would it be so bad for a secular person joining a third order to wear the full habit? Because wouldn’t they still be a part of that order or not?
Don’t worry about the confusion, it is easy for that to happen. It does to me all the time. One of the things that is different about SFO’s as compared to other “third” orders is that they are autonomous in terms of their leadership. For example, the lay Dominicans fall under the governance of the Master of the Order, who is a Friar. The Secular Franciscans are not under the authority of any of the other branches of the family. As Brother JR has pointed out on the thread multiple times, a Friar might serve as a spiritual director, but he cannot interfere in their business.

As for your next question, it absolutely would be considered a vocation. With regards to the full habit, it would be bad to wear it because it is not their charism to do so. Persons who are joining lay/secular orders are called to live the spirituality and the Rule of that order in the regular world. As such, they need to fit in with the regular world. Walking around in the full habit would automatically set them apart from everyone else. However, this does not make them any more or less Franciscan, Dominican, etc. When I make my professions as a Dominican I will wear the Dominican Scapular and Cross. That will serve as my habit. Current constitutions of the order would allow me to be buried in the full habit when I die but that may or may not change. Either way, on the day I profess, I will be just as Dominican as any Friar or Sister.
Yeah. I’m just super confused 😦 I’m not trying to argue, I’m just trying to understand.
No worries at all. I think some of the confusion comes from people who do not understand the SFO and believe them to function the same as others do. This is not the case.

I hope that my comments have helped somewhat.

Peace,
 
I would also add to my post above that if you are drawn to a particular order it should be due to their spirituality, way of live, and the charism of their founder rather than whether or not you would be wearing the full habit, scapular, tau, etc.

It sounds obvious I know, but sometimes I wonder… 😃

Peace,
 
I am a professed third order carmelite < lay carmelite>. The large scapular we wear , as a group, at our meetings bring the community into focus. We are part of the carmelite family, we are secular not religious. We have been called to a different vocation.
The carmelite spiritually is one of prayer, meditation ,contemplation. We do this daily in our private life, and monthly as a group at our community meetings. When death overtakes us we are allowed to be buried with our full habits.
 
I am a professed third order carmelite < lay carmelite>. The large scapular we wear , as a group, at our meetings bring the community into focus. We are part of the carmelite family, we are secular not religious. We have been called to a different vocation.
The carmelite spiritually is one of prayer, meditation ,contemplation. We do this daily in our private life, and monthly as a group at our community meetings. When death overtakes us we are allowed to be buried with our full habits.
Thanks for sharing!

If I am understanding you properly, you have a smaller scapular that you would wear daily, and a larger one that you would wear during your monthly meetings or even perhaps during other formal occasions (profession of a new member, etc.).

Is that accurate?
 
Thanks for sharing!

If I am understanding you properly, you have a smaller scapular that you would wear daily, and a larger one that you would wear during your monthly meetings or even perhaps during other formal occasions (profession of a new member, etc.).

Is that accurate?
Accurate on both counts! We receive new members at reception and later when they
are professed in a seperate ceremony.
 
I have read through this blog and am afraid that it has missed a critical point. By illustration, I will not do business with someone who puts the fish on his business card. My christianity is based on living the gospel, not wearing it on my sleeve. Secular Franciscans do no wear a religious habit because, 1. we are not religious, 2. our actions and lifestyle should be sufficient to give witness to our religious beliefs, 3 the TAU that we wear is sufficient - ffor me it is a daily reminder that I am called to live the gospel.
 
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