Selfish intentions?

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Hello All,

I’m being drawn to pray a novena to St. Joseph for an intention. My problem is, the outcome I am requesting is entirely for my betterment, and what I want. I feel very selfish every time I think about it. Should I just pass it up, or should I give it a go and ask for help from Christ’s adopted dad?

Any advice welcome…
 
That depends upon your attitude during the Novena. If you pray with the attitude of: “This is what I would like God to do for me but only if it is His Will and only if it is for the glory of God and good for my salvation.” then you will be okay. We should actually pray for EVERYTHING with that attitude.
 
Hello All,

I’m being drawn to pray a novena to St. Joseph for an intention. My problem is, the outcome I am requesting is entirely for my betterment, and what I want. I feel very selfish every time I think about it. Should I just pass it up, or should I give it a go and ask for help from Christ’s adopted dad?

Any advice welcome…
A good rule of thumb is to ask along with every prayer (and you can just say it internally)…

“Lord, if this be your will, then please answer my prayer. If what I ask is not your will, then I’m okay with that. I only wish what you will for me.”
 
+JMJ+

Trustful Surrender to Divine Providence, Part II, Chapter I
“We Do Not Ask Enough”

It is clear then that we do not receive anything because we do not ask enough. God could not give us little, He could not restrict His liberality to small things without doing us grave harm. Do not misunderstand me. I am not saying that we offend God if we ask for temporal benefits or to be freed from misfortune. Obviously prayers of this kind can rightly be addressed to Him by making the condition that they are not contrary to His glory or our eternal salvation. But as it is hardly likely that it would redound to His glory for Him to answer them, or to our advantage to have them answered if our wishes end there, it must be repeated that **as long as we are content with little we run the risk of obtaining nothing.
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Let me show you a good way to ask for happiness even in this world. It is a way that will oblige God to listen to you. Say to him earnestly: Either give me so much money that my heart will be satisfied, or inspire me with such contempt for it that I no longer want it.

Either free me from poverty, or make it so pleasant for me that I would not exchange it for all the wealth in the world. Either take away my suffering, or – which would be to your greater glory – change it into delight for me, and instead of causing me affliction, let it become a source of joy. You can take away the burden of my cross, or you can leave it with me without my feeling its weight. You can extinguish the fire that burns me, or you can let it burn in such a way that it refreshes me as it did the three youths in the fiery furnace. I ask you for either one thing or the other. What does it matter in what way I am happy? If I am happy through the possession of worldly goods, it is you I have to thank. If I am happy when deprived of them, it gives you greater glory and my thanks are all the greater.

This is the kind of prayer worthy of being offered to God by a true Christian. When you pray in this way, do you know what the effect of your prayers will be? First, you will be satisfied whatever happens; and what else do those who most desire this world’s goods want except to be satisfied? Secondly, you will not only obtain without fail one of the two things you have asked for but, as a rule, you will obtain both of them. God will give you the enjoyment of wealth, and so that you may possess it without the danger of becoming attached to it, He will inspire you at the same time with contempt for it. He will put an end to your sufferings and even more He will leave you with a desire for them which will give you all the merit of patience without having to suffer. In a word He will make you happy here and now, and lest your happiness should do you harm, He will let you know and feel the emptiness of it. Can one ask for anything better? But if such a great blessing is well worth being asked for, remember that still more is it worth being asked for with insistence. For the reason why we obtain little is not only because we ask for little but still more because, whether we ask a little or we ask a lot, we do not ask often enough.
 
Hello All,

I’m being drawn to pray a novena to St. Joseph for an intention. My problem is, the outcome I am requesting is entirely for my betterment, and what I want. I feel very selfish every time I think about it. Should I just pass it up, or should I give it a go and ask for help from Christ’s adopted dad?

Any advice welcome…
If it is a necessity for your well being,why not?If it were to possess a particular virtue to further instill greater piety and sanctity;even better!
 
From one of my ebooks on St. Joseph:

“Would that I could persuade all men to be devoted to St. Joseph, for I know by long experience what blessings he can obtain for us from God. I have never known anyone who was truly devoted to him and honored him by particular services who did not advance greatly in virtue: for he helps in a special way those souls who commend themselves to him. It is now very many years since I began asking him for something on his feast, and I have always received it. If the petition was in any way amiss, he rectified it for my greater good . . . I ask for the love of God that he who does not believe me will make the trial for himself – then he will find out by experience the great good that results from commending oneself to this glorious Patriarch and in being devoted to him . . .”…from the Autobiography of St. Teresa of Avila

In other words, St. Joseph is well known for answering petitions positively, but he always does God’s will first.

Trust in God and good St. Joseph – ask big. Don’t be afraid to ask for your own needs. God wants to give His children all good things. He loves that you recognize that you are dependent on Him.

Both the Eternal Father and St. Joseph are great fathers…and assure yourself God through St. Joseph will only give you what is truly best for you-- and you have a great saint (St. Teresa) vouching for it as well.

stjoe4u2
www.CatholicChurchSaints.com
 
Hello All,

I’m being drawn to pray a novena to St. Joseph for an intention. My problem is, the outcome I am requesting is entirely for my betterment, and what I want. I feel very selfish every time I think about it. Should I just pass it up, or should I give it a go and ask for help from Christ’s adopted dad?

Any advice welcome…
Pra, pra, pra for whatever you want…
God is our Daddy. OK
Dont our children ask us for the most crazy things ?
 
Hello All,

I’m being drawn to pray a novena to St. Joseph for an intention. My problem is, the outcome I am requesting is entirely for my betterment, and what I want. I feel very selfish every time I think about it. Should I just pass it up, or should I give it a go and ask for help from Christ’s adopted dad?

Any advice welcome…
Don’t be discouraged! Pray that God’s Holy will be done with regard to your request. He knows what is best for you. Ask God that He give you a perfect love of Jesus Christ and to deny your request if it is not for your own good. Don’t be afraid! You should be real honest in your prayer. It may be a temptation that you are undergoing for the love of God. Seek His will and you won’t go wrong.

I have had similar thoughts for asking for what would seem “selfish” motives. Just be honest in your prayer. God loves you and wants you all to Himself.

God bless you and I will pray for you.

houston1
 
Don’t worry. If it isn’t good for you, God can always say no.

However, never become discouraged in prayer, Christ told at least a couple of parables about the necessity for persistence in prayer. And remember, when He prayed to be spared the cruxsifiction, God did not spare Him but sent an angel to strengthen Him in order to do what needed to be done.

As others have said, be open to God’s will when you payr.
 
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