Our intention is more valuable to the Lord than our attention. If we can give both, we should, but we cannot always do so.
Realize that the rosary is a series of meditations on certain mysteries. The essential thing is not that we understand them well, but that we cling to them as supernatural “secrets” told to us by God. That’s how we make acts of Faith, and Faith is how we ultimately posture to mysteries. Who understands these things outside the beatific vision?
But when we are “bored” by these mysteries or by the rote prayers, then sometimes that’s a sign for us to step back and think once again, “Why is this mystery so profound?” While we can never understand these things fully, here on earth, there’s no shame in trying to understand the mystery as much as we possibly can.
Wasn’t it Mary herself who first “pondered all these things in her heart” (Luke 2:19)? In a sense, she prayed the rosary first. We do this in part to imitate her motherly interest in that extraordinary, Divine person who, that one memorable day, became part of her life quite suddenly. If Christ became part of our lives like that, all our other loves would quickly pale, and our interest would focus in intensely on this God, cloaked in the flesh of a baby. Our curiosity would be insatiable. “His little hand is holding my finger – God is holding my finger!” Such were probably the thoughts of the Blessed Virgin. True, those mysteries happened a long time ago, and we are not perfectly certain about all the details, but Faith makes them generally accessible to us, and puts us in a real communion with them.
When we pray the rosary, we walk with Mary and share her interests. Or rather, she shares her interests with us. She wants us to be intensely interested and occupied by this incredible person, Jesus Christ, when we meditate upon the mysteries of the rosary, and of course at certain other times too. We all have, to some degree, an experience of being deeply interested – perhaps to a spouse, to a ministry, to a child, to a parent, etc. It is easy to figure out who that special person of Mary’s life was. Actually, her love for this Jesus was and is so great that only God Himself can comprehend it. But, by Faith, the rest of us get an invitation to come into meaningful contact with her love, and Christ’s love for her. We approach her, not awkwardly as strangers, but as her adopted children, and therefore as siblings to Christ. So when we meditate on these mysteries, we are no strangers. We actually belong in the picture. Jesus made this clear to us, as then he did to St. John: “Behold, your mother” (John 19:27).