Absolutely see what you are saying… the point i was trying to make, possibly not clearly, is that there isn’t a separation of Church and State in the sense that faith doesn’t impact on how people vote. The threads all seem to agree that most people vote based on their faith. The issue seems to be purely down to numbers.
There just aren’t enough people following the Catholic Church to see this represented at political polls. Democracy relies on people voting with their feet ( a British phrase -

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Would the debate on separation between Church and State be such a talking point if at the polls 70% of voters on issues covered under Catholic morality were in fact Catholic? I’m not sure it would be. The debate seems to center around as you say, “forcing” one’s faith onto the population, but this seems a bit of a bizarre way of explaining it. Isn’t this point arguable from the other direction that as Catholic we are having secular beliefs forced on us.
When you break it down the as every person votes on their own morality and beliefs, that’s democracy in play. Surely the fact that the laws are so secular based in their perception is simply because secular non Catholic beliefs are held by more people than there are Catholics?
I don’t intend to start a debate on the specific issues i simply am trying to understand why the debate seems to center on the theology behind debating the relationship between Church and State, rather than the practicality of how we can become the majority voice in society? Hope that makes sense.