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Guest
I put my daughter’s cremains into our cemetery plot on August 1. I did this in obedience to the second ‘prompt’ I received and it has had intense emotional repercussions that I was not fully prepared for and that are continuing. One of the results of this burial was part of what was “told” me, that our house (the one I bought for her here upstate and has not, for any good reason, sold) would sell. Three days after her burial a couple saw the house and have now made me a reasonable offer. Hopefully, the sale will go through without flaw.
Meanwhile, I sent several emails to her Aunts and her half sister asking why they were unable to offer any sympathy on the day of the burial of her cremains: nothing fancy, nothing expensive, a simply note or even word of mouth given to her Dad who was there. As a result, her Dad is now furious with me, telling me whom I can and cannot email or call. He is supporting the house (since my social security is small) but he has no right to tell me what to say and to whom to say it. Nothing I said in any of the emails was inappropriate: condemning, judging, insulting. People need to understand the results of their inactions. I will discuss this with my confessor tomorrow. Meanwhile, I beg you to please pray that the sale goes forward so I can be free of this man and his family, none of whom ever acknowledged my daughter as one of them or ever offered any support during all of her psychiatric hospitalizations. Pray also that God forgives me of the inability to forgive them, I do pray for them daily.
Meanwhile, I sent several emails to her Aunts and her half sister asking why they were unable to offer any sympathy on the day of the burial of her cremains: nothing fancy, nothing expensive, a simply note or even word of mouth given to her Dad who was there. As a result, her Dad is now furious with me, telling me whom I can and cannot email or call. He is supporting the house (since my social security is small) but he has no right to tell me what to say and to whom to say it. Nothing I said in any of the emails was inappropriate: condemning, judging, insulting. People need to understand the results of their inactions. I will discuss this with my confessor tomorrow. Meanwhile, I beg you to please pray that the sale goes forward so I can be free of this man and his family, none of whom ever acknowledged my daughter as one of them or ever offered any support during all of her psychiatric hospitalizations. Pray also that God forgives me of the inability to forgive them, I do pray for them daily.